Comments on: Not Your Boyfriend … But Enjoying The Fringe Benefits

By: Lilie

Lilie — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 16:43:13 +0000

I dated a guy from work and at fist it did not seem like friends with benefits, but as time passed, he only called when he wanted to have a good time in bed. This is frustrating, to be in this situation, where the chimistry is there, but the feelings are missing. I am not taking his calls anymore, if he likes what I got then he must show it other wise, his out.

By: Sandra

Sandra — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 14:20:31 +0000

I love those kind of guys…yeah right! I have dated some that has told me I have you on the hook when I want you I will reel you in. There are guys that I can read like a book and these are the type of guys that it will take longer to be with me. I am the type of woman I will give back to the man what he gives to me. So he is wasting our precious time when all he wants is to play games under the cover. Too much of this from him will be out the door and go and play with someone else’s emotions and feelings I will dump them like a hot potato and claim like he would all I want to do is be best friends.

By: Crystal

Crystal — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:14:29 +0000

I am looking for a friends with benefits situation right now — wait, actually I just want the benefits. I’m wanting a mutual booty call suituation. I have tried it with several guys in the past nonth and it just not working out — and I cannot believe it. I am so frustrated.

By: Marina

Marina — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 02:13:45 +0000

But if friends w/benefits is what you are looking for at the moment it’s not such a bad thing.

By: Queen Lindsay

Queen Lindsay — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:28:43 +0000

Friends w/ benefits are no fun. There really are no benefits, unless you count a seven inch cock a benefit.

By: drd

drd — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 23:22:51 +0000

marina,

you’re truly a lucky woman. i’ve done the “friends with benefits”, lets just f**k, the “just friends”
thing. it ain’t s**t. i, for one, want a friend, companion, and lover, all in one. maybe i’m asking
too much, but i’d rather do without than with only a hint of what the best could be.
lately, i’ve been seeing someone i truly like and respect. i’m not very patient, but am plesantly
surprised whenever i get a bit anxious about how things are gong. she has my thoughts & feelngs
in mind.
i don’t even have to show off this lady. everyone who meets her, thinks she’s great.
she ain’t perfect, by any means, but is sweet, and kind to everyone.
i don’t know that she’s the love of my life, but i hope i get the chance to find out.
i just wanna be equally kind and to this lady as she’s been to me.

By: Marina

Marina — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 19:53:07 +0000

So true. My husband from the minute we dated was showing me off…no, not like a trophy but you knew he was proud of me and could not get enough of me and introducing me to his friends. It’s so obvious when a guy in in love with you and really are in to you. Countless times I heard him say I finally found my girl.
As much as men often get “bad mouthed” when it comes to relationship on the flip side when you really love, you guys get into it 100%, so unless all you are into is a guy who is not showing you that kind of attention..it’s not worth it..I would prefer being single and not missing an opportunity to have that all consuming love. Why settle for second best..we are worth the best.