Comments on: Stop Counting Lovers!

By: Oshioke

Oshioke — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:49:06 +0000

Answer to the GF question is 3, but to how many girls I have had, X10 the number of GFs. Not my fault. Happened mostly when i was at school. Now, you alsmost have to pay for it. Currently don’t have any GF or lover. AIDS thing’s scary too. Luckily i play safe and I -ve. after I found that out I decide to to chill and wait for my “wife” where ever she may be

By: SaliSal

SaliSal — Sun, 18 Nov 2007 22:33:02 +0000

Nice and i agree david…but now what to answer when women ask you: how many gf’s you had ?

By: hunter

hunter — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 17:20:05 +0000

to jessica,

Wealthy men, maybe we shouldn’t say that, lets say, successful men, have dozens of partners in their life time. TV actors, athletes, good looking men, say, they can’t get to bed, witout a woman being in there already…….

By: Bertie

Bertie — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 15:18:40 +0000

Bella,
The number crunchers are out there in every age bracket. I’ve found that the most fun, least likely to be judgmental group are in their thirties.

By: bella

bella — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 10:38:05 +0000

Nice blog with good points. I don’t know, I’m reading the opinions and everyone sounds so politically correct. Sure it sounds great to say, It’s not about the numbers but what you can do for me and people should recycle, and eat healthy, and excercise is the real fountain of youth, but in reality people don’t always do that. With my dating experiences and relationships, I don’t ask how many but if a man volunteers that number and it’s 3x his age,..hell yeah I’m going to take a second thought. Because the number can also relate to “what can and will you do for me.” My thought is this, if you volunteer to me a large sexual number, I want to now know how much time did you take to get to know the person, will you take the time to get to know me, is your goal to “bang me” and move on, or…..are you at a point in your life that you want to have sex with me and enjoy the moment or am I a score. I don’t ask the question because it’s not my business but if the number is volunteered then I want to know your intentions for me, meaning, am I a score to get or do you really want to be with me. I’m in my thirties now and I use to think this was a twenty something concern but now that I date men in their 30′s and forties I find that there are some that play these numbers and are out to score Pu##@.

By: David Wygant

David Wygant — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 02:16:17 +0000

hunter

that is funny.

its not the amount of lovers you have its what you do with them:)

By: hunter

hunter — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 02:11:36 +0000

to dw,

…..I know a man who admits to having 3 female partners in his life time….he went on to say, ” I have been married 3 times.”

By: Jessica

Jessica — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 02:05:37 +0000

Why it is funny?

By: hunter

hunter — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 02:03:44 +0000

to jessica,

…the average american male? Including prostitutes? hhhmmmhh, how funny?

By: David Wygant

David Wygant — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 00:54:45 +0000

he average British woman sleeps with 6.9 lovers during her lifetime, according to a new survey.

But statistics rarely tell the whole story. While some women believe that more than one lover is too many, there are others seemingly happy to change partners as frequently as their handbags.

Here, SADIE NICHOLAS asks five women how many lovers they have had – and examines the emotional consequences of their sexual choices.

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CHRISTINA KHATER was in her early teens when she made the decision to remain a virgin until she married.

As a teenager at a state school, her only physical contact with the opposite sex were kisses with a boy she dated for a few months at 14.

Now aged 22 and a film studies graduate, she is still a virgin. She lives in a flat in London with her 22-year-old fiancee Gabriel Wakim. She has been seeing him for three years – but they have never had sex.

“I decided that when I had sex for the first time, I wanted it to be special and I would wait until my wedding night,” she explains, keen to point out that her vow of chastity is not for religious reasons.

And having watched her friends get hurt over the years, she feels vindicated in her decision.