Hey readers, Shogo here. Fresh back from London from an amazing weeklong program and weekend boot camp, and I’ve got another Friday edition for you!

This Friday’s blog was going to be another tip from me on navigating the bar scene. I was going to talk about cockblocking, but I’ve been reading some of the recent comments on the blog, and instead I want to write today’s blog in response to some of the comments. We’ll talk about cockblocks next week.

It is Friday. Let’s talk about what it would be like to have a Fearless Friday. Let’s talk about the fears and excuses that a lot of you have creeping into your mind as the night wears on. A lot of you are probably in front of your computer or on your phone right now, texting, e-mailing, you are at different stages of planning out what you’re going to be doing tonight. You’ve waited all week for Friday night. This is going to be the night that…

Shogo here with another weekend post for you guys!

As some of you guys who’ve been following the blog lately may know, I’ve been in New York apartment hunting the past few days. It’s my old stomping ground, so while I’ve been here, I’ve also been going out a lot catching up with old friends.

Hey Guys, Shogo here with another Weekend tip for you!

I was at a friend’s house for a BBQ recently, and a few of them were planning on going out to bars that night. I started talking to two guys, really cool guys, who were asking me for tips on where to go out and meet women. One of them was in a relationship, so it was the other guy who wanted to meet somebody that night, maybe get some phone numbers.

Hey guys, Shogo back again with another Friday bar post. I’ve been on hiatus the past couple weeks, David and I are working on an amazing new program that you guys are sure to love! But for now I figured it’s about time to get cracking again on the bar scene to get you guys in the right mindset for going out this weekend!

Let me know if this sounds familiar

Hey guys, Shogo here with another Friday post to get you rolling for the weekend! It”s the weekend, so what is our theme? Not dating, not relationships, not communication, not self-love….it’s BARS! Yay.
Several clients who come to us are essentially reformed Pick Up Artists, and we spend a lot of time with them deprogramming their brains from the PUA techniques they learned, and getting them to start over and learn how to be as real and sexually mature as possible.

I was sitting around the other day and thought.
So many men and women head to the bars on a Friday night with some really high expectations.
Not only that, with some really bad advice on how to meet each other.
So I called Shogo up and since he was and still is a Bartender in one of the nations hippest cities, he would be the man to give all of you some great advice to succeed in bars.
Or as so many people call it. Night Game.

We have been all about talking about the Bars in recent Friday blogs. So to stay with that new tradition lets talk all about the lurkers best friend Mr Shot Buyer.
Are you the shot buyer? That’s my favorite guy to watch when I go to a bar.
You walk into a bar and there he is. You’re standing next to this guy who says to everyone around him, “You guys want a shot?”

Are you the lurker? Are you that guy who goes out to a bar on Friday and Saturday nights, takes a position somewhere in the bar (maybe standing at the bar or standing at the corner of the bar), and you basically lurk all evening long?
You stand there and spend your entire night just lurking. You don’t really talk to anybody. You never look like you are having much fun……..

How many times have you been standing in a bar and you see a woman and wonder, “What do I say? What do I do?” Is your first response ordinarily to pound enough alcohol to catch a buzz so that you will have enough courage to walk over to her?