What are your fears? I have a couple of fears. One of them is a huge fear that I’m not going to tell you about now, but will share with you later. I have something I’m working on right now that is one of my biggest fears, and which is challenging me more that I have ever before been challenged. It is something I work on every single day, and something I kick myself in the ass about every single day. So let’s talk about…

I’m sitting here having a great conversation with a guy who said something really interesting. He said, “You know, I was living in Los Angeles for five years and always thought the people just weren’t that friendly here. Now I just spent a day and a half hanging out with you, and I realized that the people are really friendly.” Here is the number one mistake people make when they want to meet people…

It is your energy that dictates how someone feels around you, and how someone feels about you. Have you ever walked up to someone and you’re just so nervous? You are so nervous that you are…

There you are, alone at a bar waiting for your friends to arrive. You are standing at the bar only a few feet away from a woman who is also standing alone at the bar. This woman is beautiful. She is everything you think you want. You see her take a sip of her drink, play with the straw, look at her watch and check her cell phone. She looks around the room and, for just a split second, your eyes meet and you have a moment. Then she…

Let me share a story with all of you that I think may be a great weekend reminder. I remember when I was about 16 years old and some friends of mine invited me to a big kegger. For anyone who doesn’t know what a “kegger” is, let me give you the quick description. A kegger is when a bunch of high school kids sit around drinking beer out of a keg, get drunk and act like idiots. I remember that all the hot girls were going to be at that party, and how badly I wanted to go. Despite this, I couldn’t…

I want everyone right now to really dial in to what I’m about to tell you. Read every word. I want you to write down on a piece of paper the answer to this question: What is your biggest enemy? When it comes to meeting women, a lot of guys are under the impression that their biggest enemy is…

Here we are in the middle of winter, and I have so many guys who want to know about how to meet women at the beach. I recently had someone who came in from Australia to work with me, and of course the conversation was all about how to meet women at the beach (since it’s the middle of summer there). Then there are other guys who will be traveling to Mexico, Florida or the Caribbean for vacation or spring break. All of these guys will be wondering how to meet people on the beach. The beach is…

Focus is what life is all about. We need to focus on ourselves and our own energy. This is something we often go through at the Bootcamps. A lot of guys will say to me, “David, how do you remain so razor sharp? How do you focus? I can’t focus when I go and talk to a woman. My mind is all over the place.”

It’s 12:42 pm. You’re in a clothing store at a shopping mall, and you see a woman to whom you are attracted. You observe what she’s doing, and you find an opener. She’s holding an AC/DC t-shirt, so you know you can walk over to her and say something simple like…

Is it just me, or do you think the Saints and the Colts have suffered from a severe case of approach anxiety? I mean, can you imagine waiting two weeks for the big game? A lot of you guys see a woman, you can’t approach her and five minutes later she is gone. All the while that five minutes feels like two weeks to you. Can you imagine the amount of anxiety that builds up…