It’s nobody’s business what you do with your lover. It’s nobody’s business how often you see them or how often you want to see them. You don’t need to justify it to anyone.

People will try to tell you there are certain “rules” about how, when and how often you should see your lover. They may say “So long as you don’t see your lover on Friday night AND Saturday night, then everything is fine” or “Never spend a whole weekend with your lover” or “If you see each other Saturday night, make sure you have them home Sunday night before the stroke of midnight, otherwise you’re spend too much time with them over the weekend.”

Really, this is pretty ridiculous. There are no rules about this.

Spend as much time with somebody as you want to spend with them. Spend whatever amount of time feels right and good to you, because life is about embracing your lover and the time you have with them.

The key here is that your sex life and the time you spend with a lover needs to be justified to no one. If you choose to spend seven days a week with your lover and still want more, then that is the best feeling in the world.

You want to have that feeling. You want to have that sensation. You want to enjoy someone that much in every which way . . . and no one should ever judge you for that. There are no rules that you need to follow about this.

So go ahead and spend as much time with your lover as you want. Be spontaneous about it.

If for example you are seeing a man and you are absolutely in love with him (or just absolutely love being with him) and you are on the phone with him at 11:00 pm, invite him over! Say “Hey, I would much rather be snuggling in bed with you right now than snuggling with the telephone.”

It’s nice to miss someone. If you have an inclination to see someone, embrace that and be spontaneous. Being spontaneous with your lover is the best feeling in the world.

So, don’t live by other’s rules, especially when it comes to you and your lover. When it comes down to you and your lover, everything that you do is private.

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