Just go to the mall and walk around , with a notebook in my hand?

I’ll try it , but I’m having problems seeing how it’s possible without feeling awkward.”

I completely agree with Khiem!

Here’s a few things that I have seen that create results in guys I work with and in my own life.

1. David had me start learning to observe people versus using lines. So whenever, I get into a block I go back to the basics. I observe my environment. It definitely helps me get out of “my head” and into the world of others. I have also found that I was more effective with flirting with women by observing their world versus using “canned material.” It’s genuine and relevant!!

2. Focus on having fun instead of flirting! When I gave up my outcome of getting women. I started to focus on being the friendly, fun guy who attracts women. That’s when my world changed. David showed me this in Seattle when a bunch of us were sitting in a lounge on Friday night not looking for women. Out of no where a beautiful blonde starting talking to us. I did the same thing this weekend at a dance club with a few friends. I stopped looking for women and had fun. Guess what? The hot women in the club started to come closer to us because we had great energy and we stopped looking for them.

3. I like Khiem’s suggestions on saying, “Hi.” I have seen guys who have broken through a lot of their fears by greeting people in such a fashion. Meeting people is more about delievery, attitude, and energy!

4. A few things I teach guys to do is to warm up. “We are just practicing!” When I do that something interesting happens. They begin to actually take pressure off themselves and detach from the outcome of trying to get a woman and they start to do a lot better. It becomes more fun for them.

5. Again focus on the casaul conversations like Khiem said. An hour ago at this coffee shop I observed a hot blonde who was wearing Timex Running Watch.” Here’s what I asked her by being completely present.

“Is that a Timex Running Watch?”

She started to go into Vegas of why she orginally got it and then into how she was teacher! All I did was to be genuine in my interest and ask her about it and then keep asking her questions.

By the time I left I could feel that the people behind the counter where energized by someone who showed them interest in what they had to say!!!

Have Fun Langknow and let us know how it’s going!!!

Chris

If you really pay attention, it’s not that many people.

As far as Crystal’s comments, David doesn’t tell you to make it a point of talking to 20 people… David teaches you to do the things you want to do in your life and pay attention to the very people you COULD meet every day in your life. If you just realized how many people are around you every day, it only takes one very small step (just a little hi) to start meeting those very people.

The exercise is definitely more of a comfort building exercise with your own self than marketing yourself to other people.

Just go to the mall and walk around , with a notebook in my hand?

I’ll try it , but I’m having problems seeing how it’s possible without feeling awkward.

Great exercise David!

So you say you are a date coach.

I have never heard of you.

How long have you been doing this and what is your success rate?

Not only does this work…every person who has ever done the challenge has broken through all their fears!!!

Its not marketing at all……it is an exercise based on building comfort within themselves.

What is your methodology?