Comments on: Sex And The City-Free Podcast http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: fun love test for a couple to take free http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-16349 fun love test for a couple to take free Mon, 14 Jul 2008 17:09:47 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-16349 <strong>fun love test for a couple to take free...</strong> I am thinking of doing a blog, how many times a week do you think I should post?... fun love test for a couple to take free…

I am thinking of doing a blog, how many times a week do you think I should post?…

]]> By: AP http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15627 AP Wed, 18 Jun 2008 03:30:50 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15627 CJ - your date actually sounds psychotic! The last thing I want to do after a date is call :p CJ – your date actually sounds psychotic! The last thing I want to do after a date is call :p

]]> By: AP http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15626 AP Wed, 18 Jun 2008 03:25:49 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15626 This is the curse of everyone that follows David's method, and I'm so glad you've posted about it. I'm embroiled with an extremely needy girl who I believe has an adult version of ADD - she gets chronic boredom and needs stimulation. But other than this one critical flaw she is amazing. I'm heading overseas (for a whole year) in a month so we spoke about "us", and agreed it shouldn't progress further, but under different circumstances I wouldn't hesitate to make her my girlfriend. We didn't have sex that night even though her body language and behavior was begging for it. If that wasn't hard enough for me already, in the four days since she's texted me a lot with things like, "I miss you already....I want to kiss you....I can't believe you're going for a year, you suck.....why don't you cancel overseas and come live here with me" and also random thoughts like, "I'm feeding baby lambs right now!" I could easily go round and show her a good time but things would definitely get worse! Don't know how to handle it without causing her serious emotional damage (we've sorta been friends for a year and has always said I'm the only person that makes her feel good about herself). Where are all the non-needy people? :D This is the curse of everyone that follows David’s method, and I’m so glad you’ve posted about it.

I’m embroiled with an extremely needy girl who I believe has an adult version of ADD – she gets chronic boredom and needs stimulation. But other than this one critical flaw she is amazing.

I’m heading overseas (for a whole year) in a month so we spoke about “us”, and agreed it shouldn’t progress further, but under different circumstances I wouldn’t hesitate to make her my girlfriend.

We didn’t have sex that night even though her body language and behavior was begging for it.

If that wasn’t hard enough for me already, in the four days since she’s texted me a lot with things like, “I miss you already….I want to kiss you….I can’t believe you’re going for a year, you suck…..why don’t you cancel overseas and come live here with me” and also random thoughts like, “I’m feeding baby lambs right now!”

I could easily go round and show her a good time but things would definitely get worse! Don’t know how to handle it without causing her serious emotional damage (we’ve sorta been friends for a year and has always said I’m the only person that makes her feel good about herself).

Where are all the non-needy people? :D

]]> By: CJ http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15416 CJ Mon, 09 Jun 2008 17:39:15 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15416 This checking in crap is exactly why I aborted my last relationship. I say aborted because it wasn't quite a relationship yet and I pulled the plug. I have a demanding job and for the most part that doesn't bother me. About once a month I have to work long hours and I mean LONG. I happened to meet a guy who wanted to go out to dinner with me right before one of these long hour weeks. We hadn't even gone on a date and this fella was so needy that he wanted me to call him like every night when I got home -- no matter what time it was. That's like the type of thing m y over-protective mother used to want me to do after I drove across country. "Call me whenever you get there sweetie -- no matter what time it is so that I know you're safe." -- Okay mom. I went on one date with this guy -- on a Sunday afternoon -- and at the end of the date he wanted me to set a time to call him the next day. Besides being unbelievable it was also annoying. I was trying to give him a fair shot so I said yes, I would call him around 9 the next night. But, at 8:45 p.m. Monday night I realized I didn't want to talk to him. I had nothing to say and I didn't really want to talk to anybody. So I didn't call him. At 9:05 he called me. He called again at 9:15...and 9:30. Holy stalker, Batman. If he was like that after one date I can't imagine what it would be like to be his girlfriend. I would probably go insane. There's almost no one I want to talk to every day. In fact, if a guy wants to see me and talk to me every day he is going to have to marry me and live with me. Otherwise it ain't gonna happen. And it sure as hell ain't happening in the first week of our relationship. Okay, I've said my piece. This checking in crap is exactly why I aborted my last relationship. I say aborted because it wasn’t quite a relationship yet and I pulled the plug.

I have a demanding job and for the most part that doesn’t bother me. About once a month I have to work long hours and I mean LONG. I happened to meet a guy who wanted to go out to dinner with me right before one of these long hour weeks.

We hadn’t even gone on a date and this fella was so needy that he wanted me to call him like every night when I got home — no matter what time it was. That’s like the type of thing m y over-protective mother used to want me to do after I drove across country.

“Call me whenever you get there sweetie — no matter what time it is so that I know you’re safe.” — Okay mom.

I went on one date with this guy — on a Sunday afternoon — and at the end of the date he wanted me to set a time to call him the next day. Besides being unbelievable it was also annoying. I was trying to give him a fair shot so I said yes, I would call him around 9 the next night.

But, at 8:45 p.m. Monday night I realized I didn’t want to talk to him. I had nothing to say and I didn’t really want to talk to anybody. So I didn’t call him. At 9:05 he called me. He called again at 9:15…and 9:30. Holy stalker, Batman. If he was like that after one date I can’t imagine what it would be like to be his girlfriend. I would probably go insane.

There’s almost no one I want to talk to every day. In fact, if a guy wants to see me and talk to me every day he is going to have to marry me and live with me. Otherwise it ain’t gonna happen. And it sure as hell ain’t happening in the first week of our relationship.

Okay, I’ve said my piece.

]]> By: Pete http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15308 Pete Fri, 06 Jun 2008 23:29:54 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15308 Markus!! Deja vu all the way mate :p ha! You're in MEXICO?? By the sea? Fantastic man! How is life there? I'm in Utrecht, but way busy lately and sleeping far too little. Vacation soon and then I'm heading to Amsterdam again. I love it, as well as the 'tempo bellisimo'! Check your box.net e-mail address. I mailed you way back. Ciao! Pete Markus!! Deja vu all the way mate :p ha!

You’re in MEXICO?? By the sea? Fantastic man! How is life there?

I’m in Utrecht, but way busy lately and sleeping far too little. Vacation soon and then I’m heading to Amsterdam again. I love it, as well as the ‘tempo bellisimo’!

Check your box.net e-mail address. I mailed you way back.

Ciao!
Pete

]]> By: Markus http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15287 Markus Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:38:58 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15287 Hey Pete the deja vu is all mine :D:D and you know why!!! ha ha Hope you have a good time in Amsterdam. Me in Cancun now, trying not to fall asleep (long day in the sun & lots of food) stay tuned markus Hey Pete

the deja vu is all mine :D :D and you know why!!! ha ha

Hope you have a good time in Amsterdam. Me in Cancun now, trying not to fall asleep (long day in the sun & lots of food)

stay tuned
markus

]]> By: Pete http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15285 Pete Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:13:23 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15285 I'm having a deja vu here :) or is that deja écoutez? Slava, you said it all!! That will make me feel good also. I agree with Patrick - more guys than girls going around doing this! They should just go read Slava's advice and turn it around. ;) This all kinda reminds me of Keeping Up Appearances. "Richard, where have you been!" I’m having a deja vu here :) or is that deja écoutez?

Slava, you said it all!! That will make me feel good also.

I agree with Patrick – more guys than girls going around doing this! They should just go read Slava’s advice and turn it around. ;)

This all kinda reminds me of Keeping Up Appearances. “Richard, where have you been!”

]]> By: Lexi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15263 Lexi Thu, 05 Jun 2008 19:21:22 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15263 Yes, neediness is unattractive. I tend to agree with Patrick. I wonder about people who choose needy partners-- like, if their partner was very secure in the relationship if they would become the needy ones-- i.e. flip side of the same coin. Anyway, it happens, and I'm only curious about the neediness of the ones who repeatedly pick needy partners. Yes, neediness is unattractive. I tend to agree with Patrick.

I wonder about people who choose needy partners– like, if their partner was very secure in the relationship if they would become the needy ones– i.e. flip side of the same coin. Anyway, it happens, and I’m only curious about the neediness of the ones who repeatedly pick needy partners.

]]> By: Rock & roll http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15256 Rock & roll Thu, 05 Jun 2008 17:29:39 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15256 What I would do is this: say you want to meet and chat? Ok then we can like talk some to see how the conversation goes. Just to apease her then I would ask her to meet me at XYZ. So we meet if she shows signs of needyness I would ask whats up with your life. Hows your love life going. Woman really crave attention sometimes. And i think we all need to be more open to just having talks with each other. This world can be very troubling to some and opening up to people is a good start to improving yourself and helping others to improve their's as well. Afterall isn't that what this web site all about. What I would do is this: say you want to meet and chat? Ok then we can like talk some to see how the conversation goes. Just to apease her then I would ask her to meet me at XYZ. So we meet if she shows signs of needyness I would ask whats up with your life. Hows your love life going.
Woman really crave attention sometimes. And i think we all need to be more open to just having talks with each other. This world can be very troubling to some and opening up to people is a good start to improving yourself and helping others to improve their’s as well. Afterall isn’t that what this web site all about.

]]> By: Sara (aka-Annoyed) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/sex-and-the-city-free-podcast/526/#comment-15252 Sara (aka-Annoyed) Thu, 05 Jun 2008 09:53:04 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=526#comment-15252 Patrick, I firmly agree with your way of going about meeting and keeping women interested. Unfortunately there really are so many insecure people out there! So many people are incredibly damaged, or lack care, that it makes it virtually impossible to tell the difference!! San Francisco is a great place to meet people more interested in the ECO guy, heck I am more into the ECO guy. In the end, I believe people lose interest in the guys/girls who 'pretend' to be secure and strut their 'fake' stuff. Look back at your experiences... Have you ever dated someone you got along with so well and you knew they could be the one, but you decided to go with the guy/girl who had the better bod/ better car/ better job... and they turned out to be needy or lack too much security? Food for thought, think about it. Patrick, I firmly agree with your way of going about meeting and keeping women interested.

Unfortunately there really are so many insecure people out there! So many people are incredibly damaged, or lack care, that it makes it virtually impossible to tell the difference!!

San Francisco is a great place to meet people more interested in the ECO guy, heck I am more into the ECO guy. In the end, I believe people lose interest in the guys/girls who ‘pretend’ to be secure and strut their ‘fake’ stuff. Look back at your experiences… Have you ever dated someone you got along with so well and you knew they could be the one, but you decided to go with the guy/girl who had the better bod/ better car/ better job… and they turned out to be needy or lack too much security?

Food for thought, think about it.

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