When you’re hanging out with friends on a Sunday, do you have a good time?

Do you go to places you enjoy? Or do you go to places you hate, just because you think you might meet somebody – for example, standing in a bar, bored out of your mind, hands in your pockets playing pocket pool?

Remember pocket pool? It was something that all young boys used to play all the time during the age when the random boner would pop up out of nowhere.

I remember that random boner stage so well – I remember Lisa Rutman in my 9th grade Spanish class, and how I got a D one semester because I sat next to Lisa Rutman and just stared at those perky breasts the entire semester.

Breasts were quite a fascination to me for quite sometime during my teenage years. I remember one time Mr. McBride called me up and said, “Davíd,” (because we were in Spanish), and he told me to go up to the board and write down an answer from last night’s homework.

I had done my homework the night before (one of the rare occasions) but because of the perky breasts and the random boner phase I was in, I was not eager to go up to the front of the classroom right then. He looked at me and said, “Davíd, you never want to come up to the board, but this time you have to!”

So I had this huge erection that I had no idea what the hell to do with, but luckily I had learned the ‘upward tuck’ move at a very young age. So I quickly put my hand in my pocket and I took my boner and tucked it up near my belt loop area – the upward tuck.

The problem with the upward tuck is that the boner always starts to do the sideways dance and then you’re in trouble. You look like you have a young bulge in your pants.

Luckily that day I was able to keep my boner in the upward tuck while I was up at the board by focusing on my stimulus (Lisa Rutman’s breasts.) I limped back to my seat and back into my fantasy world.

But this blog is not about 14-year-old’s spontaneous erections. Thank god we no longer have those! Can you imagine sitting in your office cubicle?

Back to the blog: do you have fun in your life? Do you do things that are fun? At the end of the week, do you judge the week based on the amount of phone numbers you got or the number of women you met? Or do you judge it on the amount of great times you had?

We were just walking down Main Street in Santa Monica – something I’ve done thousands of times. I really enjoy it; I like the shops, I like the people that run the shops.

I hate the drivers around here though. Here is an open note to anyone who drives 31 miles per hour in the left hand lane: if people are honking at you all the time, it’s about you! It’s not about them! You didn’t just happen to drive near all of the assholes on the road, YOU are the asshole! So wake up, use your rearview mirror and check out how many angry drivers are behind you!

So now that we’ve discussed spontaneous erections and bad drivers let’s get back to the matter at hand. So we were on Main Street and just enjoying ourselves. We walked into this one furniture store that I’ve been into before, and I always seem to take bootcamp guys into – there are a couple of really cute girls that work there!

I went in there, and I looked at a couch, and I said, “that looks really comfortable, do you mind if I sit down and take a nap?” She replied, “sure! No problem,” and then she said, “you’ve been in here before, what’s your name?” I told her my name, and she told me hers (which of course I’ve already forgotten, which is very typical of me) and then we started talking.

Soon another salesgirl and the other guys sat down and then we had a group of people sitting down and talking on the couches while other customers came in that they ignored!

Bottom line: do you have fun? If you have fun, people are going to be attracted to you and your energy.

People aren’t going to be attracted to you because you drive 31 in the left lane when the speed limit is 50, and they are definitely not going to be attracted to you if walk around with a random boner in the upward tuck position, but they will be attracted to you if you’re having fun!

Todays video goes even deeper into how to create this powerful attraction.

Have you ever woken up with that morning erection? Most guys do.

But here’s the thing about it – the way to wake up with a morning erection is not to poke her in the back between the ribs and say, “look at my dick!” That doesn’t work. We’ve all tried that plenty of times before.

Hell, I’ve even written a blog about ‘morning boner,’ which really talks about all the ways to turn her off with your morning boner – here’s the link:

But how do you really turn her on in the morning?

Well, you should just act like the boner is no big deal. Ignore the boner! Act like you’ve already had it. Just like we talk about when you’re seducing a woman, make it seem like you’ve done this a thousand times – like you just had sex last night, but she doesn’t know it.

So what do you do with this morning boner?

You just kind of casually brush it up against her. You kiss her a little bit. You don’t acknowledge it – you let her acknowledge it. Because if she feels that throbbing member close to her, and you’re not acting like a four-year-old saying, “feel my dick!” she’s going to get really turned on.

So what’s a great way to turn her on, and keep her hot all day long?

Give her what she wants, but don’t release what you need to do. This means you should climb inside of her, and get her off a few times in the morning, but don’t cum. Tell her you want to build it up all day long; tell her you want to think about her all day long.

Tell her you want to have a fun, long session that night, but right now, it’s all about her. You just want to get her off and you want to make her feel really good.

That is going to get her amped up all day long. She’s going to be all over Mr. Boner later on that day. She’ll be thinking about that boner all day long, and she’s going to be dreaming about that boner all day long.

Make it about her for a little while, because when you make it about her, you’re really going to turn her on and make her feel great. You’re really going to go further sexually than you’ve ever gone before.

So the next time you wake up with a morning boner, get her off! Go side to side – which is one of my favorite positions – side to side, leg on top of her, rolled on the side. Take your morning boner, put it inside and start rubbing her clit gently. Get her to cum a few quick times. Give her that morning orgasm.

And then you just kick back and wait until later, because she will give you the ride of your life that night!