It’s 12:42 pm. You’re in a clothing store at a shopping mall, and you see a woman to whom you are attracted. You observe what she’s doing, and you find an opener. She’s holding an AC/DC t-shirt, so you know you can walk over to her and say something simple like…

Is it just me, or do you think the Saints and the Colts have suffered from a severe case of approach anxiety? I mean, can you imagine waiting two weeks for the big game? A lot of you guys see a woman, you can’t approach her and five minutes later she is gone. All the while that five minutes feels like two weeks to you. Can you imagine the amount of anxiety that builds up…

Remember my friend Jeff from yesterday’s blog? After he read that blog, we worked out together again today, and we talked more about this situation. Guess what? He had another excuse. I am going to tell you his new excuse, and then I am going to walk you through it.

The other day I was working out with my buddy, Jeff, and we were talking about cars. That is always fun for me because I can buy a car any old day of the week. Then Jeff started telling me about a woman who works as one of the “meet and greeters” at Wells Fargo (the people who welcome you when you walk in the door). Jeff spent some time talking to her, but he wondered how he can ask this woman out without being noticed by everyone at the bank.

Billy Joel sings a song called “New York State of Mind.” That song describes what a New York state of mind is, and how he feels when he is in that state of mind. You can see how powerful that state of mind is to him. Your state of mind is everything when you go out to meet women. Everything.

Today is going to be another day I want you to watch instead of read. In this LIVE In-Field video filmed at a recent Bootcamp, I talk about 3 keys to becoming a master communicator. I go step-by-step through…

Some of you email me and tell me how it’s so painful to go and talk to women (or to men). Do you want to know about real pain? I basically relived the movie…

Today is the day of the week we always have a podcast – it is always “podcast Wednesdays” here on the blog. We, however, have been swamped working on something of which I want to cure the world forever. It’s called approach anxiety. It’s a made up disease based on fear and nothing else. Are you ready to end your approach anxiety once and for all?

There is a topic that seems like it never wants to end. Men, women, children, grandparents — virtually everyone — seem to be afflicted with it. This podcast goes into the mindset that infects 85% of us, i.e., why we are so afraid to approach the opposite sex.

What I am about to share with you in this podcast is going to permanently change how you see yourself, your life and (in particular) your obstacles. In this podcast, I am going to tell you why there are only two emotions in this world: one is love and the other is fear. They really are the only two emotions, and in this podcast I tell you how to really embrace loving everything and fearing nothing. This will change how you see things forever.