Comments on: Stop Beating Around The Bush

By: Dan

Dan — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:55:53 +0000

Nah, I don’t. I’m tempted at times like everyone else, but I’m waiting for marriage. The way it was suppose to be; between one man and one woman. When you fornicate you give a piece of yourself away and become one flesh with that person. God wants you to wait until you get married so you can have normal sex, rather than lusting after women and never getting enough. Think about it, God is protecting you from STD’s, VD’s, unwanted pregnancies, abortions, and all the other sinful things that come with sex outside marriage. Repent and trust in the Lord Jesus and He will show you what life is all about because He is the author of life.

I’ll leave you with this verse:
Proverbs 3: 5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths”

God Bless you,
Dan

By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 06:24:29 +0000

I always believed you should put your intent out there. You should allow the woman to say no to you. Don’t beat around the bush. Act and say what you want. If you aren’t right for her, she’ll let you know!

By: Cyrus

Cyrus — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 06:13:44 +0000

Dan just needs some pussy.

I think J.C. was talking about how lusting after another woman is the same as cheating on your girl. Not “avoid women”. It’s a good debate though, is that cheating?

By: Todd

Todd — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:20:36 +0000

Since when did this blog get religious?

Anyways i found his great quote from a guy on twitter who posts comments his 79 year-old dad says and I thought this was characteristic of many people on here. Its a wise saying thats for sure.

“That woman was sexy…Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won’t screw you, don’t do it for them.”

By: Brad

Brad — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:46:07 +0000

What? If you ever read this blog before…you would realize you couldn’t be any further from the truth.

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:21:00 +0000

Hey David, Jesus said “Do not commit adultery” But then He took it a step further and said, “whoever looks after a women to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” So everyone on this blog needs to repent (change your mind about sin and turn from it) and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ.

By: Phil

Phil — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 10:18:46 +0000

Great comment, Rob. Very astute. I feel the same way. It’s like breaking an addiction, because you’re so used to a certain set of thoughts and behaviors.

Not easy to do at all, until you experience a little success. That has a way of making you keep at it.

By: k-shok

k-shok — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:36:14 +0000

actually im dead guilty of this, but recently i learned to be more straight foward and honest, but it seems like the people around me arent used to that type of behavior, so im often confused on what to do…

By: Marina

Marina — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:08:34 +0000

What is the right way for a girl to ask a guy, what would you guys think would be a great way for a girl to be ms. Passive aggresive;-)

By: Miguel

Miguel — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:05:05 +0000

That’s me too. :p I used to have a friend of mine say some magic word or motto to help me ask a girl out. Most of the time, I never ask them out. Hahaha.

But Thanks David for this great post! First there was the passive waiter, the window shopper and now, Mr. Beat Around the Bush! Now part of David Wygant’s Dictionary of Dating and Social Life.