Comments on: How Do I Get Him To Say I Love You http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: nunu_lil http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-28215 nunu_lil Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:56:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-28215 hi david,i wanna aske you aQ you know i and my ex- were in love for at least 4 months unfortunatly we stop meeting some times i think that he dump me but he still send me sms whihc is not talk about love so what do you think?plus i can't stop thinking about him. hi david,i wanna aske you aQ you know i and my ex- were in love for at least 4 months unfortunatly
we stop meeting some times i think that he dump me but he still send me sms whihc is not talk about
love so what do you think?plus i can’t stop thinking about him.

]]> By: bbbb http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-26760 bbbb Sat, 25 Apr 2009 19:57:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-26760 hello i am bbbb my question is that i have a friend and i fells that i love him and i love him so how can i tell him that i love him how can i tell him? plzzzzzzz answer me hello i am bbbb my question is that i have a friend and i fells that i love him and i love him so how can i tell him that i love him how can i tell him? plzzzzzzz answer me

]]> By: Lew E. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25940 Lew E. Sun, 12 Apr 2009 20:41:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25940 In 1974 I met the wife of a high ranking militry officer. I was also married. Through 1993 we frequently had clandistine sexual relations. Then I had to nmove to another city, 1100 miles away. Since then we have kept in infrequent contact by phone and mail. Since then my wife died 3 yrs ago and her husband died about 1 yr ago. Two months ago we met for a week-end and slept together. We are still seperated by 1100 miles, altough we talk by phone daily. So what is the problem, you ask? Never during this entire time has she said the owrds, "Ilove you." She is rich, with children and grand-children. Thay all live near her in her city. (I have never met any of her family.) I am poor, and have no, repeat, NO family. No family!! My concern is that she may be fond of me but not enough to introduce me to her family, or mayby she feels tht I would not be acceptable to her rich, military friends. I sent her a $60 e-bouque of tulips for Easter, and she said how thoughtful I was and how beautiful/how much she liked them. I am sure she is still morning here husband, for she tells me "It is too soon to consideer anything serious, or long-term. I have been madily in LOVE with this lady for more than 30 years. I am 84 yrs old. She is 74 yrs. old. My life expectancy is only 10-12 yrs. I don't want to spend the remainder of my live ALONE. I know she cares for me, but does she love me enough to let me be a 24/7 part of her life. I'd appreciate your thoughts & council. In 1974 I met the wife of a high ranking militry officer. I was also married. Through 1993 we frequently had clandistine sexual relations. Then I had to nmove to another city, 1100 miles away. Since then we have kept in infrequent contact by phone and mail. Since then my wife died 3 yrs ago and her husband died about 1 yr ago. Two months ago we met for a week-end and slept together. We are still seperated by 1100 miles, altough we talk by phone daily. So what is the problem, you ask? Never during this entire time has she said the owrds, “Ilove you.” She is rich, with children and grand-children. Thay all live near her in her city. (I have never met any of her family.) I am poor, and have no, repeat, NO family. No family!! My concern is that she may be fond of me but not enough to introduce me to her family, or mayby she feels tht I would not be acceptable to her rich, military friends. I sent her a $60 e-bouque of tulips for Easter, and she said how thoughtful I was and how beautiful/how much she liked them. I am sure she is still morning here husband, for she tells me “It is too soon to consideer anything serious, or long-term. I have been madily in LOVE with this lady for more than 30 years. I am 84 yrs old. She is 74 yrs. old. My life expectancy is only 10-12 yrs. I don’t want to spend the remainder of my live ALONE. I know she cares for me, but does she love me enough to let me be a 24/7 part of her life.

I’d appreciate your thoughts & council.

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25921 Bertie Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:47:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25921 Speaking from the professor's point of view, there's a lot of issues with dating students. My persistent problem has been do I continue to date someone who is majoring in my field of study even though he's not currently in my classes... You have a whole other can of worms on this side of the lectern. As far as the younger man older woman issue. You are over-thinking it unless she makes mention of it often. I haven't found any real connections with older men or really those my age. My dates pretty much are all in their thirties, and I'm 44. There isn't a lot of difference between us, but depending on the people there can be a huge gap in life experiences between early 20s and early 30s. I think you just need to take a deep breath and appreciate the experience for what it is, and let things develop or not naturally. Isabella, I wonder how old you are...Sorry hon, but you sound very young. How is it possible for you to love someone you've only appreciated from afar? I'll truly date myself and say, I felt like that about Shaun Cassidy once.... Speaking from the professor’s point of view, there’s a lot of issues with dating students. My persistent problem has been do I continue to date someone who is majoring in my field of study even though he’s not currently in my classes…
You have a whole other can of worms on this side of the lectern. As far as the younger man older woman issue. You are over-thinking it unless she makes mention of it often. I haven’t found any real connections with older men or really those my age. My dates pretty much are all in their thirties, and I’m 44. There isn’t a lot of difference between us, but depending on the people there can be a huge gap in life experiences between early 20s and early 30s. I think you just need to take a deep breath and appreciate the experience for what it is, and let things develop or not naturally.
Isabella, I wonder how old you are…Sorry hon, but you sound very young. How is it possible for you to love someone you’ve only appreciated from afar? I’ll truly date myself and say, I felt like that about Shaun Cassidy once….

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25920 Khiem (DW Coach) Sat, 11 Apr 2009 07:22:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25920 Qheen of Relationship, I think your b/f is a bit insecure if he can't say the "L" word before a year. You usually know if you love someone deeply. It's a connection thing and a connection can be felt before a year. However, a deeper kinda love only grows with time. Qheen of Relationship,

I think your b/f is a bit insecure if he can’t say the “L” word before a year.

You usually know if you love someone deeply. It’s a connection thing and a connection can be felt before a year. However, a deeper kinda love only grows with time.

]]> By: Queen of Relationships http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25916 Queen of Relationships Sat, 11 Apr 2009 02:22:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25916 *sigh* I've been dating my bf for almost seven months and he still hasn't popped the "L" word. He says there's no way someone can love someone in less than a year. I was falling in love with him but when he said that it came to a hault. Now, I have to wait a year to see if he loves me before I can allow myself to start falling again. So weird. *sigh* I’ve been dating my bf for almost seven months and he still hasn’t popped the “L” word. He says there’s no way someone can love someone in less than a year. I was falling in love with him but when he said that it came to a hault. Now, I have to wait a year to see if he loves me before I can allow myself to start falling again. So weird.

]]> By: Coach Yakub http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25893 Coach Yakub Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:11:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25893 Reader 1- I got to tell you some college professors are yummmy and the older the better, more experienced and she will def. teach you a lot more than study:) Reader 1-

I got to tell you some college professors are yummmy and the older the better, more experienced and she will def. teach you a lot more than study:)

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25892 Sandra Fri, 10 Apr 2009 12:01:36 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25892 DTO No Isabella is not my daughter...But the truth hurts when a person has to face their own realities doesn't it? DTO
No Isabella is not my daughter…But the truth hurts when a person has to face their own realities doesn’t it?

]]> By: IanE http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25890 IanE Fri, 10 Apr 2009 08:30:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25890 Re: Question 1. I can definitely relate to your position. Women, it seems, tend to have more issues with dating younger guys than vice-versa. I’ve quickly developed a close bond with someone who is a fair bit older than I am. We are friends at the moment, but I know that there is something more going on beneath the surface. I’ve not told her how I really feel, partly due to the age difference (10 years) and how she seems to want to reinforce this disparity by telling me how young I am. I think she has issues when it comes to men in general; we’ve talked relationships a few times and I’ve been pretty open, but she dances round questions saying things like she likes to be on her own and is happy as she is. But I know she is not. I tell her that she is a beautiful person and should be her natural, vivacious self more often; I’m not shy when it comes to being honest, however, I’m not sure that she’d be ready for the kind of honesty I want to show her – I really think I might sabotage a budding friendship as well as something more. Maybe there is also a bit of fear about being rejected on my part – yet I sense it would not be because she’s not interested in me, but because she is too scared of being loved or getting hurt. I guess there are also expectations and the opinions of others (friends, family etc) that may be weighing her down to. I won’t pester her or be needy about it. I am in a good place in my own life and becoming a more confident person with each passing day. Still, it is on my mind constantly. I’ve never really forged such an immediate and deeply emotional attachment with someone before. Not sure of my next step. Btw, thanks David for providing such stimulating and engaging topics of conversation in your blogs. Peace to all, Re: Question 1.

I can definitely relate to your position. Women, it seems, tend to have more issues with dating younger guys than vice-versa. I’ve quickly developed a close bond with someone who is a fair bit older than I am. We are friends at the moment, but I know that there is something more going on beneath the surface. I’ve not told her how I really feel, partly due to the age difference (10 years) and how she seems to want to reinforce this disparity by telling me how young I am. I think she has issues when it comes to men in general; we’ve talked relationships a few times and I’ve been pretty open, but she dances round questions saying things like she likes to be on her own and is happy as she is. But I know she is not. I tell her that she is a beautiful person and should be her natural, vivacious self more often; I’m not shy when it comes to being honest, however, I’m not sure that she’d be ready for the kind of honesty I want to show her – I really think I might sabotage a budding friendship as well as something more. Maybe there is also a bit of fear about being rejected on my part – yet I sense it would not be because she’s not interested in me, but because she is too scared of being loved or getting hurt. I guess there are also expectations and the opinions of others (friends, family etc) that may be weighing her down to.

I won’t pester her or be needy about it. I am in a good place in my own life and becoming a more confident person with each passing day. Still, it is on my mind constantly. I’ve never really forged such an immediate and deeply emotional attachment with someone before. Not sure of my next step.

Btw, thanks David for providing such stimulating and engaging topics of conversation in your blogs.

Peace to all,

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/some-more-qa/1494/#comment-25889 Khiem (DW Coach) Fri, 10 Apr 2009 07:47:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1494#comment-25889 Isabella, are you living a fantasy or why do you love him so much? Isabella, are you living a fantasy or why do you love him so much?

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