I was talking to a client on the phone the other night and it really struck me just how much apprehension so many guys have about meeting women.
The fear, the anxiety, the uncertainty. That’s why the majority of men never can figure out what to say.
A while ago I came up with this really fun exercise. I told my client to use the alien approach….

Hey people, Shogo here with another weekend blog post for you!

This week has been really hectic, I’ve been on a lot of coaching calls with clients, and few calls with some of you blog readers from all over the world as well. Just a lot of guys I’ve talked to this week.

There’s one common thread that runs through almost everybody

Do you know why women run from men who approach?

Its all because some of you wait so long to do this, that by the time you actually muster up the nerve, you scare her half to death.

Today’s podcast is all about how to get rid of that nervous feeling and never scare another woman again!

“I can’t.” Are these words in your vocabulary?
Do you ever say to yourself, “Man I’d really love to go talk to that woman I’m really attracted to over there, but I just can’t do it?” If you’re a woman, do you hear dating advice telling you that you need to more of a huntress with men and think “I can’t do that?”

I seem to hear the same things over and over again from guys. One of those things is, “David, I’m so in my head.”

The other day I was with a client in Baja Fresh and he saw a woman he just could not take his eyes off of. So what did I have him do and how is a napkin such a powerful meeting tool?

Have you ever been in a bar with your buddies on a Friday night, and you see “that guy?” You see that middle-aged guy standing in the corner. He is usually either there by himself or there with one friend. He’s dressed a little bit like you, but the clothes don’t seem to fit the same way.

So what happens if you’re really jumpy? You know what I mean by jumpy.

People ask me that all the time how they can live an attractive lifestyle. They want to know how to become that person other people want to get to know. They want to know how to walk into a room (or anywhere else) and command attention.

Your penis does the least amount of thinking. I was on the phone with a client of mine, and we were talking about how many guys are totally about validation. When they walk over to a woman, all they are thinking about is whether she will like them. In reality, what is going on in that situation is…