Comments on: Shut the Hell Up… and Learn http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Adam DW Head Instructor - London http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22968 Adam DW Head Instructor - London Wed, 11 Feb 2009 09:37:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22968 Another thought about listening. If you are in a conversation and the other person is talking, many of you that get in contact with me mention that you are already thinking of the next thing to say whilst the other person is still talking. The problem with this is that when the person stops talking and the conversation is then over to you the response you will give will not totally harmonise with their last words and therfore you break rapport and even worse your not actually being PRESENT in the conversation..which is a big turn off to anyone. If someone is talking, the respectfull thing to do is to listen. The thing is, because most people are so self obsessed with themselves and what other people think of them that doing this simple excercise can be hard. I CHALLENGE YOU that with the next 5 people you talk to that you be totally present with them. Dont stare at them, but truely listen to them and stop thinking about yourself. You will find that people and especially the girls will love to talk to you and they will open up to you like never before. We go into more detail in the membership site but for now get out there and stop talking... The art of great conversation is equally about talking as it is about the times when you dont talk. Try this now and get back to me... Another thought about listening. If you are in a conversation and the other person is talking, many of you that get in contact with me mention that you are already thinking of the next thing to say whilst the other person is still talking. The problem with this is that when the person stops talking and the conversation is then over to you the response you will give will not totally harmonise with their last words and therfore you break rapport and even worse your not actually being PRESENT in the conversation..which is a big turn off to anyone. If someone is talking, the respectfull thing to do is to listen. The thing is, because most people are so self obsessed with themselves and what other people think of them that doing this simple excercise can be hard.

I CHALLENGE YOU that with the next 5 people you talk to that you be totally present with them. Dont stare at them, but truely listen to them and stop thinking about yourself. You will find that people and especially the girls will love to talk to you and they will open up to you like never before. We go into more detail in the membership site but for now get out there and stop talking…

The art of great conversation is equally about talking as it is about the times when you dont talk.

Try this now and get back to me…

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22962 Sandra Wed, 11 Feb 2009 04:30:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22962 hunter omg--o my god u did not. but i am thankful that neither one of you were hurt. hunter
omg–o my god u did not. but i am thankful that neither one of you were hurt.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22841 hunter Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:49:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22841 Just wondering about your story, 'cause, I remember almost causing a car collision, I was the passenger, I had may hand between her legs, and the car was in reverse. Just wondering about your story, ’cause, I remember almost causing a car collision, I was the passenger, I had may hand between her legs, and the car was in reverse.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22840 Sandra Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:44:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22840 Hunter It is a long story with a sad ending my ex was driving and he lost control in the curve and the bike fell on us it gave me a permanent ankle bracelet and almost got my archilles tendon. Hunter
It is a long story with a sad ending my ex was driving and he lost control in the curve and the bike fell on us it gave me a permanent ankle bracelet and almost got my archilles tendon.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22838 hunter Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:37:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22838 Sandra, You don't know what to say when you first meet someone? You have me fooled on this website, 'cause you have a lot to say. Women have told me, take your arm off of me, and I am not your sweetheart/honey. Sandra,

You don’t know what to say when you first meet someone? You have me fooled on this website, ’cause you have a lot to say. Women have told me, take your arm off of me, and I am not your sweetheart/honey.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22835 hunter Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:18:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22835 Sandra, I am confused, over your motorcycle story. You were a passenger, yet, you were accused of causing the traffic accident? Sandra, I am confused, over your motorcycle story. You were a passenger, yet, you were accused of causing the traffic accident?

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22809 Sandra Sun, 08 Feb 2009 18:49:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22809 Hunter Since that accident there are times I am gunshy of a curve even when someone else is driving. He misjudged the curve when he gave it the gas. Then afterwards he told me it was no accident and that he had been drinking while driving the bike. I am very cautious when I see others on motorbikes for I myself was a passenger. Hunter
Since that accident there are times I am gunshy of a curve even when someone else is driving. He misjudged the curve when he gave it the gas. Then afterwards he told me it was no accident and that he had been drinking while driving the bike. I am very cautious when I see others on motorbikes for I myself was a passenger.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22807 Sandra Sun, 08 Feb 2009 18:42:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22807 Hunter Like myself I don't know what to talk about for if I first meet you I don't know you. So some guys will talk to me about anything just to get the conversation going. Then I will have them calling me honey, sweetheart and etc. Or even patting me on the shoulder, walking beside me with their arm around my waist. Hunter
Like myself I don’t know what to talk about for if I first meet you I don’t know you. So some guys will talk to me about anything just to get the conversation going. Then I will have them calling me honey, sweetheart and etc. Or even patting me on the shoulder, walking beside me with their arm around my waist.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22805 hunter Sun, 08 Feb 2009 18:10:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22805 Sandra look out for motorcycles, while driving. Sandra look out for motorcycles, while driving.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/shut-the-hell-up%e2%80%a6-and-learn/1276/#comment-22802 hunter Sun, 08 Feb 2009 16:53:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1276#comment-22802 Then again,,,,some women are so attracted to you that, they don't say much..... Then again,,,,some women are so attracted to you that, they don’t say much…..

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