Comments on: So You’ve Got To Break Up With Someone… http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Wed, 23 May 2012 11:16:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Hindi Break Up SMS http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-51743 Hindi Break Up SMS Fri, 01 Jul 2011 06:52:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-51743 This is healthy discussion. I really appreciate with you.There are so many reason for break up. You can send sms for regarding problem. Thanks for post. This is healthy discussion.
I really appreciate with you.There are so many reason for break up.
You can send sms for regarding problem.

Thanks for post.

]]> By: Eric http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33894 Eric Thu, 17 Dec 2009 00:29:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33894 Marina what a perfect break up line for a woman. I would rather not be on the pill. That should scare the hell out of them. Marina what a perfect break up line for a woman. I would rather not be on the pill. That should scare the hell out of them.

]]> By: kimkarsh http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33314 kimkarsh Mon, 16 Nov 2009 22:01:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33314 After 3 months of dating someone I've decided to call it quits. Reading this article and all the feedback has helped clear my mind a lot. I tried telling him the things that I did not like, he apologized but still, nothing has changed and my feelings are hurt. I feel I deserve better then what I'm getting from this relationship. I can't even imagine breaking up with him in person. I guess I have to build up the strength to do this. I think my biggest fear is that he will act cold and not even care that I'm parting ways with him. After 3 months of dating someone I’ve decided to call it quits. Reading this article and all the feedback has helped clear my mind a lot. I tried telling him the things that I did not like, he apologized but still, nothing has changed and my feelings are hurt. I feel I deserve better then what I’m getting from this relationship. I can’t even imagine breaking up with him in person. I guess I have to build up the strength to do this. I think my biggest fear is that he will act cold and not even care that I’m parting ways with him.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33276 Tony888 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:27:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33276 Never heard the one about Sly Stallone breaking up by FedEx, but I do remember hearing about Phil Collins telling his wife at the time he wanted a divorce by fax. Cold! Yes, it's something that needs to be done face to face. It has to be handled carefully and with respect. Never heard the one about Sly Stallone breaking up by FedEx, but I do remember hearing about Phil Collins telling his wife at the time he wanted a divorce by fax. Cold! Yes, it’s something that needs to be done face to face. It has to be handled carefully and with respect.

]]> By: Lexi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33237 Lexi Sat, 14 Nov 2009 00:14:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33237 Charly-- Sorry about the gender mixup, yeah the only way my advice would change is different self care options although my BF really likes baths . . . if she does contact you, and you choose to respond, and you think you might want to be friends or friendly in the future, you could just tell her what your ground rules are, that you don't want to talk to her for the next 3 months (or whatever) and if you see her at parties or mutual social engagements you'll say hi and be normal, and you'll re-evaluate if you want her in your life as a friend later. I can relate to the chance to break up when things weren't working out and not doing it. I wouldn't get on your own case too much, especially if your strategy at that point was to try and work on things while still in the relationship-- that can be a good sign for the longevity and happiness in your relationship if you find the right girl. If, you were just afraid to end things rather than trying to work on what wasn't as good as it could be, definitely a good thing to look at about yourself. Charly–

Sorry about the gender mixup, yeah the only way my advice would change is different self care options although my BF really likes baths . . . if she does contact you, and you choose to respond, and you think you might want to be friends or friendly in the future, you could just tell her what your ground rules are, that you don’t want to talk to her for the next 3 months (or whatever) and if you see her at parties or mutual social engagements you’ll say hi and be normal, and you’ll re-evaluate if you want her in your life as a friend later.

I can relate to the chance to break up when things weren’t working out and not doing it. I wouldn’t get on your own case too much, especially if your strategy at that point was to try and work on things while still in the relationship– that can be a good sign for the longevity and happiness in your relationship if you find the right girl. If, you were just afraid to end things rather than trying to work on what wasn’t as good as it could be, definitely a good thing to look at about yourself.

]]> By: Alain http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33218 Alain Fri, 13 Nov 2009 08:49:23 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33218 I think breaking up is always hard to do because someone is getting hurt by it . Rejection is a part of life that no one ever wants to accept relationship are hard work that in some cases never pay off. I think breaking up is always hard to do because someone is getting hurt by it . Rejection is a part of life that no one ever wants to accept relationship are hard work that in some cases never pay off.

]]> By: charly2009 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33216 charly2009 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 03:18:04 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33216 Thanks for the advice Lexi. I'm sure i'll help, even for me that I am a dude :) What bothers me a lot is the fact that she was the one breaking up, when I knew that things were not working anymore. I had the chance to do it, but my fear of being lonely made me not to. You're so right about the patterns should work on for my next relationship. I made many mistakes and to be totally honest I pushed her to do that by not being a good partner. I'm really learning from my pain. Right now, i feel very angry at her. I even told her we're not friends anymore. I wonder how i should act if she wants to establish a friendship within some time or if I run into her.. Thanks for the advice Lexi. I’m sure i’ll help, even for me that I am a dude :)
What bothers me a lot is the fact that she was the one breaking up, when I knew that things were not working anymore. I had the chance to do it, but my fear of being lonely made me not to.
You’re so right about the patterns should work on for my next relationship. I made many mistakes and to be totally honest I pushed her to do that by not being a good partner. I’m really learning from my pain.
Right now, i feel very angry at her. I even told her we’re not friends anymore. I wonder how i should act if she wants to establish a friendship within some time or if I run into her..

]]> By: Lexi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33213 Lexi Fri, 13 Nov 2009 00:39:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33213 charly20009 -- Know that the pain is temporary, even though it is hard to see there might be better relationship matches out there for you it is hard to see them, if you have the impulse to call him, don't, call your friends instead. Figure out what patterns you might want to work on or change for your next relationship, let yourself cry. Do not contact him at all. Do nice things for yourself that are good self-care short & long term-- like get a massage if you have the $ too and if you don't, treat yourself to a luxurious bubble bath at home. Spend more time with friends and pick up a new hobby. Smile at other men. charly20009 —

Know that the pain is temporary, even though it is hard to see there might be better relationship matches out there for you it is hard to see them, if you have the impulse to call him, don’t, call your friends instead. Figure out what patterns you might want to work on or change for your next relationship, let yourself cry. Do not contact him at all. Do nice things for yourself that are good self-care short & long term– like get a massage if you have the $ too and if you don’t, treat yourself to a luxurious bubble bath at home. Spend more time with friends and pick up a new hobby. Smile at other men.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33212 Marina Fri, 13 Nov 2009 00:17:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33212 I liked the stick it note on the fridge..LOL I will try it next time...or easier hun I really don;t like to be on the pill I liked the stick it note on the fridge..LOL I will try it next time…or easier hun I really don;t like to be on the pill

]]> By: jefff a http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/so-youve-got-to-break-up-with-someone/2412/#comment-33205 jefff a Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:08:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2412#comment-33205 Whats the date cut off for when you can break up with someone over the phone? Does a long distance relationship add to the cut off? Whats the date cut off for when you can break up with someone over the phone? Does a long distance relationship add to the cut off?

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