Expose Yourself

a.movie

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

What advice do you have for someone who just wants to be alone? And, don't worry, I'm not going to use up your exclusive rights by purchasing this podcast. I don't like things that are marketed as exclusive, makes me not trust the seller.

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Valentino Smith

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

AMAZING!!! Im buying it no matter how much debt ill accumulate!

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Mike, why do you want to be alone?

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howe

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

the new product does look hot david, especially the pictures, gotta have to check it out!

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howe

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

i am curious is it for women as well?

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Coach Kimberly

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

And another question for you Mike...what about being along is better?

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a.movie

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Alone is uncomplicated. What is so wonderful about being with someone?

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Marina

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Mike, I might not always be a dance on roses, but i have tried both and with the right person its amazing. Its like being with some one, who knows every aspect and secret about you and still adores and loves you unconditionally. Its an amazing feeling to 100% surrender every part of yourself to another person. You are able to let yourself be your most vunerable and at the same time feel the strongest. In terms of unconditionally loving yourself, this is the feeling times two. I have felt and i dont worry if i will experience it again, if it happens it happens.

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Horny Lisa

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

david - i bought this product immediately and, I must admit, I skipped right to Volume III first before listening to the rest. all i can say is HOT!!!!!! i'm glad i was alone in a private place when i listened because i needed some alone time with myself when that thing was finished! :) i can't wait to listen to the rest ... and guys, take my word for this -- if you do even 10% of what's on the volume i listened to you will have EVERY woman wanting to come back for more ;)

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Lance

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

I got to tell you in the past I have purchased some weird sex product from some pickup artist guru that taught me nothing but some position copied from some book that I recently came across. I got to tell you david, I really like that all your products are not edited and its very natural! I am thinking about investing in the sex product, to be honest I think that I lack in that area.

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julia

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

David- its not fair where is the sex product for women:)

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jimi

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

David make sure howe don't get his hand on your new sex product he already has the MMS, I worried that he will break a lot more hearts than before:)

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howe

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

oh lisa baby- you know i tried to not bring up sex today, and look its sex product blog today. lisa were you on the vibrator while you were listening to it:) i wonder where is horny sandra today for a double duo

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jimmi

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Lisa- where is the private place you listened to it:)

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Pete

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Man you guys are gonna laugh at what i did last week! If you guys have any suggestions to fix this after you read it'll be great. so here goes... It was closing time at my school cafeteria and I met this girl while waiting for my friend and I started talking to her and soon enough we were both having dinner instant date . I got to know her, she is a classical singer (whose doing her masters in music and she's older than me and this is my second semester as a transfer bachelor student) and she told me she was performing at the campus last weekend so I said I want to check out her performance and she said I should swing by so I got her number and went to see her perform that Saturday since I parked in a meter parking by the street I went to reload my parking I got a text from her saying" are you hanging in there?" I didn't realize it was her and I was texting my friend about whether I should stay or leave and text her later because her friend was from out of town and I thought she wanted to hangout with her so instead of sending my friend the message I accidentally send it to her. After reloading my parking I went back to the see her and by the time I went there the concert has already been finished and she was very happy to see me she gave me a hug and thank me for coming to her concert and i told her how well she sang and what were my favorite parts and etc. I asked her if she wanted to hangout that evening and she said she was going to hangout with her friend who came from L.A and they were both going to Santa Cruz ( which is like 1 hr drive from San Jose where i live) i didn't realize i sent her the msg until today so I guess it too late but if y'all know how to fix this problem it would be great I had a good chemistry with this girl.

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Horny Lisa

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Well, jimmi, I figured I might want to get comfortable, so I put my earphones on and layed on my bed of course :) And Howe... I didn't need any vibrator... ;)

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Horny Lisa

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Julia, As a woman who has listened to this program -- let me tell you there is MUCH to be enjoyed here for women. You may want to grab this for yourself! :) I'm damn glad I did :)

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DanTheOriginal

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

I also bought it as well and I hope I find some time to listen to it soon.

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Adam

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Pete - It sounds like you had a good connection with her and she was very appreciative of you coming to see her, and even more importantly that you actually paid attention. Miscommunications happen all the time, just be honest with her. Don't overthink it and try to figure out what to say. As my grade school teachers used to say "Honesty is the best policy". :) It's possible that she never even got the text. Good luck, let us know how it goes.

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sirch

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

this is gold...thanks David!

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Marina

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Pete, Just call her up and if she did see the txt so what It might end up to be something you both laugh at.

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Adam DW Head Instructor - London

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

David, I have just finished listening to all 6 downloads. That was amazing to hear. I consider myself someone who knows what they are doing in the bedroom and I have spent alot of time educating myself over the years...but this was amazing. To hear the audeo uncut in the bedroom like that is a first. Even as a coach, it amazes me how I keep on learning myself...Im going to have fun tonight... Adam.

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Pete

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Thanks Adam and Marina for your advice, I texted her yesterday before seeing the text that I have shouldn't have sent her. I sent something like "Hey how's your week been so far and what are your plans for tomorrow night?" but didn't get a reply ever since so do you think it's still okay to call and laugh about it without saying I'm sorry?

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Marina

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Pete, It sound as you did not txt something that could have made her bad, let it be honest from your heart we all make mistakes, besides if she would be so easily turned off, she might be a pain later on anyway. Just wait until tomorrow give her a chance to respond.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Mike.... Being with someone doesn't have to be complicated... but is being alone your excuse to face the fact that... you don't believe you CAN or WANT to be with someone?

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a.movie

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

I understand that being alone is my excuse, but when that is all I know, it is hard to convince myself otherwise. I would do what all the other guys my age do and just put a revloving door on my bedroom door but I feel strongly about not wanting to use a relationship just for intimacy and compassion. So I rely on my family for compassion and understanding and I've learned that the human mind can do quite fine with out intimacy. So until I find someone amazing in my own town, and not half way around the world, I guess I'm fine with being alone, even if it is an excuse.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Mike, The mind can do a lot with or without... but here's the real question: why WOULDN'T you want intimacy. Why wouldn't you want to experience yourself in new/deeper levels? Why wouldn't you want to share the greatness in you with someone in a more personal/intimate level? Are you a great guy or not? And if you are that great of a guy, why not give the gift of yourself to someone?

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a.movie

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Khiem, My memory is a little murky, but the few relationships I have been in, were during my younger years and I understand that I didn't know myself well enough to share myself. But as I got older, the feelings that I used for relationships transferred to my work. And my work relationships are very personal and take a lot of energy out of me, especially when there is misunderstandings. Just last night, I got a call from a business contact who was upset at me for a miniscule reason but still threatened to upset my balance and my lifestyle and it crushed me. So, with my luck at work being my emotional gauge now, it is tough for me to give myself to someone when all of my experiences have been bad ones, espceially when it is deeply personal like an intimate relationship. I am not making excuses, they happen when I try and explain my emotions, something I was strongly encouraged as a kid not to show. When I did find a method to express myself, through my art, and followed my heart, it has led to eight years of searching just to find a business relationship that was even worth it for my time and the emotional energy I put into what I do. And with that relationship I find myself getting abused for the emotional absence of the person I am working with. This scares the shit out of me in a serious relationship when motivations for money are taken out of the equation. Does that help? I don't think of myself as great or not great. I show people who I am. It is other people who have told me I am mighty or great. I value those opinions, but it doesn't stop who I am. I am still working on finding myself through my art and since I replaced my relationship experience and fused it with my art, I am 100% committed to making that work and my relationships suffer as a result. Thank you for all your advice. I really do want to work through this. But it is tied intimately to my work at the same time and the defeats I experience there are crushing to my soul so I don't think I can handle the emotional experiences that come with a relationship even though I know I can survive them. If someone told you to crash a hundred times before you get the airbag to work and once the airbag works, the feeling of crashing is a joy, would you want to crash the first 100 times and all the pain that goes with it just to get to the level where a deployed air bag makes you feel happy? No. That's not what I want. I want to learn how to avoid the wreck to begin with. Mike

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Friday, May 1st, 2009

Mike, What kind of work do you do? And why are your work relationships so personal?

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DanTheOriginal

Friday, May 1st, 2009

>>>>>>>My memory is a little murky, but the few relationships I have been in, were during my younger years and I understand that I didn’t know myself well enough to share myself. Dude, find a good therapist to work through some of the baggage you are carrying since those "few relationships in your younger years"!!! >>>>>>>Just last night, I got a call from a business contact who was upset at me for a miniscule reason but still threatened to upset my balance and my lifestyle and it crushed me. My first boss out of college taught me a great lesson in my first week of work. He got a phone call from a client who chewed him out and could see him visibly upset. He fired the client on the spot and got a big smile and turned to me and said "he just went over my blood pressure threshold, when a client goes over that becomes an ex-client because the amount of money they pay you is not worth the grief they give you with it"...Now, that client was a BIG client...it stunned me and I have been VERY picky of who I work as a client because if you mess with your criteria of who you want to work with is just NOT WORTH IT. So Mike, why do you take all this shit from your "business contact"??? >>>>>>>>>>I am not making excuses Of course you are. >>>>>>>>>>...and the defeats I experience there are crushing to my soul Holy shit...this is heavy....maybe your work (or art) is killing you? So maybe give it a break for a while dude....or get the fuck out of LA and do something else from far away!! >>>>>>>>If someone told you to crash a hundred times before you get the airbag to work and once the airbag works, the feeling of crashing is a joy, would you want to crash the first 100 times and all the pain that goes with it just to get to the level where a deployed air bag makes you feel happy? No. That’s not what I want. I want to learn how to avoid the wreck to begin with. I think you are crying for help and you are not going to find it here by some people you never met who just type in their spare time...You need a therapist to clear your head and you need to lay off the bottle too....and get some help to do that too!! One more thing, I hate the Flakers:-)

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Marina

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Dan, You have moments where you say things that makes sense. Scary and struggling just to put admit it on paper.:-) But especially in business there comes a time where it's JUST NOT WORTH regardless of what you will stand to loose financially. Emotionally you will go through similar tests.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Dan, thanks for the advice. I had a therapist. The therpist sent me to David. I'm also melodramatic and not that bad in the mind. I'm using my down time to fix things that are deep inside. My life and my work are intertwined and can not be seperated, nor can I take a break, nor can I just leave LA. I don't drink. I'm not crying for help. I am doing something that I never let myself do in person and that is tell people what I am feeling. I'm not here to judge you,nor do I expect you to judge me or just fix me. I am working on thins in my own way and I feel fine with the progress I am making.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I'm also still waiting for someone to tell me why being with someone is more desirable than being alone and no one has been able to answer that. Is it because people are scared to be alone because that reminds them that one day they won't be here anymore? I that's it, I don't care. I'm comfortable with my earthly coil and if it goes, I won't be crushed. Is it because we like having someone to face our own insecurities with? That doesn't make sense either. Is it sex? Come on. I'm not that dumb. Looks HIGHLY overrated. Dan, why don't you take a stab at that question. Why is a duo better than a single?

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Mike, Being with someone is more desirable than being alone because you learn about yourself more through someone. You can see yourself better when you have a mirror in front of you in the form of your significant others. When someone who truly cares for you and loves you can empower you AND call you out at the same time, that person gives you the opportunity to constantly recreate yourself every day the way you wish to be. Being with someone is your ability to experience yourself through someone else. Only with someone can you truly recognize on an emotional and experiential level the kind of person you are.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Khiem, with all kinds of respect for you and for the work you do, I believe what you are describing is what I create with my friends every single time. The only difference is I got tired of losing my friends over issues of intimacy, so I stopped using that as an excuse. Friendships are more important to me than making babies, and I'm quite comfortable with who I am and what I share with people. Good example for you. I share everything with my brother, or did. He decided to put a religious wedge in between our connection and that makes me really sad. It feels like I lost a best friend because of prejudice and misunderstandings that are being drawn from sources outside of the actual connection. Now, it is my experience through being a good friend with people and hearing about their lives and the troubles in their lives, the two most frequent reasons for friends to drift apart are reasons like religion. One of the other reasons is sex and/or intimacy. Another reason is money. It is just TOO important to me to not lose friends for these reasons. Like you said, my friends help me define me and that is far more important than waking up next to someone. I think a very common American problem is that we place a lot of our self awareness in our ability to maintain, create, and sustain sexual/romantic/intimate relationships, that we often forget that the real connection (the brotherhood, the best friends, the lovers, etc.) is the one that we should protect. So, when most people teach you to be confident and sexual and all that stuff, I think David's real goal is to make sure we value the deep connections that we seek. I'm just an extreme example about that. Mike

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I agree with you on all accounts except I believe you see intimacy as an obstacle to that connection when intimacy is actually the highest form of connection you can have with someone. You don't fully know someone until you fully experience them on all levels, emotionally, physically, intellectually, spiritually... through their worst and best moments.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I disagree. I think you can learn everything about someone through spending time with them. Do you talk to your ex like a best friend? Or did you guys go your own way?

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Most people don't take the time to learn other people before sex. They use it as a way to bridge that understanding faster.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

You are right. You shouldn't use sex as a bridge to understand faster and in that sense, I am in accord with you. But sex is PART of the "spending time with them" so you can "learn everything about them". Human beings have many facets to them, and the animalistic sexual side of them is just another side of them... and this is why I said that you can truly know someone when you've experienced them on all facets. As far as my ex goes, she chose to go her separate way. I always keep the door open to all my friends or g/fs to maintain the friendship.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Then you didn't have the same goals as I do with your relationships. And sex is overrated, period. I'm not going to fuck my brother, but I know everything about him. Does that mean I am limited in my connection with him? Or say for example, the strong connections that I've experienced but happen to be hundreds, or thousands of miles away. Do I know less about them because I don't know how to make them giggle with my wiggle. I am not going to be Christian, but does that mean I am never going to experience a Christian's way of life? But I do what I can to understand them and love them regardless.

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David Wygant

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

A Movie Sex is amazing and not overrated. With the right person it is the purest most sensual amazing feeling that you can have. When you are in love and you have no walls or barriers sex is pure bliss. Intimicy is amazing on all levels when you are free open and in touch with your own sexuality and your partners.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Then I'm always going to be bitter about it because of the things that blocked me when I was younger.

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David Wygant

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Ni mike you will not always be bitter. you have done way too much work on yourself to feel that way.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

And if I'm the type of person who isn't going to enjoy sex, then why bother trying to have a great connection? Or the perfect connection, whatever you want to call it. I'm happy with the friends I have and the work I do. But am I supposed to feel bad about myself because I delayed an activity that most people put all of their passions in to. My passions went somewhere else and I can share that with people and I do and I feel incredible when its working. Bliss, as you call it.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

That was a colloquial statement. I'm not bitter anymore but I let society make me feel bitter before. That's something I've changed. My argument today is that I am full of passion and intensity and I experience bliss just fine on my own. Why is there a label out there that the best possible experiences in life are the same for everyone?

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

My passion is in my work and I don't need to share that with anyone to be successful at what I do, in fact, I could spend all day arguing about why it is essential that I alone experience the work that I do because that is the only way to be able to share it with the whole world. I've had exactly one person take the experience of what I do and respect me and care about me because they knew how it makes me feel.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I don't believe we are trying to make you change what you are passionate about or where you derive your passions and meaning from but I think we are here to challenge you to keep your mind open to include other things into it... including sex. Of all the things you wrote, I see you question everything... which is great because you are learning to think for yourself, to be your own man. But before you question everything, how about you try to see what little wisdom or what little truth there might be in even the most "common" way of thinking that most people share?

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I'll give you guys a chance to catch up since I could do this all day. I'll check in later.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Khiem, my life is about questioning everything. I see the wisdom just fine. I don't see why it is supposed to apply to everyone.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Do you just see the wisdom in it... or do you actually understand it because you internalized/experienced it?

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Youre asking me to make a decision based on faith because you know I haven't experienced it. I'm asking you to view faith as something seperate and personal for everyone, and is also an equal and valid source of being true to oneself. Sex, like all human activity, is a vehicle for the act of creation. If you want to enjoy and validate yourself through that act, have at it, my life and my beliefs in faith, creation and my spirit and soul, had me choose a different path. Khiem, I'll go fuck a hooker if you go without sex for five years and ask youself how you feel about it.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

Answering questions with questions is not a way to debate. I'm here to challenge you and David as much as you guys are here to challenge me.

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a.movie

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

What is your perception of me? That is another issue of mine. I have what one psycholigist termed, as a ten point personality. Most people can only handle and follow six in another person. I always forget what kind of perception I am giving off, at the same time as I never forget the perceptions others have shown me.

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

I'm not asking you to do something you don't value. I'm just trying to make you think in new perspectives. You fucking a hooker wouldn't give you the meaningfulness of true intimacy that David or I are referring to. And I've already done the no sex for five years.

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Dantheman

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009

How do I download the audio into my laptop? i wanna listen to it on my way to work.

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a.movie

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009

Khiem, It may take me longer than others for certain information to sink in but trust me I am listening. Another thing all the psychiatrists have told me over the years is that I am a very deep thinker. I used to think that meant a bad thing, but not anymore. It just means I deal with more of the facets of reality before I make a decision. I am much better at meeting people outside as a direct result of this blog and I actually have a lot of fun chatting people all day long, in all kinds of situations. But I am dealing with old information about myself that is lodged very deeply. I have a lot of trouble as seeing myself as a gift, even though I know I am good looking, talented, smart, creative, driven, and I could go on. I am learning a lot about myself here and this site is a valuable resource for me. I am addicted to David's blog and consider you guys all confidents. I'll get through this time in my life in due course. I think (and this is more self realization, not excuses) that I have to potential to be close to people easily and I did that with previous living experiences and the people I lived with were bad for my own sense of self esteem. I would take up way to much space explaining that. But I'll paraphrase by saying their negativity would always make me want to rush in and help sort things out and that would always leave me drained. I think I had to rediscover myself and live on my own for a while before I started thinking about what I would like to have or what I have to offer someone who would be very close to me again. Thanks for all the advice and for sharing your own experiences. Mike

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Khiem (DW Coach)

Monday, May 4th, 2009

Well... I know you'll get there, Mike. And on a different note, I'm happy to say that my ex and I are on talking terms again :) I called her and we are friends!

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DanTheOriginal

Monday, May 4th, 2009

To Mike: >>>>>Dan, why don’t you take a stab at that question. Why is a duo better than a single? You are over thinking way too much and not let the "free your ass and your mind will follow" attitude...What I mean is that humans tend to be social creatures and want to feel connected to something, let's call it "it". I have many "it"s: it's my kids, my soccer team, my travel obsession, etc. Some people have different "it"s, their religion, their booze or weed, or whatever. But I think all of us (and the main reason we are here) is we want to be connected to someone else, someone who makes us feel great being together, someone who inspires us...and yes, someone, ok...here it comes...yes the darn L word....someone to fall in love with. After being in some relationships the L "it" may be overrated and usually does not last but we should not sweat it...let's just ENJOY the ride getting there... It's complicated:-) Kind of like searching for the meaning of life you know... Sorry I did not check in this old blog for a while!

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DanTheOriginal

Monday, May 4th, 2009

Mike says to Khiem: I’ll go fuck a hooker if you go without sex for five years and ask youself how you feel about it. Dan says to Mike: Go fuck a hooker anyways and leave Khiem alone:-) There are some obvious blockage from your childhood about sex and you need to get that worked on....If the therapist sent you to David, maybe it is because he was hoping David would have an understanding gorgeous hooker/social worker on the payroll for unblocking guys like you...hey, comprehensive coaching or what! :-)

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kismet

Monday, May 4th, 2009

a.movie: about sex, thats part of life. something you eventually learn to accept. now about the therapist part, if I was one, I'd send all the "troubled" kids to self help coaches because I believe thats the root of all the "mental" illnesses. The fact that your therapist sent you means you should be more open to what you are learning/being taught from david.

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a.movie

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

kismet and Dan, Yes. I was trained as a kid to not show my emotions and yes that is what I am dealing with. Yes. I understand that making connections is a huge part of being human but I think the path I took created that in my passion for what I do and now it is hard for me to see the same benefit from a human becuase of how strong my bond is with my own passions. I rival all of you out there with kids for how intense my work makes me feel. Yes. I understand that I seem like a scared whiny fat kid, but that kid has been dead for ten years. I am what happened next and what happened next was comlicated but now I have a source of advice where I can share my thoughts and my emotions, even if it is in limited cyber space and I don't know anyone that is commenting personally. I make remarks about sex because yeah it looks fun, but at the same time I think it is not necessary to live a full and complete life especially when you don't have the emotional intelligence like me to honor the gift that people give when they expose themselves that much to another person. I have had plenty of opportunities but every time I get exposed to my own fears (something I am learning to handle) and often I would feel the other person's fears. The fear comes from them not understanding their own gift and that always makes me panic. I got so far removed from my own emotions that it is very easy for me to pick up on other's emotions. Dan, I'm not seeing a hooker. Kismet, death is also part of life, but how many people scramble to understand it before they try it out. And if you want a less melodramatic analogy. When you don't know something but you imagine that it would be fun, how many adults (and I am not talking about sex between kids) block themselves because of how hard it will be and never try it? How many failed writers are out there? How many failed artists, actors, musicians? etc... I have my art part down but now I am back at the start of a creative beautiful life and I am scared to pick up a paint brush because I think the canvases I want to be with are trying to make me a one gallery man and I want to show my work in all the museums of the world. This is something that needs to be corrected in the stream of knowledge that we all draw from. Men shouldn't have to feel the need to be scared to share themselves for fear of being thought of as less of a man. That is wrong. Women are in tune with that and look at the world that they have created. They bond easily, they share easily, they enjoy each others stories easily. Men don't share, they compete and we are trained by our fathers to suck it up and deal with it inside. Dealing with my emotions inside is what led me to where I am today and I am trying to correct that. I'm like a factory recall. They can't put my car model back out on the road until they find out what is causing the engine to burst into flames when the car reaches 60 mph. I am fixing my defects then I am going back out there and of course I'll be scared and intimdated but it will feel like I paid attention to myself and my needs and not to the whim of the nation or the pulse of common thought. Something like that. I could go on all day. Of course, women have a failed belief too in their common knowledge. I'm not a woman so I can only base this on observation. But women tend to want to plant their roots and create a tree with every social connection. They think a tree (long lasting connection) is the pinnacle of what they can create with their own ideas and connections and they go and seek that in their mates. I know that this idea is changing but I used to keep attracting the kinds of women that are so not in tune with themselves and what makes them happy and creatively challenged that they think if they find a life long partner that action can validate them. Both sexes have something they collectively need to fix for both sides of the connection equaiton to work so both sides feel happy and blessed to recieve such an amazing gift of our selves to another person. Thanks for listening. You are all my support group.

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a.movie

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

that only took me fifteen mintues to write, so Dan don't think I'm wasting my day bantering on this site.

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a.movie

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

I just traded sex for death. Not scared of dying, but getting my knob polished takes more trust than I can ever muster.

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DanTheOriginal

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

>>>>>...I just traded sex for death. Not scared of dying... You speak so much of dying that we are beginning to think that you are the leader of the Suicidal Tendencies band:-) Dude, we are not your support group, you need to find one where you can spill the beans by looking at their eyes, not hide behind your keyboard in your room alone. I think not going with a hooker is a big mistake. Go instead and find a high class escort and tell her exactly where you are coming from and you want the experience to be worth it and she can likely make it worth it for you....a super fuck session may change your perspective in life. Again, you should get some professional help, the advice you get here is worth what you are paying for it! It would be fun to guess what you do.....writer of some sort in LA media "circles"

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kismet

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

DTO: Actually, help from sites such as this that focuses on improving one's self is really helpful, and if done with professional help, results will be better. Sometimes, even pyschiatrists don't help because they only listen. They may have a degree, but they may lack experience. (For example, they don't understand pua stuff and try to make it systematic more than it really is.) We may not be his support group, but we can offer support or advice just as we have done for everyone else.

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DanTheOriginal

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

>>>>>>>>>We may not be his support group, but we can offer support or advice just as we have done for everyone else. Yes we can and it can help IF he also receives competent professional help. From what Mike stated, he stopped seeing a therapist and he instead posts here and he thinks that will help him deal with his problems...which I find ludicrous! We are not professionals and neither is David...It is our fiduciary duty to refer to competent professionals when we are over our heads....Oops, there I go again wearing my professional hat:-)

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kismet

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

DTO: What annoys me is your 'trying to be funny' with subjects that aren't. Anyways, professional help...we dont know if he chose to stop, if they thought he's well enough to stop or because of financial reasons. All I'm saying is, he's welcome here. No discrimination whatsoever. His problems may be deep, but I had deept personal troubles too, and gone through alot as a young person. I believe that if a person is aware of themselves enough, knows how to prevent themselves from falling deeper into their troubles, knows how to change themselves for the better, then professional help isn't all that its cracked up to be. Its all about willpower. And how well one connects with themselves, people around them and their environment. yes we disagree, but I have personal experience to back up what I'm saying. Its not false hopes. Life is all about understanding and LIVING.

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DanTheOriginal

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

>>>>>>Its all about willpower. No, it's not. Sometimes people need a lot more help...if willpower was enough by itself everyone would not be smoking, be suicidal and just live miserably. Yes we help a little but quite often that is not enough! Ok, this one will go off the main blog page so I am not coming back to it...I am sure Mike will be around again. As far as my humor....I realize these issues are very serious and deep...trying to put a light "wrapper" around them could help IMHO.

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kismet

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

I think what I'm trying to say is, professional help does work (in any way such as therapy or medicine), however, being in control of yourself is a lifetime benefit, whereas relying on outside forces for help is good but can lead to dependence instead of independence.

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