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…oh, I am sure you are very hot……..a mans eyes are his biggest sex organ….all women have something to show……

He missed out I guess because I have some performance elements to me. I was willing to do what he wanted, but he couldn’t tell me what that was.

Are there really guys out there who don’t like BJs? I personally have a theory that the guys who don’t like have just never gotten a good one.

David…you said “I have found that they women that dont can not enjoy oral sex tend to have some major control issues.”

So far I haven’t enjoyed receiving oral…I alway thought it was just because no one had done it right. Any theories?

About the men being visual animals…I hate this. Because I’m not a barbie doll Idon’t get a lot of chances to show fellas what an amazing girl I am. I’ve spent many nights ast bars with my girlfriends…the guys chat me up all night. We joke we flirt we tease. But at the end of the night the guys ask me for the phone numbers of my girlfriends. It’s like they can’t process the fact that I’m smart and funny because I’m not hot. (I am cute, but not hot). Hate that about men — in general.

I would love to be a part of Davids “girls tell all” LOL. I think I might be a bit much to handle when I get going full staem a head. LOL

“People need to relax when they are alone, where shadows of their passion are the only other existance.”

Monday morning I will finally sign up for that yoga class (one of my new year resolutions) because I am too darn hyper all the time:-)

I think David should offer Joan one spot for these “girl tells all” blog spots, it should be enlightening as are all of her posts.

Joan
You have a point! I have yet to experience that one…

“Thanks David, but gosh

Like Pete, I keep hearing about how guys are “visually” oriented, and I resisted that stereotype at first, as I try to resist all stereotypes. But when I really thought about it, I had to admit that visual appeal for me is an important component. Then I tried to figure out what sort of woman I find visually appealing, and it got really murky.

There are so many variables, like height, weight, face, legs, eyes–you name it. I’m coming around to the conclusion that there’s no single “visual” characteristic that I always look for. It could end up being a mix and match. But when I first approach a woman (or more accurately, think about approaching), I always find that it’s because there’s something visual that I could latch onto.

Then, as Pete says, women can absolutely become more attractive as you get to know them and appreciate how their personality and the way they carry themselves is an integral part of their appearance. You see things in them that you could easily have missed in a casual encounter.

So I’m tempted to say that men should be more open-minded about whom they approach, and women should make sure their personality is more apparent. But then on reflection, both sexes could benefit equally from either admonition.

Anyway, I’m loving the range of opinions here. It’s turned into a lively forum.

Thanks David, but gosh….. I would more hope to win the pride of man…lol.
No offense Hory Lisa, but I am a woman who appreciates a man when it comes to sexual intimacy.

Pete;

Ummm thank you for that “energetic” compliment.” lol

I don’t happen to believe all men go on just visual. For the most part, yes…but there are definitely acceptions to that rule society so dictates.

Oh and the word nice? can be nice if you say it niiiiiice enough.
It is all in the whisper or the moan in which it is delivered.
If it is just “said,” yea blah, but if it is meant…TURN ON!!

People need to relax when they are alone, where shadows of their passion are the only other existance. If you cannot express yourself verbally and seductively, I believe in could put a real damper on what could have been an out of this world experience.

Its a good video….just the wrong title:)

This was a great blog by the way…..people really dug deep inside and asked some very powerful questions

Everyone
I just watched the video and this guy mentioned men being very much visually attracted.
Let’s get off-topic a bit. I’d like to know what you all think.
What’s your experience? Is it all visuals for men?

Let me share two quick stories.
Two years back, this girl I was chatting with told me her friend, whom I knew, had said I was “super handsome”. I was honored, of course and she kept bugging me for a pic. So I sent her one and she didn’t find me so good looking – haha, not at all, in fact!
Differences in taste put aside, I had been teasing and playing with her friend and having a good time. Did it affect the way she saw me? Oh yes.
Longer ago, I was crazy about a female friend I saw often. She wasn’t particularly beautiful – and beauty DOES attract me – but she looked perfectly okay. I had known her for some time and wasn’t attracted to her earlier. As I started hanging out with her, I became attracted to her because of the way she was, and as a result I FOUND HER PRETTIER. Your view just adapts! And that’s great! For the record, we did nothing. Too bad

So tell us what you think. Are men that much visually attracted?