In the bookstore where I usually spent my time reading some new health magazines and interesting books, I usually return the books and magazines on their shelves after reading it. I observed that most of consumers they’d just leave it somewhere else because they expect some workers are in charge of doing it.

One time I heard one of the bookstore worker complaining to his co-worker telling “People thought this is a public library, they stay and read magazines for free and they’d just leave things everywhere after reading it”.

I think that is how CHAPTERS- the bookstore, was set up. Most of their branches has a Starbucks Cafe where people can have their coffee and at the same time can look for some reading materials. They cater two products at the same time.

I’ve absolutely no problem you emailing me. My address is peterwcox@hotmail.co.uk, which also happens to be my MSN Messenger address if you have it.

I could big up the bootcamp all day, but I will say is that the more enthusiasm and life you put in, and the more willing you are to try new things, the more you will get out of it.

Definitely stressing the enthusiam and the will to change! I’d also say that the bootcamp is not the end all of everything, pretty much all the information will be given to you, but its still up to you to press yourself on to do things you’ve never done before.

In addition, you need to keep the ball rolling week after week after week by yourself. The group energy will do so much for you (especially if you have kooky strange guys like me, who seem like theyre on cocaine half the time), but its so important you get out of your comfort zone and keep practicing.

Thanks for your answer. Can you email me so I can ask you some questions about David’s workshop and how it can change my life. I’m really glad you answered the question and actually talked about how you stopped isolating yourself from your friends. Right now I feel like I have to do that behind their backs when I am out gaming.

I’m not 3 years into the game like you were but I’ve been in for half a year and have taken a workshop…its become a part of my life but I really don’t like the feeling of looking at women as targets.

Hope to hear from you – stephony5@gmail.com

As a former, relentless pick up junkie I don’t blame you one jot for your comment, as its something I would have said a year ago.

One of the best decisions I’ve ever made is taking a bootcamp, and deleting the GB’s of PUA stuff, (some of it garbage, some of it gold, but it had to go.)

Neil Strauss and Adam Lyons (especially) I’m sure are brilliant at what they do, but I recommend, above all, that you stick to one guy/company.

I chose DW because it took so much pressure off after 3 years of all these little rules, and ridiculous openers, that I could finally be myself and stop isolating myself from my friends.

It took me a while until I understood why at the bootcamp I didnt do so well, and why DW hated all the ridiculous PUA terminology.

Because I was calling my approaches sets, as if they were potential conquests! The word set is about the most disgusting PUA terminology word you can use, because the people you’re approaching are humans, not “9s and 10s” to brag to your mates about

Hope I could provide a bit of an (indirect) answer to your question, welcome to the good side of self help!