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Sunday, January 25th, 2009
Coaching is not a miracle. There is no miracle out there. Miracle drugs, diets and solutions are really just quick-fix illusions, like that grilled cheese sandwich in 2004 that had the image of the Virgin Mary burned into it. Someone paid $28,000 on eBay for that! Seriously, I’m not making this shit up! (link the last two words of this sentence with http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4034787.stm)
The point of life is realizing every single day that life itself is actually a miracle.
To get really Zen in your thinking, you need to accept everything that comes into your life and learn from the lessons you are presented with. You need to embrace those lessons and move forward.
It’s important to realize that when you receive coaching of any kind – whether it is a dating bootcamp or coaching on a physical sport – you have to practice.
Think about yoga. Yoga is practice, right? Why is yoga called practice? Because you’ll never be good at it unless you practice. And there is always room for improvement; there is always something new to learn.
I’ve been doing yoga for three years, and while I’m much better now than I was when I started, I’m still not as good as I’m going to be. Even when I get to the point where I’m really good, I’m still going to have to improve and get somewhere else.
That’s what life is about: a constant evolution, trying to get somewhere. And more important than this evolution is your acceptance of it. The more you accept, the more you will evolve. This is where that Zen-like feeling comes in, which we all want to feel, right? (more…)
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Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 28 Comments »
Monday, December 8th, 2008
By David Wygant
The other day I was walking into a cafe, and I see this woman sitting in the corner wearing a t-shirt with the words “For Rent By The Hour” on it. I must admit that this led my mind to go in many different directions. (more…)
Tags: approach, approach anxiety, approchable, blonde, funny ts, hot blonde, interesting, rent, t shirt, talk to strangers, wet t-shirt
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 32 Comments »
Wednesday, October 1st, 2008
So let’s say there is a guy you are attracted to whom you see all the time. When you see him, he’s always out with his friends, laughing and just having a great time with his buddies. Every time you try to talk to him, though, he gets all nervous.
You’ve got to understand something about this guy. You think this guy is so cool, calm, collected and confident. The truth is that if he’s nervous around you, then he’s interested in you.
Just look at his personality. That’s something that I always tell women.
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Tags: approach anxiety, be yourself, confidence, confident, inner game, nervous, nervousness, self esteem, shy, shyness
Posted in Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 25 Comments »
Saturday, September 27th, 2008
Do you consider yourself shy? Do you walk around and say to yourself “I wish I weren’t shy so I could approach people.”
When I hear someone label themselves as “shy,” I know they are limiting their opportunities to meet and connect with people every day. Being shy isn’t a physical trait like having brown eyes … you can eliminate it and overcome it.
The first thing you need to be aware of and realize is that shyness is not who you are – it’s not part of your identity. If someone asks you if you’re shy, what is your answer? Do you say “Yes, I am a shy person.”
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Tags: approach anxiety, Divorce, extrovert, introvert, judging, librarian, limiting belief, overcome shyness, shy, shy girl, shyness, success barrier, wall flower
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 38 Comments »
Wednesday, September 24th, 2008
The following is a great question from a client at a recent bootcamp that I had in London this past weekend.
Last night here for me and as always sad to leave.
Great trip and just put the finishing touches on an office here!!!
So no more 2 bootcamps a year in London. Pretty soon we will be having a monthly bootcamp with this awesome new coach that is based in London!! I enjoy my trips to London and plan on flying over the pond much more in the future.
Stay tuned for more.
Enjoy todays blog.
Client: How do you open women in elevators? I spend so much time in elevators – in my building, I’m in the elevator 20 times a day.
David: Let’s talk about elevators. Approaching someone in an elevator is the easiest thing in the entire world. Both men and women can use this technique – any person can use it.
Once again, you have to play the odds and the percentages. What do people do when they get into an elevator?
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Tags: anxiety, approach anxiety, bootcamps, cliche, elevator, gambler, hook up, hot girl, london, pua training, quiet, silence
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 20 Comments »
Wednesday, September 17th, 2008
If you’re a woman, how do you know when a man is attracted to you? Are you a woman who believes that if a man doesn’t approach you that he is not interested in you?
Do you know that a LOT of men have trouble approaching women? A lot of men suffer from a disease they call “approach anxiety” (although I call it “self-inflicted torture!”)
In my more than ten years of coaching men, virtually every one of them seek my help in learning to conquer approach anxiety. You should see what happens over and over again at the beginning of every one of my men’s bootcamps.
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Tags: anxiety, approach, approach anxiety, approaching, approaching women, bootcamp, date hot women, dating men, Divorce, encounter, first encounter, first love, guys, hello, hot guy, hot men, hot women, love at first sight, open, open up, Women
Posted in Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 41 Comments »
Saturday, September 13th, 2008
Its Saturday and we are having a great bootcamp. One guy already had this amazing breakthrough, he was so shy when he flew here yesterday and last night he was able to approach any woman he saw.
Its awesome when I see someone transform and really break through their fears.
Today’s blog is something we go over in all the bootcamps.
Also check out the bootcamp schedule on the home page. Only 3 more left this year!
I’m all about creating positive energy wherever I go, because to me, life is a party. If you’re not going to go out there and enjoy every single moment of every single day, then you are just wasting your time.
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Tags: anxiety, approach anxiety, approach women, brentwood, clothing, fear, Los Angeles, meet hot women, pickup women
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 19 Comments »
Friday, September 12th, 2008
Its Friday and I am about to start working with 11 guys who are in for the LA bootcamp.
One of the things we will be going over is rejection and how to overcome the fear of approaching. Here is a quick mindset tip for all of you to use this weekend.
Have a great Friday!!
David: Did you see me on the front page of the LA Times today? If you didn’t, too bad – you really would have been amazed at the article.
There was a big picture of me on the front page, and then this article about how I had approached some woman in Coffee Bean or something, and totally got rejected. On the front page! It’s unbelievable.
Just last week I was on the cover of People – I’m not sure where it was I was rejected last week – where was it that I was rejected and made the cover of People magazine? God, I don’t even remember.
And did you see that annoying supermarket flyer that comes in your mailbox? Did you see the one from Whole Foods this week? There’s a big picture of me, getting rejected on aisle seven. I can’t believe they actually took a picture of that!
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Tags: approach anxiety, approach women, fear, front page, Mindset, overcome rejection
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 8 Comments »
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