Oh yeah, here we are, extreme honesty time.

And after reading some of your comments, I want to reiterate that with extreme honesty it is all about being in a place of love.

But if someone pisses you off it’s also about telling them how you feel.

On that note, let me tell you about my day yesterday:

So, I’m selling my car. (I know, after all the fuss about me buying a car, I’m selling it. What can I say—I get bored.)

This guy sees my ad and emails me something like this:

I checked out the wholesale value of your car and it’s worth $xxx. I will give you a couple grand over that.

Meanwhile, ‘a couple grand over’ what he was offering was still about $4,000 less than what I was asking. And I’m already selling the car cheap—much cheaper than anybody else for a similar model.

I want to sell it fast.

So I wrote him back and said:

Look, I don’t need your money. You can go and low-ball people all day long and maybe after a year you can finally find the car that you want, but you see, I value my time.

Then he wrote:

So somebody offered you more?

And I said:

It’s not about that. I just don’t have time to deal with your delusional thoughts about getting this car from me at that price. Good luck!

And it felt good. It was honest, it was real and it was raw. And it’s something I want all of you to practice.

Later, I ended up going to see my therapist.

That’s right, David Wygant is seeing a therapist now.

I’m going to through some personal things and I really love and enjoy talking to others about it. We all have issues in life, sticking points, blockages—and just like you come to me for advice, I like to go to others for advice also.

I had a great session.

When I walked out of the office, I saw a guy sitting there waiting for his session. He looked down at the ground and hid his face behind his hand.

It’s funny how when you leave a therapist office, the people sitting in the waiting room don’t acknowledge you. But you are two people who have something in common: you are two people that are working to get things in your life straightened out. You’re both two people focused on growth.

Yet he was hiding his face down in shame.

People are funny.

A guy e-mailed me the other day saying that he wants to come to my boot camp. And then he wrote:

I really want to go to your boot camp, I’m really looking forward to it, you know. But I have to ask you a question: what am I going to tell my friends I did that weekend?

Tell them you went to a boot camp to improve yourself, dude.

We’re so afraid to be honest. We’re so afraid to be naked.

And that’s why we all need to join in on Extreme Honesty Month.

Let us set some examples.

Let’s get real.

This is going to be a fun, fun month.