In reality, there are only a few things in life on which you are an expert, but one of those things is your errands. You’re an expert at your errands — and about the places you go time and time again as part of your errands.

How many times have you been to that same supermarket? You’ve been there and seen those women you’re attracted to a thousand times.

How many times have you run into Starbucks to get your morning coffee and seen that woman you’re attracted to also getting hers. How many times have you ordered coffee there? You’re an expert there.

How many times do you go to the dry cleaner, the library or a bookstore? If you think about it, you can see all the places in which you are already an expert where you can be meeting people.

You know the history of those places. You may have been shopping at Ralph’s for ten years, and you know that the donuts that are the shelves on Tuesdays are different than the donuts they put on the shelf on Thursdays.

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So why aren’t you meeting people in these places? The problem is that you get into these places and you go right into your head . . . and inside your head is a bad neighborhood.

The worst block in that neighborhood is at the intersection of Fear Avenue and Insecure Boulevard. It’s a horrible place.

It’s not only bad, but the traffic lights never work. Everybody is stuck right in the middle of it. No one knows which car should go first, which person should walk, and which person should turn right or left.

So if you are stuck at that intersection of Fear Avenue and Insecure Boulevard, what do you do about it? You become the leader.

You realize that you are an expert in that intersection. You’ve already been through that intersection a million times. So you need to bring yourself back to the moment, and really grind into your head where you are.

So if you are at Ralph’s and you see a woman standing there staring at the donut boxes, just take a second to look around, observe and realize you’ve eaten donuts your entire life. You’ve dreamed of donuts even before you could eat donuts. (I hope you’ve figured out that donuts is just the analogy here.)

You’re in a place where you are truly an expert. So really allow your brain to process all the signals that are going on around you, and then speak with authority.

I don’t care if you walk up and just say something like, “I like the white powdered sugar ones better, but really what are you in the mood for?” Whatever you say, just say it with authority. Speak with clarity and passion in your voice.

You’re an expert at the places you go to run your errands, but you refuse to use your brain and state the obvious with confidence. You are an expert in all these places, and yet you spend the whole time in them inside your head wondering what to do and say that is clever.

The truth is that nobody is smarter than you are in the places you go to run your errands. So take advantage of that!

Everyone is trying to figure out what the best course of action is tonight!

It is Friday night, you have been waiting all week for this night. The anticipation, the debates on what place is going to have the best selection of people to meet.

It all sounds so good on paper.

But really what is the reality?

The reality is some of you will have fun.

Some of you will chase the night looking for fun.

Some of you will stay home to avoid the night.

And some of you will just wonder, is there any alternative things to do.

The same old same old gets so stale.

You all know the definition of insanity.

Doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.

So what do all the insane do instead?

Today’s video will explore some alternate ways to have an amazing Friday night and weekend.

And one last thing.

When I was meeting the most women I never stepped foot into a bar.

If you really want to go deeper and find out about some of my favorite places to meet women check this out.

So you think that today is the day that Punxsutawney Phil actually sees his shadow? Today is the day they call Groundhog Day, but in reality in your life (and in most people’s lives) every day is Groundhog Day.

They even sing this song:

Every day is Groundhog Day
Doo dah, Doo dah
Every day is Groundhog Day
Oh Doo dah doo dah day…

Think about it. Do you do the same thing every day? I bet a lot of you do.

You wake up at virtually the same to an alarm clock (or the sound of your phone) that you probably hate. You then commute to a job, getting stuck in traffic, or maybe you take mass transportation of some kind.

At one point in that commute, you will curse at a minimum of one other driver or commuter who doesn’t allow you to get on the subway. Then when you get to your job, you probably share stories about all the awful people you encountered on the commute. Every day you do this.

Then you sit down at your desk (in your office or cubicle), and start reading and returning emails. You eat lunch, usually always at the same places or at your desk.

At night, you might mix up the routine a little bit and actually go to the gym three days a week. Then the other two evenings maybe you go and meet a friend for a cocktail. Basically every day is the same for you – Every day is Groundhog Day.

I am guessing that for most of you, that your weekends are pretty much the same too unless you’re traveling. You probably do the same things every weekend like running errands, relaxing a bit and maybe meeting a friend for lunch or brunch.

I am betting there is another thing that is a common theme in your days. I bet you wish that you could talk to and meet the person to whom you are most attracted. That wishing and wanting and desiring to meet that person that you’re most to part of your life is also Groundhog Day.

Every day is Groundhog Day
Doo dah, doo dah…

Oh c’mon, sing it.

Every day is Groundhog Day
Doo dah, doo dah…

So how are you going to shake up your life? Are you going to wait for those two weeks a year that we call vacation from Groundhog Day? Those two weeks of vacation that you prepare all year for so that you can have a break from Groundhog Day? Yet somehow, your vacations seem to turn into Groundhog Day — just your vacation version of it. It’s virtually the same vacation over and over again.

If you have trouble meeting people, and you want to meet someone, then that is the way to shake up your day. Do something different every single day. Challenge yourself every day, so that your life does not become Groundhog Day.

So today, go out and wish people a happy Goundhog Day. I’m sure you’ve never done that. Ask them if they have ever met

Ground Hog day, doo da. Today, go out, wish people happy Ground Hog Day, I’m sure you’ve never done that, and ask them if they ever met Punxsutawney Phil.

Then tomorrow, do something different. If you usually work out after work, then work out before work.

The most important thing is to start engaging and talking to people. If you talk to people all day long, it doesn’t matter if you do your same routine every day because every day will be different.

Every day you’ll learn something from a new person you meet, which will in turn get rid of your Groundhog Day syndrome. So many of us have this syndrome too.

If you want to get rid of your Groundhog Day syndrome, though, you are the only person who has the power to make that happen.

Every time you go outside today and look at the sun, are you going to wonder if you will see your shadow? I heard that if you see your shadow today, that there’s only six more years of Groundhog Days for you. It’s time that you only had six more minutes.

So what makes someone attractive to the opposite sex? What makes someone attractive in general? Anyone who is familiar with my work knows that one of the core principles I teach is that you need to put out good energy in order to attract people.

People are attracted to those who are positive, who smile, who are open and who are enjoying their life. People who walk around angry, unhappy and with closed body language will not attract anyone. These are not new concepts to anyone who reads this blog.

Here’s what is so interesting though. Even people who understand this concept tend to make a mistake in how they try to apply this.

The number one mistake that men and women make when they go out and try to meet someone of the opposite sex is that they go out to try and meet people of the opposite sex. That is, they go out with laser focus trying to locate and talk to people they are attracted to while ignoring everyone else.

If you understand what creates attraction, though, you know that it is created not just by how you interact with someone you want to attract but also by how you interact in general with the world around you.

Similarly, you attract members of the opposite sex not only by how you interact with them individually, but by how they see you interact with others. In fact, although it may initially seem counterintuitive some of you, you will actually begin to attract more members of the opposite sex the minute you stop focusing on trying to attract certain people and you start focusing on how to just become attractive in general.

To become really successful at meeting and connecting with members of the opposite sex, you need to really get this concept. The next question is, of course, HOW do you do this?

Instead of giving you the answer to this question in this blog, as a special treat for everyone I decided to answer it LIVE. I have just posted a special FREE BONUS Podcast for all of you where I talk about how you can create INSTANT ATTRACTION every day and everywhere you go.

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