Comments on: Obvious Is Good!

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:48:36 +0000

I’m going to admit the same thing as Yakub. As we learn more about ourselves, we realize that everything we need is right in front of us… or already in us. I remember reading a lot of dating and pickup advice…. and based on all that, I’d always had the perfect scenario in my head.

That really took me away from being in the moment and really talking about the obvious. I could spin stories based on observation… but I’d try too hard to make something happen… when if I paid attention, everything I needed to know was right in front of me.

And as far as the pimp story goes from a.movie… all I can say is WOW!

By: Facundo

Facundo — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:10:39 +0000

I’ve been trying the “keep it simple” conversation starters and I agree it’s more effective.

Wondering if others could give examples.

Always more to learn.

By: Tony888

Tony888 — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 05:33:31 +0000

Coach Kimberly;

I never get lost. I just change my mind about where I wanna go.
Usually with about 5 miles worth of gas left in the tank.

By: Sandra

Sandra — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 01:07:25 +0000

I had better rethink that for if I do there is a whole lot field better take a compass

By: Sandra

Sandra — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 01:06:49 +0000

Kim
I agree with u but there are times that I would get lost in my back yard

By: Coach Kimberly

Coach Kimberly — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 16:44:36 +0000

Sandra…a man wouldn’t follow the map anyway. He would need to find it on his own:)

But…once he finds his way no matter how he gets there it will become second nature. It’s like David is saying, you need to drive the route a few times and then you won’t have to read the directions.

And for we gals…we need to sometimes give the signals so they can find their way…

By: K

Sun, 01 Mar 2009 10:03:11 +0000

Simple is always better and certainly more effective.

Mike – And the subtitle to the “Art of the Pimp” story should be “Thinking you’re THE MAN when you’re really just someone else’s bitch.” Or maybe like the old expression “you think you’re a big shit served on a silver platter but you’re really just a little turd served on a paper plate.” I think that everyone should have a total jackass in their circle of acquaintance just to keep them in touch with reality. Sounds like he would be the classic “wannabe” character in a “B” movie.

and Dan – deluded people are not exclusive to LA or else the rest of us wouldn’t know what he was talking about, don’t ya think?

By: Mr. Eclectic

Mr. Eclectic — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:18:29 +0000

hey david. this post really helps; talk to everyone! I noticed that what you teach doesn’t just apply to women. It applies to everyone else you ain’t attracted to. You remind me of my dad. He’s always got friends everywhere in places we frequently go to: the gas station, the neighborhood, his hometown, even in some food restaurants! Thanks for this David.

By: Coach Yakub

Coach Yakub — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 07:50:25 +0000

Taras- its funny, there are guys, that probably read every single material on seduction, and still struggling to get some pussy, when they should be out, and socializing with all people, and also experience life instead reading someone else’s stories!

By: Coach Yakub

Coach Yakub — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 07:46:49 +0000

watup everyone!

I really liked What David had to say about today’s post, I remember when I first started out meeting woman, I thought about saying the right thing wayyyy too much that it took me out of being in the moment, and really listening deeply.

But as soon as I started to talk about the obvious, and how felt about certain things, man the the conversation just got better, it was natural and i wasn’t in my head. I really think its an important aspect for everyone to state the obvious on whats going around you instead of breaking someones train of thought!!!