Comments on: Stop Comparing Yourself To Others! http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Wed, 23 May 2012 11:16:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35621 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Wed, 27 Jan 2010 05:52:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35621 Max, You only get rid of the feeling by letting it sit in you... and let it pass. It's normal for you to feel jealous when you want something you don't have. However, refocus your energy on yourself. You are giving her more importance by putting her on a pedestal. You are a great guy! If she doesn't see that... then there's only 2 reasons: 1. Have you shared yourself with her in a way that shows how great of a guy you are? Basically, have you given her the opportunity to really get to know you, to get intrigued by you, to get curious by you? 2. If you have, then has your method of "showing yourself" to her effective? Meaning... can she actually see it? It's one thing to project something out... but it's another thing for other people to actually perceive what you are trying to project. If you have actually done both, then it's just a chemistry thing. Be happy for her... and look for women who are actually ready to see you for who you are. Max,

You only get rid of the feeling by letting it sit in you… and let it pass.

It’s normal for you to feel jealous when you want something you don’t have. However, refocus your energy on yourself.

You are giving her more importance by putting her on a pedestal. You are a great guy! If she doesn’t see that… then there’s only 2 reasons:
1. Have you shared yourself with her in a way that shows how great of a guy you are? Basically, have you given her the opportunity to really get to know you, to get intrigued by you, to get curious by you?
2. If you have, then has your method of “showing yourself” to her effective? Meaning… can she actually see it?

It’s one thing to project something out… but it’s another thing for other people to actually perceive what you are trying to project.

If you have actually done both, then it’s just a chemistry thing. Be happy for her… and look for women who are actually ready to see you for who you are.

]]> By: Zandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35552 Zandra Tue, 26 Jan 2010 15:22:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35552 Miguel- me too, its my nightcap ;) Miguel- me too, its my nightcap ;)

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35529 Coach Kimberly Tue, 26 Jan 2010 07:14:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35529 Max--then HER loss not yours...that should be your mentality:)! Max–then HER loss not yours…that should be your mentality:)!

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35517 David Wygant Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:38:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35517 Hey Miguel Keep it up:) Man the pressure I feel now........Ok pressure all gone will keep the amazing blogs coming. I have some great ones in my head....back to work! Hey Miguel

Keep it up:)

Man the pressure I feel now……..Ok pressure all gone will keep the amazing blogs coming.

I have some great ones in my head….back to work!

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35516 Miguel Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:38:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35516 I've learned to stop being jealous of people who are way more successful than me. You're right, why be jealous about them? You always said David, learn from them and incorporate their secrets in your life. I’ve learned to stop being jealous of people who are way more successful than me. You’re right, why be jealous about them? You always said David, learn from them and incorporate their secrets in your life.

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35515 Miguel Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:36:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35515 I always visit your blog every single day. And for each day i visit, I always learn something new and incorporate in my life. So for that, great blog David! :D You always hit it home. Keep it up! I always visit your blog every single day. And for each day i visit, I always learn something new and incorporate in my life. So for that, great blog David! :D You always hit it home. Keep it up!

]]> By: Kyle http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35513 Kyle Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:09:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35513 Max, As hard as it probably seems to do, the only real way to get rid of that jealous feeling is to be happy for her and find another woman to like. You can only control yourself and your actions...not who she's attracted to or who she likes. I know, though, that it's easier said than done! Good luck! Max,

As hard as it probably seems to do, the only real way to get rid of that jealous feeling is to be happy for her and find another woman to like. You can only control yourself and your actions…not who she’s attracted to or who she likes. I know, though, that it’s easier said than done! Good luck!

]]> By: Max http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35507 Max Tue, 26 Jan 2010 00:36:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35507 How can you get rid of the jealous feeling when you find out the woman you like, is not interested in you, she is only interested in your friend???? How can you get rid of the jealous feeling when you find out the woman you like, is not interested in you, she is only interested in your friend????

]]> By: Rick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35506 Rick Tue, 26 Jan 2010 00:34:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35506 Jealousy is a very bad emotion as it leads to mental unrest. I guess we are all guilty of that time to time but we must let it all go and learn to accept others and be open and learn from them. Jealousy is a very bad emotion as it leads to mental unrest. I guess we are all guilty of that time to time but we must let it all go and learn to accept others and be open and learn from them.

]]> By: Coach Jacob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/3503/#comment-35505 Coach Jacob Tue, 26 Jan 2010 00:32:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3503#comment-35505 I think there will be one end of March or beginning of April. I think there will be one end of March or beginning of April.

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