Comments on: Reaction Speakers http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Wed, 23 May 2012 07:53:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Gregory Kohs http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28951 Gregory Kohs Tue, 23 Jun 2009 10:46:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28951 I just got a very, very similar "remove your ad, my shipper will arrange pick-up from you, my certified check will arrive via Fed Ex" response from one and the same "LOE JOHN". They must think we're stupid. I just got a very, very similar “remove your ad, my shipper will arrange pick-up from you, my certified check will arrive via Fed Ex” response from one and the same “LOE JOHN”. They must think we’re stupid.

]]> By: Maxx http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28779 Maxx Tue, 16 Jun 2009 13:54:04 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28779 I think im still in some degree certain reaction seeker. Aint good. Anyway im allergic when someone is saying "game". Word game is good for a players or freakin pua. And what is imporant what i found out, to FEEL GOOOOOOOOOOD. If you are feeling gooood attracting people is kinda effortlessly. People wanna be with you, in your company. But when you worried, sad or have in heart another bad emotions, people dont wanna stay with you. I heard even something like "When you laughing - whole world is laughing with you, when you crying - you crying alone." Stay well, feel good and attract people! Have an amazing day you all ! I think im still in some degree certain reaction seeker. Aint good.
Anyway im allergic when someone is saying “game”. Word game is good for a players or freakin pua.
And what is imporant what i found out, to FEEL GOOOOOOOOOOD. If you are feeling gooood attracting people is kinda effortlessly. People wanna be with you, in your company.
But when you worried, sad or have in heart another bad emotions, people dont wanna stay with you. I heard even something like “When you laughing – whole world is laughing with you, when you crying – you crying alone.”

Stay well, feel good and attract people! Have an amazing day you all !

]]> By: Philip http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28756 Philip Mon, 15 Jun 2009 22:57:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28756 Hey guys, Hey David, Greetings from Ireland! Great Blog again... Been away for while so just catching up on old blogs and found this one! Awesome points... I tried all that PUA stuff before coming across David's stuff and found it wasn't ME.... I found I was trying to become someone I'm not, which of course was picked up in my interactions with people and so didn't have the results I was expecting (another downfall going into interactions with expectations - go in with no outcome and the outcome will always be better than anticipated!!) also when you go in with expectations, somehow our expectations are normally that it will go wrong! Get out of your head and into your heart and JUST DO IT!!! Don't think, just do! Soback to the PUA stuff, after researching this stuff and not getting results I expected, I felt I had to find who I was and had to be that perfectly, good and bad! There's only one of me so I have to be that perfectly... David you talked about the 80:20 rule in a blog previously (80% won't have chemistry etc, 20% will) really hit home for me, i was always beating myself up on the 80% not working, and not focused on the 20% that did.. I'm sure if I focused on the 20%, this would increase dramatically!!! Also - with above - a thing I was thinking about today when I was coaching someone was that we're "if then" people when we use Pick up techniques... IF she says this, THEN I will say this... IF she does this IOI, THEN I will do this etc.... you get the picture.... STOP!!! go in, have fun, listen, be present and enjoy the interaction! if the person you're talking to is in the 80%, oh well!! At least you took a step out of your comfort zone and approached!! If they're in the 20%, GREAT JOB!!! :) Looking forward to reading the more up to date blogs but in Ireland now it's 23.54... time for bed!!! Tomorrow's another day! Thanks David... Have a great day everyone and live with PASSION!! Philip Hey guys, Hey David,

Greetings from Ireland!

Great Blog again… Been away for while so just catching up on old blogs and found this one! Awesome points…

I tried all that PUA stuff before coming across David’s stuff and found it wasn’t ME…. I found I was trying to become someone I’m not, which of course was picked up in my interactions with people and so didn’t have the results I was expecting (another downfall going into interactions with expectations – go in with no outcome and the outcome will always be better than anticipated!!) also when you go in with expectations, somehow our expectations are normally that it will go wrong! Get out of your head and into your heart and JUST DO IT!!! Don’t think, just do!

Soback to the PUA stuff, after researching this stuff and not getting results I expected, I felt I had to find who I was and had to be that perfectly, good and bad! There’s only one of me so I have to be that perfectly… David you talked about the 80:20 rule in a blog previously (80% won’t have chemistry etc, 20% will) really hit home for me, i was always beating myself up on the 80% not working, and not focused on the 20% that did.. I’m sure if I focused on the 20%, this would increase dramatically!!!

Also – with above – a thing I was thinking about today when I was coaching someone was that we’re “if then” people when we use Pick up techniques… IF she says this, THEN I will say this… IF she does this IOI, THEN I will do this etc…. you get the picture…. STOP!!! go in, have fun, listen, be present and enjoy the interaction! if the person you’re talking to is in the 80%, oh well!! At least you took a step out of your comfort zone and approached!! If they’re in the 20%, GREAT JOB!!! :)

Looking forward to reading the more up to date blogs but in Ireland now it’s 23.54… time for bed!!! Tomorrow’s another day!

Thanks David…

Have a great day everyone and live with PASSION!!

Philip

]]> By: Zuko http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28669 Zuko Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:23:45 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28669 The fact is that most guys who want to become "pickup artists", really don´t need dating advise at first. They need advise on how to become more social, natural and comfortable in their own skin and daily interactions with people. Become real Men! Society has programmed them into some afraid, weak men, not having true role models to follow. The problems with learned cookie cutter routines is- if you aren´t CONGRUENT with the personality traits they convey - you will not be successful and you´ll become a "fake" person. In Daytime- you don´t need routines, canned opinion openers etc. etc. Club Environment- You are going to need routines , that are CONGRUENT with who you are , and hopefully your own unique ones:) However, it is a surreal environment. The general frame is heavily against guys. There is loud music, heavy drinking, girls go there to get attention. If you decide to go there without at least 1-2 openers/routines-the odds are against you. The Pickup Artist are slowly getting the drift. You need to be congruent with everything you do, or you will burn. I believe day time(day game) is the ultimate way to go without the canned routines. Listen to big W :) The most sane advice I´ve heard in years. Z The fact is that most guys who want to become “pickup artists”, really don´t need dating advise at first.

They need advise on how to become more social, natural and comfortable in their own skin and daily interactions with people.

Become real Men!

Society has programmed them into some afraid, weak men, not having true role models to follow.

The problems with learned cookie cutter routines is- if you aren´t CONGRUENT with the personality traits they convey – you will not be successful and you´ll become a “fake” person.

In Daytime- you don´t need routines, canned opinion openers etc. etc.

Club Environment- You are going to need routines , that are CONGRUENT with who you are ,
and hopefully your own unique ones:)

However, it is a surreal environment. The general frame is heavily against guys.

There is loud music, heavy drinking, girls go there to get attention.

If you decide to go there without at least 1-2 openers/routines-the odds are against you.

The Pickup Artist are slowly getting the drift.

You need to be congruent with everything you do, or you will burn.

I believe day time(day game) is the ultimate way to go without the canned routines.

Listen to big W :) The most sane advice I´ve heard in years.

Z

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28657 Marina Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:27:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28657 HI Peter, Finished with your book to enjoy the summer. So tempted to get the new iphone HI Peter,

Finished with your book to enjoy the summer. So tempted to get the new iphone

]]> By: JackWalker http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28655 JackWalker Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:59:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28655 Not all PUA's follow, agree with, or use the mystery method. There are many different techniques that fall under the term PUA. Some of them are identical to what you teach. Secondly, the best thing to do when purchasing electronics is not buying from the gray market. Do it legitimately. Buy a phone from the actual manufacturer. If you can't afford to buy a new iPhone with the Apple care protection plan and spend $150/mo for the service then perhaps you should stick with what you have. My girlfriend has the samsung touch screen with T-mobile. Although (IMO) it's not nearly as good as my iphone - it's still pretty cool. Otherwise good blog and thanks for raising awareness about money gram scams on the internet. Not all PUA’s follow, agree with, or use the mystery method. There are many different techniques that fall under the term PUA. Some of them are identical to what you teach. Secondly, the best thing to do when purchasing electronics is not buying from the gray market. Do it legitimately. Buy a phone from the actual manufacturer. If you can’t afford to buy a new iPhone with the Apple care protection plan and spend $150/mo for the service then perhaps you should stick with what you have. My girlfriend has the samsung touch screen with T-mobile. Although (IMO) it’s not nearly as good as my iphone – it’s still pretty cool. Otherwise good blog and thanks for raising awareness about money gram scams on the internet.

]]> By: Peter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28648 Peter Fri, 12 Jun 2009 06:36:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28648 David, I'd wait till new iPhone comes out next week and get that. The iPhone 3GS allows you to record video and then edit and upload it (to YouTube) on the spot. Many other cool features, but will have to wait for a few more weeks to get it here in Czech Republic. :( By the way, I had an idea for a David Wygant iPhone app a few months back, using GPS to track where you meet people, etc, etc. I thought it was a bit geeky, but it could be useful for hardcore socialites who want to track when and where they meet people. :) David, I’d wait till new iPhone comes out next week and get that. The iPhone 3GS allows you to record video and then edit and upload it (to YouTube) on the spot. Many other cool features, but will have to wait for a few more weeks to get it here in Czech Republic. :(

By the way, I had an idea for a David Wygant iPhone app a few months back, using GPS to track where you meet people, etc, etc. I thought it was a bit geeky, but it could be useful for hardcore socialites who want to track when and where they meet people. :)

]]> By: Barrett http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28646 Barrett Fri, 12 Jun 2009 05:45:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28646 Craigslist is full of email spam, pretty bad actually. I wish you the best of luck getting an unlocked iPhone for T-Mobile, I wanted to try and get one for Sprint but it turns out the wireless tech is different so I'd have to switch carrier. Craigslist works best for local services, if you're in a large city you will be able to find someone that can get you an unlocked iPhone. Craigslist is full of email spam, pretty bad actually. I wish you the best of luck getting an unlocked iPhone for T-Mobile, I wanted to try and get one for Sprint but it turns out the wireless tech is different so I’d have to switch carrier. Craigslist works best for local services, if you’re in a large city you will be able to find someone that can get you an unlocked iPhone.

]]> By: Dr.Who http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28644 Dr.Who Fri, 12 Jun 2009 05:12:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28644 I agree with Jimmi sounds like scam to me. Remember when it sounds to good to be true, it usually is! I agree with Jimmi sounds like scam to me. Remember when it sounds to good to be true, it usually is!

]]> By: jimmi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/reaction-speakers/1718/#comment-28643 jimmi Fri, 12 Jun 2009 05:11:09 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1718#comment-28643 CJ- stay way from that idiot he is so fake!!!! CJ- stay way from that idiot he is so fake!!!!

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