Think it over, be sure to quote me. Any guy that has ever thought women are money grubbing, big muscle wanting, George Cloney jaw wanting, power hungry bitches… and have somehow managed to realize and turn around their thoughts to understanding what they really are… are emotional, fun loving, easy going, sexual beings that love to be in love with the untainable… and have come to see that in bear fruit in their lives… weclome to club. The rest are lost souls.

Women want men that understand them, and know how to deal with them, peroid.

It’s not about feminism, it’s not about money, or power, or natural good looks, or hollywood, or tv, or anything… none that matters more than your own centeral being, your own confidence. Your own path.

You carve that out, find your inner badassness…

It’s so simple! It makes me sad to think how many guys, just don’t get it.

Don’t be negative. Keep it on a third grade level. And remember, women will always been the way you think they are… PEROID.

So get your heads on straight fellas… and stop whining.. that’s not unattractive!

I didn’t mean self control from a relationship standpoint.
I’m not here to meet someone. I read out of love for learning… (and as I said previously much of the information here is helpful for someone in a relationship… ) And posting is with the hopes of offering something that someone may find of value…

I know you can’t relate but I have other things I should be spending my time on… It doesn’t help that there’ve been a lot of good posts the last couple of days… I saw your streaching directions. I really should do that too. How does that compare to bending at waist when standing, to try and touch the floor? At ponts in the past I’ve done this in the shower… It’s been tooo long…

Oh well, I won’t be around for the weekend. I’ll be with family… How many posts will I return to…

You know, that is a wonderful question posed, but really one only you can answer?
I personally see nothing wrong with your being here and interacting with people.
Lack of self control in a relationship…to me…is when you say you are exclusive with one, but are with more than one exclusively. In other words, if ya start seeing someone else and the “exclusive” doesn’t know, will find out, and be hurt.
Anything that is going to hurt the other as far as your intimacy as 2 in a relationship….there is “lack of self control.”

How do you feel to be here and interact? I know I sure would miss you if you left for good, BUT YOU need to do as your gut dictates to you. Usually that gut instinct will guide you right 9 times out of ten…

So am I lacking self control when it’s harmless fun… Or is sticking around here and continuing to learn more skills for having fun with people a good skill to have when one is in a relationship… (Not many “dating” sites are so universal…)

Ok? I am using my imagination on that “vocal” statement…and vocal is a great thing! lol

I am glad to see you didn’t go bye bye from here for good. I always enjoy your posts.

Joan,
While I’m normally fine with conversation; I’ve been told I should be more vocal at other times.
I’m also getting a lot better speaking from vs. of the heart.

The guy who wrote me was negative and did not take any responsibility for anything that happened to him.
He got what he asked for in his women and relationships…he set himself up for failure and got it.

He points the finger and blames others for his life sorrow.

I live in LA as well…and there are plenty of great women as well as plenty of the ones you described.

We all make choices….I also don’t care about getting it…..i also am not in the market for a relationship….I enjoy my life…my own company and at this point in my life i dont feel the need to share it with anyone else.

We are all in different stages of our lives and as long as we live learn and stay true to who we are….and take full responsibility of all our choices and don’t blame others for things that happen to us….

The blog was all about looking in the mirror and the law of attraction.

You are in a place where you know what you want and i did not hear any victim mentality from your comments.

The guy who emailed me was victim mentality all the way.

I think your “2 cents,” makes all the sense in the world, and is worth a million. Thank you for that post….I very much agree.

I want a man to be a man and make me feel like a woman when I am with him. I am told I am “too prissy” by a number of “friends,” but I just like to look, smell, and act like what I am…a woman

Jim L.;

Thank you…I know you are fast asleep now, and I should be haha NOT, but I appreciate your comment. I don’t know that I always have the right words to say…I just say what is inside of me and hope it is taken for the content and not as smart assey

As for the “right touch?” Now THAT….you are very intuitive

Late in L.I. now. It’s past my bedtime almost 12:30 Am; (also past DW bedtime and it is only 9:30 in LA.) I’m going to atempt to

ZOOM OUTA HERE!!