these games david is talking about are a little different than what i think you’re thinking of.

no we dont like “games” that entail his being a “player.” we dont like being led on, to expect one thing only to get something totally different. we want honesty.

the games that we women like have to do with flirting and banter. we love to be teased, to be told that we’re gorgeous or sexy. we love to be made aware of the fact that our man is thinking “dirty thoughts” about us during a normal workday. this kind of teasing and playing is HOT HOT.

out of the blue comments that arent even erotic are nice too. like posting on her facebook wall a couple times a day “you’re beautiful.” “have i told you today that i love you?” “i miss you.” steamy or not, knowing he is thinking about me when i’m not there is precious.

We worked in the same building, but in different parts of the office and he would send me naughty little bits throughout the day so that by the end of the day I was ready to lick his skin off!

I can’t take credit for the amzing texting — it was mostly his doing. He would promt me with something that would remind me of our last encounter. For example, “It was amazing to touch your body last night.”

Instantly I was flashing back. Then he would ask me a question about the encounter. “What was your favorite thing that I did to you?”

We’d discuss that a bit and then he’d bring up our next rendezevous. “What do you want me to do to you tonight?”

He’s no longer in the same part of the country as me, but from time to time he’ll send me a text that says something like, “I was thinking about you while I handled some things this morning.”

He was very clever because all of this texting quickly made him my fantasy man. Even though I was sexually invlved with a couple of other men, I often thought of him while I was “handling things.”

I enjoyed meeting you briefly at the PUA Summit, even though I know you’re not a “PUA.” Also enjoyed your talk. You are a very dynamic speaker, and I appreciate that you’re not teaching men the art of superficial connections but rather to see women as people.

Hope to cross paths with you again one of these days soon.

xoxo,
Erika Awakening

And by her doing that she’s aparently given you a little bit of free rein to run with it and escalate a sexual conversation. I won’t ever make that sexual comment first. But they got to be cute or clever comments. Nothing to graphic. Otherwise you’ll blow it.

I have never been so “naughty” and sexually unrestrained with anyone I’ve only gone out with a few times before this — and I KNOW it’s because he did exactly what David said in this blog–

He didn’t go right for the sex in the texts in the beginning. There was a LOT of teasing and a LOT of innuendo, and I just got really comfortable with him (and really UNworried that he might be a creep!).

Once that happened, I’ve had some of the most unbelievable orgasms with my phone in one hand — WOW. And David is right, when we had sex for real after that, it was AMAZING and so unbelievably hot!

I won’t tell you some of the things we did the first time we had sex — things I usually wouldn’t have even considered doing until way later before.

I don’t know…something about the sexting just made me feel aroused all day long…

Guys, listen to David about this…. IT’S SO TRUE!!!