Comments on: Relate to Her

By: dunn

dunn — Sun, 22 May 2011 10:53:03 +0000

that’s allgood and dandy and I’m glad women feel appreciative of a man listening to them and David is good listener and one to preach as I’ve communicated with him a few times but does it get you laid? With my ex, it seemed like the more I ignored her, the more she wanted to bang me. I hated listening to her and ironically it made her want to bang me some more, like every day more. And no she wasn’t a slut or a girl with issues she was grade A stuff but I broke up with her because I wasn’t ready to settle down yet… I love women too much.

By: Khiem

Khiem — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 19:24:19 +0000

Nowadays, especially in big cities, people are too into their own world.

So anytime I can get a real authentic connection with someone, I’m very appreciative of it. I think women (just as much as men) want the same way: to be loved and to love someone.

And that can’t start without a good connection, no matter which connection you are thinking of.

By: K

Fri, 31 Oct 2008 07:22:14 +0000

Infinity – you tell ‘em! What will they do if they get another chance to hang with someone they want to be with – start out at ground zero as if nothing passed in their first encounter? I would think that they were just playing the odds for the first one who responded positively. Can you say “Short Attention Span Theater?” No, thanks. I’ll catch the next bus and take my chances there.

By: Infinity

Infinity — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 01:09:26 +0000

revababy – so true.

C makes and good point and Joely, you should really work on this. It’s very small but significant in so many ways. If you just listen a little more, even if it is focusing on key words, it’ll make a huge difference. Once you get comfortable listening to key words, then you can start getting into listening in full.

The perfect example is this blog.

How many of you actually read the responses here before making your own reply?

Of those who listen, how many of you are women? Men? The difference will be clear.

Let’s close the gap guys, and start listening to women. They have a lot of great things to say and you could learn so much from them. I love listening to women because they have so much to share!

Any women that I have a REAL conversation with always tell me that they feel like a much better and mature person having talked to me. And that’s because I listen, relate and share. It’s easy.

Be willing to share with others and be willing to take what people share with you.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 00:42:51 +0000

David’s cute. I’d have gotten shy, too.

By: revababy

revababy — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 22:34:40 +0000

every human male on earth should read this blog and start practicing how to relate to women…

By: elia

elia — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 18:47:38 +0000

bringing her back to the moment is what i have only learnt from you David, keep up the good work!!

By: Yakub

Yakub — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 16:45:46 +0000

Leon: got your text from a international number, write me your email address.

By: leon

leon — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 12:50:46 +0000

Good blog

By: Joely

Joely — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 11:04:23 +0000

I’m still so bad at listening, but I’ve noticed it does make a difference if you remember details. It really brings that bond together, because its something that you and her share if its a certain detail.