What a night last night, i passed out in my hotel in London at 1030 and woke up in a daze at 130 wide awake!!
Got to love Jet lag and ambian!
Today i had lunch with a friend and sat right next to Jude Law….I must say he was a pretty cool guy.
Tonight we start the bootcamp and I am sure I will have a ton of stories to share from London.
Lets talk about Strip Clubs
Rich is an intern that works for me. He grew up in a nice, protected, suburban household in Naples, Florida. Since coming to my office, Rich has been learning the ways of the world.
The other night, Rich made the cardinal mistake that most young men have made before: he went to a strip club and thought that the women flirting with him actually liked him.
He came into the office this morning and said, “oh my god, you wouldn’t believe it! I met the coolest strippers last night!”
Let’s face it: strip clubs are a joke. Guys, come on. I said this before in my Men’s Mastery Series – the only time it’s okay to go to a strip club is at 3:30 in the afternoon when the women are bored out of their minds.
This is when they have nothing going on and they are not in hustling mode. The women are just waiting for the Happy Hour guys to come in, and you can use this time to work on your conversation skills.
When you go to a strip club at night, you spend $80 and you think you’ve become a better flirt – but I’ll tell you that the second you opened up your wallet was the second you became interesting to those girls.
The women at strip clubs are amazing at flirting. They know exactly how to do it. They will just take the money out of your pocket every single time. It’s only an illusion. Trust me, it’s not your skills.
You didn’t walk into that strip club and immediately become a great conversationalist. You didn’t lose your approach anxiety the second you walked in the door. These women know exactly how to pull money out of your pocket.
I hate strip clubs. If I am ever dragged to a strip club, I will sit there quietly. When a woman approaches me and asks if I want a private dance, I’ll respond, “no, I’m not here for that. My friend wanted to come here. I’m just here to hang out. If you’d like a stimulating and interesting conversation and to take a break from hustling all the other men in here, come sit next to me. If not, go make some money and enjoy your night!”
And they will always come over and start talking to me. I’m totally the opposite of every other guy in there.
But the second you open your wallet and allow them to jump up and down on your penis and grind all up on you – they know that they can get you for more money. All they see in you is an endless supply of twenty-dollar bills.
If you’re at a strip club and you think that all of a sudden women are attracted to you, think again! If you haven’t taken a penny out of your pocket and there are women still coming over to talk to you, then you are right. You are becoming a good conversationalist.
But the second that money comes out – come on now, they are hustlers! It’s no different than the beggars on the street. If a beggar on the street is talking to you and you hand them a dollar, they will become chattier and complimentary. They know they can get more money out of you.
People aren’t stupid: they’re hustlers.
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That was a great video!!
I love watching you when you are real, makes all of us feel much better. The other day i ordered your new product that you have at the end of the blog and it is amazing!!
The way you break down approaches in all situations is great plus the way you teach me how to create my own unique approach is brilliant.,
\i met 3 women yesterday and it was super easy.
ok time to go play and not in strip clubs!!
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David: What about asian massage parlors?
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faaade away! haha
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Jim,
David has covered this topic in a past blog … click here to read all about David’s thoughts and feelings on going for a “rub ‘n tug”
http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/rub-n-tug/
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I bartended my way through college and grad school – and during college I bartended (fully clothed in jeans and normal shirts btw) at a “gentleman’s club” … and let me tell you … i have never seen so many men act so foolish in my entire life. Seemingly normal, intelligent, businessmen convinced that Bubbles only winked and gave little kisses on the forehead to THEM!
If you as a guy NEVER want to fall for the delusion that a stripper is going to see you in her club and just fall in love with you — spend 10 minutes talking to dancers at the end of their shift … you’ll never believe it again. Oh the stories I could repeat …
I know there are a ton of great guys who read and comment on this blog — why do you want to spend your time and money on women whose job it is to convince you that they like you … when i’d bet that virtually every one of you could be out actually connecting with and enjoying the company of women who really are totally turned on by you … think about it
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Kristen: Thanks for the link.
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Hooter’s girls can be just as bad =/
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Great video that shows what most guys don’t notice they are doing when they fail, and what I sometimes still will overlook and wonder why things went bad.
As for the article, ha it’s funny (and perhaps exaggerated!) I learned my lesson when going to a Strip Club for the first time.
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I will never understand why men want to look at women in strip clubs or magazines, when in all reality they aren’t with that person. Wouldn’t you rather have a real live person who is really interested in you than something fake or someone fake that just wants your money?
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yeahhhh…david i always remember what you have said ” you own the place” all the time wherever you go….
nice video too!!!!
Have A Great Weekend
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I went to vegas with a really funny guy in the music business. His idea of fun at a strip club was getting the strippers to let him give them a lap dance, without paying them. And one time, one of the girls paid him for it. It was hysterical and he never spent a dime.
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i went to a strip club for my 18th birthday, my buddies bought me a strip dance. it was fun while it lasted.
but deep down inside i know it was all just a show : )
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