Today Obi and I discuss the major difference between the sexes, especially when it comes to arguments or differences of opinion.

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The people I’ve battled with the most in life are the ones who seem to also frustrate me the most. I can love someone who also frustrates the hell out of me.

The fact is, though, that nothing is perfect all the time. It seems like there are certain people out there in this world that I have battled with over and over again on the same issues.

Do you know why we battle over and over again with certain people on the same issues? It’s because the universe is really trying to teach us a lesson. It’s to help us learn a hard lesson.

It might be something that stems from incorrect programming from childhood. it might stem from the unhealthy way we’ve handled things our whole life. Regardless of its source, certain people will come into your life who are meant to guide you, to love you or to show these lessons.

Sometimes these lessons are very difficult to learn. Sometimes it takes six, eight or even ten times to learn it.

Look back at your past relationships — whether it’s your romantic relationships, friendships or work relationships — and look at some of the fights that you had over and over again. Then drop the ego and look at how you can take responsibility for those fights.

There are two people involved in every relationship. If somebody says the same things to you over and over again about something that bothers them, then you need to look deep inside and see how that behavior is affecting other people. It might be a behavior that is really not healthy for you to have as you move on in your life.

If you love or respect someone and you brought them into your life, then you brought them into your life for a reason. This is especially true in love relationships.

Some romantic partners we bring into our life to be ultimately end up being our friends. Some romantic partners we bring into our life just to teach us something so we can move forward to our next great relationship.

Do you ever sit down and write all the things you have learned? Do you ever write down all the things about you that have driven people crazy over and over again?

It is when you stop blaming and stop defending that the real life lessons are learned. It is pretty powerful to really let that totally come out and allow yourself to be open to these biggest of life’s lessons.

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Now don’t mistake what I’m saying. The world is pretty equal in a lot of ways, and women are very successful in the business world. Women have become equally independent to men in many cases, buying their own homes and achieving financial success equal to (or sometimes greater than) men.

The way most successful career women became successful, though, is they fought for it. They played “the man’s game.” They challenged men head-on in the boardroom, at business meetings, in court and in sales.

They were tough. They were ambitious. They were competitive. They were aggressive. They took charge.

All of these qualities are fantastic for women to have and utilize to become successful in their careers. They are the same qualities that men can carry over into their dating lives and which will attract women they meet. As a woman, though, the reverse is not really true.

If you’re a woman and you’re out on a date, the guy doesn’t want to be interrogated by the CEO. The guy also doesn’t want to be interrogated by the top saleswoman, lawyer, or executive. The guy wants to be with the feminine part of you.

So what you need to do when you’re out on a date is to bring out your feminine side. You need to bring out the woman that the guy wants to see.

Now granted, unless you’ve just met a man he already knows what you do for a living and how successful you are. So don’t think I’m talking about hiding or downplaying any of your career success. I’m also not talking about you needing to be less successful than any man you date.

What I’m saying is that it’s okay to let a man be “the man” in the dating dynamic. A lot of women have become the man in their relationships. They’ve become the CEO of their relationships. They’ve become the CEO of the bedroom.

Now I understand that it can difficult for women to initially switch gears between how they act at work and how they act when they’re in a personal relationship with men. I also don’t want any woman to think that men don’t appreciate some of these “career qualities” in women. Men love women who are smart and passionate about their lives.

The fact of the matter is, though, that it is your feminine energy that attracts men to you – it’s the way you act, the way you smell, the way you touch and the way you taste. So if you’re looking to connect with men on a deeper level, you need to be able to separate the “work you” from the “personal side you.”

Men need to see the personal side of you and experience your feminine energy when you’re out on a date with them, because they don’t want to go out with an interrogator. They don’t want to feel like they’re on a job interview. They don’t want to feel like they’re being evaluated and questioned.

This is a quality that a lot of very successful women bring into the dating world. They interact with men on a date the same way they interact with men on the job. While men will respect you for this in the boardroom, it will not create attraction for you in the dating world.

If you are one of these successful career women, you need to find your feminine side again so you can take her out when you leave the office. In order to become a great feminine woman again, you need to tap into the very sexy side of you that you’ve hidden.

Remember that when you’re on a date with a man, that you don’t have to battle him like you do men at work. You don’t need to battle with us at dinner. You don’t need to battle with us in the bedroom. Then again, a battle in the bedroom can sometimes be a lot of fun . . .