What tells you that this assumption is accurate? How about in older age, the “nice guys” are really bad boys… but on the outside, they seem tame and nice… but really on the inside, they are adventurous, spontaneous, manly… just like the “bad boys”?

These are what Wayne Dyer would call “memes” which are potentially inaccurate beliefs that are spread like gospel… without truly understanding whether they are still meaningful or relevant at all.

I’m sure David might do a podcast on that sometimes though. It’d be a fun topic!

Plus, the appeal of the “Bad Boy” usually has some romanticized “he’ll go good because he loves me so much” sort of element. And most women grow up and realize they don’t can’t or don’t want to change a guy.

Sort of like women who are attracted to the brooding artist type when they are young because they want to ease his pain with the beauty of their love. But when you grow up (and by you I mean me) you get to the point that you just want to hit that guy in the face tell him to cheer up already and get a real job.

Some stuff just doesn’t work very well after college.

You said we should give feedback and suggestions for future discussions correct?

Well heres a suggestion, Why is it that women desire “The Bad Boys” but as they get older they marry “The Nice Guys”??