I am going to share a story with you. I was recently on the phone with a good friend of mine who just broke up with a girl he had been seeing for three or four months. When I asked him what happened, he said “It just didn’t have that ‘it factor.'”

Have you guys ever dated someone who is so perfect that everyone who meets them thinks they are the most amazing person in the world? They are warm. They are attractive. They are as nice as can be. They remember your birthday in the most special ways. They call at all the right times. They are totally charming. The sex is even really good.

I mean, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this person. Nothing! They are everything you think you want . . . except you just don’t feel the “it factor.” The “it factor” is that feeling in your heart that you get when you know you are with the right person.

A lot of us will meet these “perfect” people and, because they are such a great person, we will give them an opportunity for a period of time to see if it can work. Some of us will actually give these people an opportunity for a long period of time.

My friend only gave her four months, but I know people (myself included) who have given someone years because you believe they believe you would be a fool to let such a perfect person go. You think to yourself “Is there something wrong with me? I mean, I am staring at perfection and I must be crazy that I can’t seem to feel what I want to feel with this person!”

It is called chemistry. I call it the “it factor.” No matter what you call it, we are all looking for it.

You don’t need to compromise in life. If you don’t have the “it factor” with the person you’re with then you need to ask yourself this question: Why are we wasting each other’s time?

There is no reason NOT to have the “it factor” in your relationship, because it does exist. I have it right now, and it is the most amazing feeling I have ever had.

The “it factor” for me with the person I’m dating means so much more than just being in love with her. I respect her. I honor her. I am more attracted to her than I have ever been to anybody else. She is my best friend and she is everything I always wanted.

I have the “it factor.” Each of you deserve to have the “it factor,” and none of you need to compromise.

On top all this great information I have recorded a Podcast where I talk more in depth about the “it factor” and reveal how you can get attract the “it factor” into your life (and why you should never settle for anything less!). To listen, simply click the play button below:

I have a new product coming out that teaches how to meet the kind of person that makes you feel everything you want to feel with someone, and then how to cultivate the kind of relationship to allow you to really experience that “it factor” at the most amazing level with someone.

It is the first of my brand new relationship management products which I am going to be releasing. It is not yet available for purchase, but I am going to let a few people have a sneak peek. In fact, only 40 people can purchase this product now (and will get a very special deal). . . cause ALL of us deserve the “it factor!” UPDATE: SOLD OUT!!