Life is very powerful when you go with the flow. If you told me 30 years ago when I was a young guy, bartending in New York City, trying to be an actor, that I would a dating and relationship expert I’d have said you were crazy.

If you’d have told me that I’d be all over the news, that’d I’d be conducting seminars, and that I’d have clients all over the world, I’d have looked at you like you were out of your mind.

At that time in my life, being just 22 years old, I had so much to figure out. That’s why I get a kick out of relationship experts who are 23 years old. Exactly what relationship have you experienced up to now? Have you been married, divorced, kids?

Have you really lived, or is this just theory you’re spouting? I look at some of my young colleagues and I realize how limited they are. I met a 28-year-old relationship expert the other day, and I said, “You’re not an expert. You know what you know, but there are so many things you don’t know. What you’re doing is helping people based on theory, not life experience.”

How do you get this life experience?

By going with the flow. Because when you go with the flow, you realize you only know what you know, and whatever is experience is in front of you, you need to learn from.

When you go with the flow, your life takes on a completely different direction. When you go with the flow, your life takes on a direction that you can’t control. One of the best ways to grow in life is to be out of control. Is to allow yourself to yield, be open, and go with the flow. When you react to things, or you’re pissed off, you’re reacting that way because you have an expectation.

You have an expectation of something you need, want, and desire. Today’s video goes into what life should feel like for everybody, if all of us just went with the flow. If all of us allowed our feelings to surface. If all of us took advantage of opportunity, instead of always trying to manipulate an outcome.

This video will be especially helpful for all you guys that are still having trouble meeting women. It will allow you to really start expanding the way you think. More importantly it will help you allow yourself to really understand how to give yourself the edge in life.