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Tuesday, February 17th, 2009
Life is about attitude.
Think about football. Think about the quarterbacks who are successful. The ones that are successful have that attitude – “Fuck you. You picked my pass off? I don’t care. I’m coming back at you again in ten minutes anyway, and I’ll keep doing it.”
Brett Favre is notorious for that. Love him or hate him, he’ll throw so many games away that he plays. He’s 39, and look at his attitude. He’ll throw five interceptions in a game, and he’ll go fade back to pass and just do it again. He doesn’t care.
And all the fans are sitting there, saying, “Oh no! He’s doing it again…” but he just doesn’t care.
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Tags: approach, attitude, dating tip, dealing with rejection, Divorce, good attitude, Rejection
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 39 Comments »
Friday, February 13th, 2009
Here is a question I answered at a recent bootcamp. This will give you an idea of how my bootcamps work!
Client: Let’s say you’re in a bar and your environment is somewhat limited. In this scene, I really can’t observe much to comment on.
I had trouble with that exercise yesterday – not so much coming up with something to talk about, but thinking that it might actually work – that it might generate enough interest to keep the conversation going. I always have major doubts in myself in terms of that, and in a bar, I can see that being a million times more difficult. (more…)
Tags: approach, bar pick up, bootcamp coaching, dating tips for women, Day Game, pick up
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 17 Comments »
Saturday, February 7th, 2009
Saturday and i thought this quick thought I had would be a great mindset for the weekend.
Enjoy your day!!!
We all want something. We want the end result.
You’re dating a woman, and you want to get her to fall in love with you. Or maybe you’re dating somebody, and you want him or her to move in with you. Or you see her two days a week, but you really want to see her four days a week.
So instead of being present and enjoying that moment, you’re thinking about what you want to get out of it. And you’re not really there.
My favorite times are with my girlfriend – and every single day with her is amazing because I’m always learning something new – but one of the best times we had together was in the beginning of our relationship when we stayed on the phone all night long. We’d get on the phone at 11 p.m. intending to talk for a few minutes, but we’d still be on the phone together five or six hours later.
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Tags: approach, approach anxiety, attraction, closing, confidence, double your dating, flirt, hot girl
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Friday, January 30th, 2009
Whenever I end a conversation – no matter with whom it is, from a woman I met at a party to the person bagging my groceries at Whole Foods – I always say to them, “See you soon.”
It’s a great thing to say. It’s a much more personal and friendly way to say goodbye. Most people will just say, “Bye,” and that’s fine, but there’s no personal connection about it. Saying “See you soon” implants in the person’s mind that you might actually see them again in the future. (more…)
Tags: Add new tag, approach, Conversation, Date, double your dating, Los Angeles, phone number
Posted in How To Be A Better Communicator | 17 Comments »
Monday, January 26th, 2009
So you’re at a party and you lock into “the woman.” You’ve figured out which woman is the one that you really want to get to know.
You guys converse for a few minutes, and then she walks away. And after this, you stop enjoying yourself because all you’re thinking about is “Where is she right now? Is she coming back?”
With all of these thoughts running through your head, you can’t really concentrate on the conversations you’re having with other people. This is where you make the biggest mistake.
You have to understand that the dynamic presence – the power of who you are as a person – will intrigue her. Did you intrigue her enough? If you intrigued her enough, you can just walk away.
A confident man will walk away knowing that the woman will come back. An unconfident man will follow her around and turn her off. The more you follow her around, the more she’ll start to think, “Why is this guy being so needy and following me around?”
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Tags: Add new tag, approach, approach anxiety, dating advice for men, dynamic, flirt with women, hot women, How To Be A Better Communicator, intrigue, love, maxim, pua
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 67 Comments »
Monday, December 8th, 2008
By David Wygant
The other day I was walking into a cafe, and I see this woman sitting in the corner wearing a t-shirt with the words “For Rent By The Hour” on it. I must admit that this led my mind to go in many different directions. (more…)
Tags: approach, approach anxiety, approchable, blonde, funny ts, hot blonde, interesting, rent, t shirt, talk to strangers, wet t-shirt
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 32 Comments »
Saturday, November 1st, 2008
You don’t need to lie, ever.
If you’re in a clothing store and you see a woman in the women’s department, you might be thinking, how can I go over and talk to her? Maybe I’ll just say I’m looking for a gift for my sister.
Well, what happens if you end up dating her? She’s going to wonder where your sister disappeared to, right?
So don’t lie and don’t make stories up. Liars in life always have to remember their stories. People who tell the truth don’t have to remember anything.
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Tags: approach, backrack, department store, Divorce, grandfather, high school
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 21 Comments »
Monday, October 27th, 2008
This might be a little harsh. In fact, what people are about to hear might be the harshest thing they’ve heard all year. Prepare yourself.
I’m sitting here with the guys and we’re talking about why women don’t approach.
Why don’t they?
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Tags: approach, approaching, approchable, attention, attractive, gift, grandma, grandpa, grandparents
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 13 Comments »
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