Black friday 2011. A great day to go out and people shop this weekend. The stores are going to jam packed with many opportunities to meet men and women.
Plus I think all of them will be on sale, this weekend is a great time to get a deal on a potential mate. Do you want to know my number one way to meet people today? The message is hidden in this blog so you better read it carefully…..

When we get involved in a relationship, why are we always searching for that perpetual carrot?
It’s amazing that when we’re unsatisfied in a relationship — feeling like our partner is not satisfying our needs, wants and desires — that we feel afraid to tell them. It’s amazing that we are afraid to be that open, honest, raw and vulnerable with our partner.

This is in follow up to my recent blog about women hunters. Most women are very passive waiters, meaning that they always sit back and wait for men to approach them.
Think about the moment when you see “that guy” — that confident, good-looking guy — who walks over to you and says something really cute and clever. Maybe you were in Starbucks looking for something to eat, and you were indecisive about whether you wanted a muffin or a scone.

You always hear the saying, “Get out of your head,” but a lot of people don’t know what that really means or how to do it. I get asked all the time how to do this.
The way I do it is really easy. I happen to have been born with a zipper on my skull, so all I have to do is peel back my toupee, unzip the back of my head, and crawl out (usually feet first). It’s a really interesting phenomenon to watch me, because I’ll just be there laying on the ground and then all of a sudden I’ll whip my toupee off, unzip my head and crawl right out.

I think we have a new tradition here on the blog.
Every Wednesday, I pick out the weeks best posting or email and turn it into a podcast.
Now before you jam my in-box with emails for next week. I want to set the record straight.

I was recently talking to a client, someone who is going to take my seminar in New York at the end of January. I was calling to give him some details and so forth.

You guys remember the blog I wrote about self-talking?

How does this quote pertain to your life? People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer the suffering that is familiar. – Thich Nhat Hanh Let me know your thoughts

Here you are in your first really serious relationship. You’ve had a great time. You have been out of college for awhile, worked on your career and have a lot of great friends. You actually feel like an adult.

What is it about people? What is it about people and the feeling that they’re going to miss something. Let’s talk about the lure of Black Friday. Black Friday was yesterday. It has some kind of allure. People get this feeling that they just have to be out there shopping on that day. They think, “Oh my God, it’s Black Friday. I’ve got to be there!” We all know that there are only…