Comments on: Monkey Chatter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 23:01:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Babsy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24316 Babsy Mon, 09 Mar 2009 21:54:45 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24316 Phantastic! Love it to death! Big smile on my face! Magic advise, David. Thanks so much! Enjoyed nothing more than interacting with all the people surrounding me today. Amazing how easy and incredible fun with a lot of new inputs and thoughts. Tried millions of ways to get rid of them. They have been really a pain the whole day long in my life. Then I found my best solution. Make friends with your enemy - Stating to yourself: "You know little money on my shoulder. I love you to death and I really appriciate you comments - - BUT you are not better than my dog. All over me when I don't need you and far way when I need you...so there are two possibilities for you right now. Either you enjoy the new experience with me or you play with the others and leave me alone." Usually with one eye open he watches the scenery quietly. In the last couple of months he became my adventure friend. Phantastic! Love it to death! Big smile on my face!

Magic advise, David. Thanks so much! Enjoyed nothing more than interacting with all the people surrounding me today. Amazing how easy and incredible fun with a lot of new inputs and thoughts.

Tried millions of ways to get rid of them. They have been really a pain the whole day long in my life. Then I found my best solution.

Make friends with your enemy – Stating to yourself: “You know little money on my shoulder. I love you to death and I really appriciate you comments – - BUT you are not better than my dog. All over me when I don’t need you and far way when I need you…so there are two possibilities for you right now. Either you enjoy the new experience with me or you play with the others and leave me alone.” Usually with one eye open he watches the scenery quietly. In the last couple of months he became my adventure friend.

]]> By: Tom http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24165 Tom Fri, 06 Mar 2009 07:25:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24165 Thank you david! I think I'll go for the "Ripley's Believe It or Not" award for the most greetings made in one day : ) Thank you david! I think I’ll go for the “Ripley’s Believe It or Not” award for the most greetings made in one day : )

]]> By: marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24149 marina Thu, 05 Mar 2009 23:42:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24149 Thanks Mario, Can't say I missed a lot with the Smiths but I really appreciate you showed me the link. Girls to suffer from the validation syndrome especially if they are in a group but it's really only a sign of being insecure on yourself and not being comfortable in your own skin. Thanks Mario,

Can’t say I missed a lot with the Smiths but I really appreciate you showed me the link.

Girls to suffer from the validation syndrome especially if they are in a group but it’s really only a sign of being insecure on yourself and not being comfortable in your own skin.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24138 Jeff Thu, 05 Mar 2009 16:00:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24138 ya know.... all you young guys are really really fortunate , to be able to get such powerful advice as this. " Why are we telling our friends that? To impress them and to validate ourselves. Who should you be impressing in bed? The woman that you’re with. You should be able to talk to her the next day and say, “Oh man, I fucked you so good last night.” Then when she responds, “Yes you did!” there is all the validation you need! You don’t need validation from other men." Read that over again, NO enlarge the font and print it out and tape it to the the mirror so that you can read it every morning ! I took me a long time to understand that a confident man never feels the need to tell you how well he does something, he realizes that someone will almost always notice that you do those things well.... and of course they will tell YOU. Like I said it took a long time to come to that realization and David hands you that wonderful advice for free! Powerful advice David! ya know…. all you young guys are really really fortunate , to be able to get such powerful advice as this.

” Why are we telling our friends that? To impress them and to validate ourselves. Who should you be impressing in bed? The woman that you’re with. You should be able to talk to her the next day and say, “Oh man, I fucked you so good last night.” Then when she responds, “Yes you did!” there is all the validation you need!

You don’t need validation from other men.”

Read that over again, NO enlarge the font and print it out and tape it to the the mirror so that you can read it every morning !

I took me a long time to understand that a confident man never feels the need to tell you how well he does something, he realizes that someone will almost always notice that you do those things well…. and of course they will tell YOU.

Like I said it took a long time to come to that realization and David hands you that wonderful advice for free!

Powerful advice David!

]]> By: j-dude http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24112 j-dude Wed, 04 Mar 2009 20:00:39 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24112 "Take your stinking paws off me, you damned dirty ape! " “Take your stinking paws off me, you damned dirty ape! “

]]> By: C http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24111 C Wed, 04 Mar 2009 18:05:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24111 don't forget that girls have the monkey chatter too... i'm worrying about is my hair greasy, face breaking out, clothes okay, if at the gym looking all sweaty and gross, if it's a pms bloated day, if i'm eating, is there food in my teeth when someone approaches, not to mention everything i'm feeling about everything else going on in my life at the moment, as opposed to guys being so action/outcome focused, i'm always floating in a sea of emotions, and i'm often lost in a million thoughts of my own that have nothing to do with anyone around me. it's always nice when a guy makes an effort to say hi, even if i'm not interested, i always appreciate it as long as the guy is polite. don’t forget that girls have the monkey chatter too… i’m worrying about is my hair greasy, face breaking out, clothes okay, if at the gym looking all sweaty and gross, if it’s a pms bloated day, if i’m eating, is there food in my teeth when someone approaches, not to mention everything i’m feeling about everything else going on in my life at the moment, as opposed to guys being so action/outcome focused, i’m always floating in a sea of emotions, and i’m often lost in a million thoughts of my own that have nothing to do with anyone around me. it’s always nice when a guy makes an effort to say hi, even if i’m not interested, i always appreciate it as long as the guy is polite.

]]> By: MAC http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24110 MAC Wed, 04 Mar 2009 14:22:16 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24110 Dan the Original, I'll just bring all the stability balls into the danceroom and ask her if she wants to go around the gym and hide them like easter eggs. Mario Dan the Original,

I’ll just bring all the stability balls into the danceroom and ask her if she wants to go around the gym and hide them like easter eggs.

Mario

]]> By: MAC http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24109 MAC Wed, 04 Mar 2009 14:18:29 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24109 Marina, go here for the video of Girl Afraid http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtSQlHItLnA Marina,

go here for the video of Girl Afraid

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtSQlHItLnA

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24108 DanTheOriginal Wed, 04 Mar 2009 13:19:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24108 Mario: Get one of those big bouncing balls, drop it next to her, start bouncing up on it wildly and tell her: "come on, let's bounce and see who bounces higher"....if she does not break a smile, she is either a stuck up bitch or she is into girls:-) It's not you man, release your mind from the monkeys...gorillas in your case!!! Mario:

Get one of those big bouncing balls, drop it next to her, start bouncing up on it wildly and tell her: “come on, let’s bounce and see who bounces higher”….if she does not break a smile, she is either a stuck up bitch or she is into girls:-)

It’s not you man, release your mind from the monkeys…gorillas in your case!!!

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/monkey-chatter/1304/#comment-24107 Marina Wed, 04 Mar 2009 12:18:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1304#comment-24107 Mario Don't forget she was in a group dynamic with her girlfriends that could change a lot. Same as with me they too often change when they are with a bunch of friends and often would not approach a person the same way. Just ignore the eye roll, but if she continues is ways like this pull back from her and don't go out of your way to only say hello to her. Why don't you just say hello to all the girls as if it it't most natural thing in the world without giving second thoughts to what she or they might be thinking.You are doing it becuase you are a polite guy. You are doing great but it appears to me you are getting a little ahead of yourself and just not enjoying the moment and if it's supposed to happen it will. This way too you are creating an energy around yourself that wreaks self confidence. You keep on talking about this is a area where you stretch. I am a huge fan of foam rollers and a great "angel" would possible be for you to be able to add to the girls stretching routine by using rollers and maybe catch their curiosity and teach them. Just a suggestions, I know often I haven gotten in great talks with people at gyms by sharing knowledge. You are great on the observations keep it up. David could we get a Podcast of the Smiths in here still don't know who they are. Mario
Don’t forget she was in a group dynamic with her girlfriends that could change a lot. Same as with me they too often change when they are with a bunch of friends and often would not approach a person the same way. Just ignore the eye roll, but if she continues is ways like this pull back from her and don’t go out of your way to only say hello to her.

Why don’t you just say hello to all the girls as if it it’t most natural thing in the world without giving second thoughts to what she or they might be thinking.You are doing it becuase you are a polite guy. You are doing great but it appears to me you are getting a little ahead of yourself and just not enjoying the moment and if it’s supposed to happen it will. This way too you are creating an energy around yourself that wreaks self confidence.

You keep on talking about this is a area where you stretch. I am a huge fan of foam rollers and a great “angel” would possible be for you to be able to add to the girls stretching routine by using rollers and maybe catch their curiosity and teach them. Just a suggestions, I know often I haven gotten in great talks with people at gyms by sharing knowledge.

You are great on the observations keep it up.

David could we get a Podcast of the Smiths in here still don’t know who they are.

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