I love that. The new way of breaking up right now is via Facebook.
Status: Single.
Status: It’s complicated.
Status: Single again.
Do you know how many clients I talk to who have been broken up….

“She broke up with me out of the blue”
Have you ever thought that when you were in a relationship that came to an end? Have you ever been completely taken by surprise?
I don’t think there’s any truth to a statement like that. Nobody gets dumped just like that out of the blue. Nobody wakes up one morning, everything perfect in the relationship, and then gets dumped just like that out of the blue. Similarly, nobody in a wonderful relationship wakes up one morning and decides to dump their significant other out of the blue, just because they felt like it for no particular reason. It doesn’t work that way.

The other day I received a great email from a very special man named John. John took one of my bootcamp’s that I had in London several years ago and he had something that he needed my help on. John, being in the Christmas spirit, also volunteered to share his email with all of you. [...]

Yesterday we talked all about tactless breakups.

What’s up with some people and how they breakup with someone? Recently, a friend of mine emailed me and said, “My girlfriend broke up with me the other day via email.”

How long after a breakup should you wait before you start dating again?

An EX is an ex because they are an EXample of what not to do in the future.

I get asked a lot about how to “properly” break up with someone. Breaking up is really a hard thing to do. I’ve written about this in the past, but I keep getting this question. So maybe I should tackle this subject again. Breaking up is tough. You could do it like Sylvester Stallone and break up with someone via FedEx.

One thing you notice when you get to the breakup point is that you actually fight less with your partner. You fight less because in your mind and in your heart you start detaching yourself from the other person, and you don’t care as much anymore. You have already made a determination that they don’t understand you, that they will never understand you and that the relationship just won’t work out with them. So, all of a sudden…

We never really talked about breaking up in the blog. Today is going to be the first of a few blogs in which I will talk more about this. In this blog, I want to discuss something called “the breaking point.”
A lot of you have been in multiple relationships. I would say all of you have probably been in at least one relationship. No matter in how many relationships you’ve been, however, all relationships have what I call a breaking point.