Penile Attraction
January 31, 2010 
11 Comments
I’m hanging out with Will (who many of you will recognize from the videos in my Become A Master Communicator product) and he asked me a question which brought me back to some awful nights in my past.
He said, “I was hanging out with Khiem and his girlfriend, and there was this girl we ran into who was one of those loud girls. Everything she said was just over-the-top — amplified and loud. How do I deal with that? I mean, she was pretty. I thought she was hot, but how do I relate to her?”
Here was my answer: You don’t.
It’s so funny. As a man, we are so visual. We get so caught up with “the hot girl” that we tend to really never think about what it would like to hang out with her.
Can you imagine having a woman like the one Will met over for Thanksgiving dinner? She gets asked what she’d like on her plate, and she screams “drumstick!!” at the top of her lungs.
This person does not match who you are. This is not your personality style at all. This is not a person with whom you would get along.
So forget the fact that your penis is attracted to her, because that’s really all that is happening. Your eyes are attracted to her. Your penis felt some movement because it was attracted to her. That is all there is to it though.
It’s called penile attraction. Thank God it’s not fatal, because if it was a fatal attraction then other things would happen.
It is just penile attraction. That is all it is, so walk away from it.
You don’t vibe with her. You don’t relate to her. You two have totally different personalities. So walk away.
GREAT PICTURE on this blog! Hillarious….
And this blog is too true … and I think every single guy has suffered from this ailment whether they will admit it or not…
I thought we are suppose to talk to everyone??
Kevin:
I think Wygant means “don’t get hanged up on a girl/ don’t a connection or interaction just because of looks”.
There are ways to talk/engage/connect with everyone, and its good to practice doing this with different people so that you will get better. But don’t try to start some sort of relationship with someone whom you are just naturally incompatible with.
I beleive something like this should be common sense for all men
two birds of a different species dont flock together
I skateboard
I listen to rock & techno
I dont drink nor smoke
I like to dress preppy
could you imagine me approching a thugged out rap music girl using slang urban vernacular??
LOL I remember that night! Will, she was just a bit tipsy! Don’t try to relate to her that night! You can talk to her once she’s sober
even though she may have been loud and obnoxious she is still physically attractive. You don’t have to to marry her just try to connect with her. (Preferabbly when shes sober
) lol
Gerardo– you are spot on my friend!
Jack–what do you think the remedy is for this type of ailment:)?
Gereardo…it was a joke…toungue in cheek, David says to talk to everyone,but then says don’t even bother with the loud ones “thought we are supposed to talk to everyone”… get it? ahh nvm..
just what i was looking for thx alot!
lol, got it, hahaha
It’s a mistake we all have made, as we age we realize that looks aren’t everything. By the way, where was that picture taken?