How do you come up with so much material to blog with?…

TLC is supposed to be “TENDER LOVING CARE.”

In my world, and YES I get PLENTY of TLC…………………………
TLC is “TOTAL LACK of COMMUNICATION” :p

Joan! I dunno what TLC is but I can’t imagine anyone getting more of it than you!

No, seriously, what’s with this new trend of all you interesting women envying bitches?
Either they are with low self-esteem men… or they are doing something ELSE that is very sexy and they are with low self-esteem men
Well there’s not much more I could say, as I hear you’ve all found your path with this. So instead let me share a little from my side of this.

There’s this girl I know who I found VERY attractive. Maybe that blinds one, or maybe it takes time to get to know someone. I think both. She is not a kind-hearted, caring person. Let’s say she could be defined as ‘bitch’, as she sometimes uses people or behaves like a spoiled child to get her way. Hm, yes. Writing things out and reading them really sets your mind straight. That IS worthless behavior.

So what was it about her? She’s very wild and lively. Totally unafraid to act crazy and do what she wants. She is fiery and blazing and that turns me on.

So she’s a bitch and she’s not the brightest (no, not the silicons for breasts&brains doll type), but she always has a lover – her instinct is all-out.

Why? I suppose the fact that she doesn’t THINK or CARE makes her uninhibited.

But don’t you want to care AND be uninhibited? I absolutely do! And I believe in it. And that is also the kind of person I want to be with, as well as what I want to bring out in the person I am with. In fact, as I’m writing this, I realize that’s actually the number one thing I am here to do. And that helps to feel just who is right for you.

And what about the trap of the seductive bitch/asshole, like I fell into? I think we all know what to do eventually, as you make yourself feel super in life, and as you pay attention, and as you only go for someone who is hot AND caring. You learn

An evolutionary state of existence and emergance- what a beautiful place to be in! I have never found that to lessen the pain of learning, but I have always found it to be the place where I do my best and most change-oriented growth. That place where I acknowledge and mutate the really ugly stuff about me into a more positive representation.

As backward as that may sound to some, it really is one of the sweet and blissful places in life. Let me say I do not love, nor seek out pain, but if it is dealt to me, I would rather learn from it and flip the situation toward the other side.

Sara- Don’t change who you are, unless you change it for you. Sometimes it just absolutely sucks being nice, honest and genuine. I look at so many ass-holes getting ahead or getting noticed. And it makes me feel, at times, that it is so much harder to get what/where I want. But, at the same time, I know that I cannot live with my self if I take easy and selfish path in life.
I wonder how many nicer people there are in the world, who over time, just feel beat down enough to start to be afraid to show that side of themselves openly. So I stay true to myself and the kind of person I would prefer to be remembered as when my time here comes to an end.

Don’t feel alone in that “(Ugh, I’ve always hated learning names and dates.)”
And the not knowing someone? Through the years of teaching in the gym, I met 100s and 100s of people. I can honestly say, a face…I never forget, unless it has been surgically altered…LOL
BUT put the name to the face..? I just try to steer clear of calling people by name.. Not always a good idea, but I know how it feels.

I remember 3 years in a row winning an adult division of singing contest. The write up in the paper every year, my name was wrong…..not even close. Good thing people knew me by my calves, boobs, and hair…LOL

I am known as Linda around these parts now???????????? I don’t get it , but to hell with it…You can call me Linda

If I say something worth repeating, feel free!

38; Like a find cheese, I get better with age, but without the aroma.

That’s great that you’re getting to know everyone. I’m making an effort to say something, and I am getting better.

My problem is, I have trouble recognizing people until I really get to know them. If someone asks; “do you remember ___”, or “You’ve met __ didn’t you” I never remember. Sometimes I’ll know someone in one context/setting, then if I run into them somewhere else I won’t recognize them. Many times I’ll visually confuse two people until I see them together.

Once a previous memory is triggered, I’m fine… It’ll all come back to me. (assuming the encounter was memorable.) David gets around this in others with his use of creative nicknames; but I need to recognize them before I can think about remembering the name. (Ugh, I’ve always hated learning names and dates.)

I don’t go to stores often, and I believe I’m usually helped by different people. but this is a problem for me beyond stores …

Do you know if any past blogs, or anything, speaks to this?

Thank you for being there for me..lol

There are many routes;

If you want to kiss the lips…stay superior, proximal
Then in kissing the ventral, keep to the anterior region of the trunk.
You can kiss the person in the supine position from the superior to the inferior, then roll her into posterior position, proceeding to kiss the entire dorsal portion of her body.
LOLL
Ken;
I hope this helps you as much as you have enlightened me to the answer to my stumper.

Cum on, get your mind back in the gutter. It depends on the position you’re in. ;P

If you want to be boring maybe up, to the left, and back slightly.
Or, the direction the upper body (shoulders) is facing, is the direction the legs (and knee) will take the body, (including the shoulder.)

I have no idea; are they exposed? Wood they enjoy being touched?
Let me get my hands on them and caress them both to heaven.
Oh wait, this is a kissing blog, I can’t use my hands. If we’re giving directions, how many routes can I take when kissing from one to the other? I need a volunteer to help me find out.