Maybe you have a friend who — no matter what happens — will always try to want to hear about your life, listen to you for two seconds and then go off on whatever topic of that person’s life at the time.

We all have a friend like that. We all have those types of friends that are constantly bitching and complaining about their life bitching and complaining about their situation, but they never really listen to you.

I had a really interesting dinner with some friends the other night.

It’s Saturday and as I was leaving this morning to go speak, I was thinking that I still need to give all of you…

Here is a conversation we had over dinner at a recent bootcamp. This will give you a good idea of what my bootcamps are like, and you’ll also get to hear how Khiem and I answer questions from clients!

Men tend to be very outcome dependent. Many men approach women with one goal in mind: to get their phone number. Such men think if they approach a woman, they must get her phone number in order for that approach to have been successful. These men, in fact, will base their entire assessment of an encounter on whether a woman gives them her phone number. This type of mindset is what I’m referring to when I talk about outcome dependence.