You know about whom I am talking. Take this example. You are playing basketball with a bunch of people, and there is always that one guy who never got over losing the high school championship.

He is being overly competitive, trash talking nonstop and arguing over every call. Every time you go up to make a shot, he fouls you but never says anything (although he taunts you afterwards).

Every time he goes up for a shot, however, he cries “foul!” even if you barely brushed him. He will start screaming at the ref, “Did you see that?! Didn’t you see him foul me?!”

Everybody allows this guy to act this way. They will just make light of it by saying something like, “That’s just Jim. Just get drunk with him later and he’ll be fine.”

How do you deal with this type of person, especially if you are not that guy who wants to wait for booze to bring out his “good personality?” How do you deal with this kind of person when they are in the midst of their bad behavior?

When you are confronted with someone like this who is confrontational by nature, you need to address them directly about it. So using the basketball example above, when the guy gets all out of sorts during a game you should look at him and say “Man, I come here to play to relax. I really do. You need to stop bitching. You sound like a woman on her period. You just nag, nag, nag. Do you ever listen to yourself? You complain nonstop. It’s enough already. Just play the game.”

You call the person out on their behavior, because people like this rarely are called out on their behavior. Everyone just allows them to act the way they do.

Then when someone does actually call them out, they will usually get a little defensive and say something like “Relax, I was just kidding.” All of a sudden you will see that person’s behavior completely change, and they will try to be your friend.

The reason their behavior will change is because they are actually waiting to be called out. People are strange sometimes. Why do they wait to be called out?

They are so used to being the guy who can push everyone around. They are so used to being being the guy who gets away with everything. So when someone actually stands up to them, they respect that person.

So the next time you are confronted with someone like this, be sure to call them out! It is what they really want you to do, and what you really need to do.

I can’t believe that their leader is the same as ours – Jacob – or that when they killed Jacob they also killed Yakub. For those of you who didn’t know before where he lives, he lives in a foot.

How is Locke dead and alive at the same time. Also, poor Sawyer! He finally finds love . . . only to have it slip through his fingers.

I’ll be coaching the Bootcamp this weekend. For the rest of you who want to meet women, I suggest you grab a basketball, head to the park and play this great new game.

Remember when you were a kid, and you and your friends used to go out on a late summer day (when the sky was still blue and the sun was not as blazing hot), and you challenged your friends to a fun game of Horse?

Do you remember challenging your friends to a game of Horse? It’s a game played with a basketball where you had to spell out the letters H-O-R-S-E, and the loser would probably get a noogie or a dead-leg or something. It was fun tossing the ball into the hoop and doing some male bonding.

I mentioned this old game to a female friend of mine, who suggested that an adult version of this kid classic might be pretty fun. Instead of calling it Horse, though, you’d call it “Whore.”

She suggested that to play Whore, the object would be to spell it — W-H-O-R-E. Instead of a noogie, the loser becomes the other person’s whore for the night, and would have to perform anything sexual that the winner wants. Now there’s a good date!

Another version of this game could be called “Strip Whore,” and could be a closer version to the original. When you’re playing this version, make sure you do it late at night and in your own backyard. Play it just like Horse with the basketball, except as each person spells out a letter they must remove an article of clothing. It’s going to get really hard to concentrate on your shots after a few letters are spelled out.