Billy Joel sings a song called “New York State of Mind.” That song describes what a New York state of mind is, and how he feels when he is in that state of mind. You can see how powerful that state of mind is to him. Your state of mind is everything when you go out to meet women. Everything.

I just got off the phone with a really cool guy who is going to be taking a Bootcamp. During our conversation, we got into the topic of expectations. So many people have expectations about their life. They think,