Comments on: Meet Women In A Bar-Get Real http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Brad B Young http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-30699 Brad B Young Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:59:56 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-30699 Reminds me of Yogi's quote, "No one goes there any more. It's too crowded". Bars and Clubs are all right but only if they are not packed with drunks. That's no way to meet women. Great Post. Thanks Reminds me of Yogi’s quote, “No one goes there any more. It’s too crowded”. Bars and Clubs are all right but only if they are not packed with drunks. That’s no way to meet women.
Great Post. Thanks

]]> By: Mark http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-20559 Mark Wed, 17 Dec 2008 22:05:35 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-20559 riff-raff? lower social elements of society? you sounds like a lot of fun renee - want to date?? Responsible to who or what exactly? Being a societal sheep perhaps? As the saying goes, "heaven for the weather, hell for the conversation". Interested in what you meant with the Border Books & Whole Foods comment Lee. Not sure if there is a London equivalent ... riff-raff? lower social elements of society? you sounds like a lot of fun renee – want to date?? Responsible to who or what exactly? Being a societal sheep perhaps? As the saying goes, “heaven for the weather, hell for the conversation”.

Interested in what you meant with the Border Books & Whole Foods comment Lee. Not sure if there is a London equivalent …

]]> By: Renee http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-20290 Renee Wed, 10 Dec 2008 02:37:43 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-20290 Why on earth would I want to go to a bar? I equate Bars/Taverns with riff-raff, drunks, and the lower social elements of society. To many showoff's, liar's, users, and unscrupulous people. Men on the hunt in Bars, deserve what they find. Nothing of any value. Women on the hunt in Bars, deserve the stupid, boring men they encounter. I do not smoke, drink, do drugs or enjoy ear deafening garage bands trying to act like they a super stars.. I consider the atmospheres in bars on weekends, an environmental hazard to life. Anyone who is serious about finding someone who is suitable to date, should start where intelligent, thoughtful, responsible people socially gather. Bars, Taverns, Clubs usually are not it! Sorry gang...the bar scene is the bottom of the barrel. Why on earth would I want to go to a bar? I equate Bars/Taverns with riff-raff, drunks, and the lower social elements of society. To many showoff’s, liar’s, users, and unscrupulous people. Men on the hunt in Bars, deserve what they find. Nothing of any value. Women on the hunt in Bars, deserve the stupid, boring men they encounter.

I do not smoke, drink, do drugs or enjoy ear deafening garage bands trying to act like they a super stars..

I consider the atmospheres in bars on weekends, an environmental hazard to life.

Anyone who is serious about finding someone who is suitable to date, should start where intelligent, thoughtful, responsible people socially gather. Bars, Taverns, Clubs usually are not it!

Sorry gang…the bar scene is the bottom of the barrel.

]]> By: Kevin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-16751 Kevin Sun, 27 Jul 2008 01:28:04 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-16751 I think you have a much better shot if you go somewhere that you are able to stand out. As an example, I'm a fairly good singer.. so I go to the local karaoke bar frequently. I meet someone new almost every time I go. If you're a great dancer, then a club would be better. If you have a great personality, maybe smaller bars without loud music. Not unlike most other things in life, it just takes some effort. I think you have a much better shot if you go somewhere that you are able to stand out. As an example, I’m a fairly good singer.. so I go to the local karaoke bar frequently. I meet someone new almost every time I go. If you’re a great dancer, then a club would be better. If you have a great personality, maybe smaller bars without loud music. Not unlike most other things in life, it just takes some effort.

]]> By: Stefano Baccella http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15976 Stefano Baccella Fri, 27 Jun 2008 12:36:02 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15976 Hi everybody I'm Stefano from Italy. My situation is that: i live in a small (70000 people) town, with a lot of young guys from all agest. For some reasons (that's story now) I have really few options outside the bar and live music clubs for meeting women: my friends are almost married or getting married, others are becoming selfish players who meets 2-4 women a week (they're natural, but fucking selfish... no help non friends :-(). Other guy friends are good but over-the-edge nice guy. So, where do I get to meet women? Gym, clubs and bars. I don't have any friend who throw a party with women, it's a pretty closed ANTI-social circle! In my business, no women, and my colleagues are all married (the younger) and almost over 40, so that's another closed door. I can't leave the business because it's the family business (and can bring up some billions of $)... so I can clearly testify you that money, great cars, and a great house, are nothing if you don't get the right thing. So, what's left for me? nothing more that clubs and bars. I think that the right thing to do in that context, is not to pick up girls for dates: just go out, approach group of women, just for fun and meet people just to build up a new sociar circle. As someone posted before, being introduced to a group of friends, by someone who's inside of it, it's the best thing you can do. But you can create new friendships, organize some get-toghether and only from this the club/bar scene can be useful. Otherwise, I'll prefer to buy me a beer and drink it all alone while chatting on line :-( Hi everybody I’m Stefano from Italy. My situation is that: i live in a small (70000 people) town, with a lot of young guys from all agest. For some reasons (that’s story now) I have really few options outside the bar and live music clubs for meeting women: my friends are almost married or getting married, others are becoming selfish players who meets 2-4 women a week (they’re natural, but fucking selfish… no help non friends :-( ). Other guy friends are good but over-the-edge nice guy. So, where do I get to meet women? Gym, clubs and bars. I don’t have any friend who throw a party with women, it’s a pretty closed ANTI-social circle! In my business, no women, and my colleagues are all married (the younger) and almost over 40, so that’s another closed door. I can’t leave the business because it’s the family business (and can bring up some billions of $)… so I can clearly testify you that money, great cars, and a great house, are nothing if you don’t get the right thing.
So, what’s left for me? nothing more that clubs and bars.

I think that the right thing to do in that context, is not to pick up girls for dates: just go out, approach group of women, just for fun and meet people just to build up a new sociar circle. As someone posted before, being introduced to a group of friends, by someone who’s inside of it, it’s the best thing you can do. But you can create new friendships, organize some get-toghether and only from this the club/bar scene can be useful. Otherwise, I’ll prefer to buy me a beer and drink it all alone while chatting on line :-(

]]> By: Gary http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15493 Gary Thu, 12 Jun 2008 05:13:30 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15493 Man, what an entirely different perspective from the 'going to the bar to practice game'. A few years out from the release of The Game, I wonder how rife it is with weekend after weekend guys trying the jealous girlfriend routine on 'sets'??? Man, what an entirely different perspective from the ‘going to the bar to practice game’. A few years out from the release of The Game, I wonder how rife it is with weekend after weekend guys trying the jealous girlfriend routine on ‘sets’???

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15485 hunter Thu, 12 Jun 2008 01:56:30 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15485 People walk around the Rose Bowl parking lot for exercise, almost every evening. People walk around the Rose Bowl parking lot for exercise, almost every evening.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15484 hunter Thu, 12 Jun 2008 01:54:11 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15484 There are "Sierra" singles hikes at Griffith Park on tuesday, wednesday and thursday evenings. There are “Sierra” singles hikes at Griffith Park on tuesday, wednesday and thursday evenings.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15483 hunter Thu, 12 Jun 2008 01:51:12 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15483 I have found women to be approachable at "Jazz" bars/lounges. I have found women to be approachable at “Jazz” bars/lounges.

]]> By: Lee Coles http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/meet-women-in-a-bar-get-real/539/#comment-15466 Lee Coles Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:56:54 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=539#comment-15466 Interesting formula David. Until I was about 31 and stopped going, I'd probably met twice as many women in bars as my age, if not more. I probaly met four or five a month. Since then, few places can top Borders Books or Whole Foods. The exception to this rule is when I'm outside my own city- I play the numbers game and go where women are plentiful and single- nightclubs. Interesting formula David. Until I was about 31 and stopped going, I’d probably met twice as many women in bars as my age, if not more. I probaly met four or five a month. Since then, few places can top Borders Books or Whole Foods.

The exception to this rule is when I’m outside my own city- I play the numbers game and go where women are plentiful and single- nightclubs.

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