The other day I got a great email from a client that got me thinking about how many of you guys really let your past and where you come from in life to prevent you from reaching great success in dating, in connecting to the opposite sex on a deeper level, and in making yourself an attractive and desirable man.
A lot of you get nervous around the kind of woman who you would like to date

Lets talk today about body language. When you talk to a woman do you think about what her body language is saying? Do you wonder what every hand gesture, eyebrow raise and arm cross means? If so, you are and have been wasting your time over thinking each and every conversation. Check out how to really understand what body language means in today’s video.

You never, ever want to be a “background guy.” Do you ever walk into a store or into a party, and your friend is always the lead guy?

Do you remember when you were a kid and you had a crush on someone.

Not too long ago in the blog, we talked about guys who act like an ass in the bar. A few days after I posted that blog, I got an email from a guy who told me he had tried what I said and that it had worked! This guy said what I recommended in that blog, and (not surprisingly) the woman chose to stay with him instead of leaving with Mr. Annoying.

I was in Whole Foods getting some dinner tonight, and I was talking to one of the checkout girls I know there. I don’t actually know her name, but I talk to her all the time. She’s really nice. As we’re talking, I turn around and there is a guy standing there wearing a wizard hat. Here is this 30-something year old man standing there wearing a gigantic wizard hat. It’s not even close to Halloween. I looked at the checkout girl and said, “Have you seen the wizard?” She started laughing. It’s funny when people wear outrageous, over-the-top things.

I get emails all the time asking me this question: “I like a girl (or guy). I don’t know how I can make her like me more. What do I have to do? Can you please tell me how to get someone to like me more?” Here is my advice on this. Get on your hands and knees, look up at them and beg them. Stare right into their eyes and say, “Please like me more.

Attracting the perfect person. People ask me all the time, “David, how can I attract the perfect person?” My answer is always the same: “Are you perfect? Are you a perfect person?” None of us are perfect, and that is what makes life so interesting. It’s our imperfections — the way we conduct ourselves and who we are — that make life really interesting.

What’s interesting about life is how it changes every day. You never know what’s going to happen every single day. Every day is the same to a dog though. It really is. They wake up, their bladder hurts a little bit, and they wonder when the master is going to take them outside so they can pee and poop.

It’s funny. If you ask a guy about a woman and say “What do you see?”, he will always pick out the most obvious things. He’ll say “She has great blonde hair” or “I like her body” or “She’s tall” or “She’s wearing a read shirt.” Women, on the other hand, notice totally different things about men. Let me ask you a question. How many times have you been talking to a woman and, like magic, other women come over and start talking to you?