Meet People at the Market By David Wygant
It’s springtime, leading into summertime, and in most cities across the world there are food markets on Saturdays or Sundays. There you can go and get breakfast or lunch, you can get some vegetables for the week, you can get some flowers for your house – that is if you want to buy flowers, you know.
But these food markets are amazing, because they are crawling with people – men, women, screaming babies – or hopefully you can avoid the screaming babies. But the market is crawling with amazing people.
One of the best approaches at a food market is just to walk up directly to where that woman is standing – or if you’re a woman, directly to where a man is standing – and really use the food as a prop.
Take a look at the rolls, look at her, and say, “I was wondering, have you had the bread from here, is it good? I could ask the person behind the counter, but of course they’re going to say yes because they work here!”
Same thing with fruit – you could just walk up to them and say, “man, this fruit looks so good, have you gotten fruit from this stand before? It’s hard to choose which stand to get fruit from!” and then let them talk.
“I was wondering…” and “I’m curious…” are really good here. If she’s eating this incredible looking sandwich, you can walk directly over to her as she’s walking through the market and say, “excuse me, I’m really curious – where did you get sandwich? It looks so good.”
There’s a conversation starter that you need when you’re in a food market. Then listen carefully. Have a great conversation about food, have a great conversation about the nice day. Not small talk here – you can find out a lot of things about them, if you pay attention.
I don’t want to script each minute of this conversation, because it’s not about that. If you really pay attention to what the woman (or the man) in this situation is saying, you’re able to ask them even more questions about the food, or about what they’re passionate about, or why they’re so passionate about the sandwich they’re eating.
So all of a sudden they’ll tell you, “yeah, this is a great sandwich, one of the best I’ve ever had – but not as good as the one I had at this other market,” and then you can ask, “what other market?” and you can capitalize on that. You can talk about food markets, and you can talk about food.
What will happen is that an interest in food – which all of us have, because we all eat! It’s not like something we don’t know how to talk about – we eat three times a day! Some of us do it six times a day!
Some of us like wine, some of us like vegetables, some of us like flowers. Some of these little food markets have art shops and other things. You know all of this stuff! You’re an expert in all of this stuff. You’ve been eating every day since you were born.
So you should have something to talk about here. It’s a wonderful place to meet people, so go enjoy it!
Todays Video is how to create the perfect first kiss.
Ooooh yea… gotta love the foodmarkets
Probably one of my favorite places to go these days. Great blog David!
That’s one of the things I love about NYC – there are always street fairs and outdoor food markets. I went to one recently (and got a bunch of great necklaces for really good prices) and aside from talking up the vendors themselves (which is a great warm up by the way), I would also bring people into the conversation and ask them “isn’t this artwork amazing?” or “what do you think?” while I hold up a necklace, or even just “where did you learn to pick fruit like that?” in a really fun and playful way.
The truth is it almost doesn’t matter what you say, as long as it’s relevant to what is going on in the moment and doesn’t come off as too intense or creepy. It’s all about attitude, and I’m happy to say I’ve had some great conversations because of this type of approach.
ya gotta try this out! i spend most of my time checking how much i’ve spent on the groceries instead of the pretty girls thats walking around haha!
Kudos on the kiss….thats what gets my attention every time
Too bad men don’t listen to a womans lips and tongue when kissing. Not all but some just want to devour your damn face…uhhhh gahd slooowwww softttt and sensualll
This is so much a turn on when it is in sync…if not? SUCKSSSSSSS!
HAHAHAHAHA I agree Joan!!
Aaahhh kissing! Art? Science? A little bit of both?
Ever had someone who made you just want to run off and stick your entire tongue deep into a bottle of mouthwash and leave it there for the next hour? Or ever had someone who had you so enrapt that you didn’t really care of things went any further?
So much to learn from both of those kinds of experiences about what lies in between the two…….Here’s a thought; consider kissing as another form of communication, of part of language. Does what you want to say match what you are actually saying? Is the conversation you are having with your tongues on the same page?
So I can make this analogy about some of the worst kissing I have ever experienced. We were both talking and neither of us were listening.
Here’s something that stands out in my mind. One day I was in the produce section and these incredibly large sweet potatoes were out there. So I picked one up and said wow look at these huge sweet potatoes. instantly this good looking woman comes up smiles at me and says omg you’re right.
We had a short talk then went our ways. Now this points out to me that given the opportunity woman are more than willing to talk to you about anything if you just show some life and energy.
Wow I got be honest with ya David. I felt like that was 1st grade for me.
That soft kiss first goes along way. And you defenitly want them comin back for more right. So when give them that soft kiss dont let go so fast. get there lips in between yours and just give a lilttle Rock and Roll suck action. then let go. You can look in there eyes and its like where am I heaven ! They just dream out on ya.
IT may be first grade for you…..but you would be amazed at how many women email me everyday about the quality of mens kissing!!
Sometimes it is really good for some of us to go back to the 1st grade:)
You right some people are still 1st grade and some are rocket science level. So every tidbit of info this web site produces is more useful to everyone involved.
I believe I can use some improvement when it comes to kissing… I’d love to spend time practicing(playing) there. In my experience the women have been more interested in having my mouth elsewhere. And that’s given me the opportunity to learn other communication styles. Learning to read takes practice. People want to communicate with great communicators; what’s a motivated learner to do??? (Reminds me of the expression, “It takes money to make money”. The good kissers get the opportunity for further practice…)
Ken E.
Speaking of kissing and 1st grade… I had a boyfriend from Kindergarten-3rd grade, Jeremy Holly. I would always finish my work 1st in the class and he would finish 2nd. We would sit in the book corner and “read” behind these huge books. Actually we would kiss. I was even naughty then! He was a remarkable kisser for his age. I guess some people are born with it and others need to practice and work at it; just like everything else in life. I used to practice with girls, dolls and on my arm. Our kissing behind the books came to a hault when one classmate saw what we were doing and told the teacher. Don’t worry our love affair didn’t end. I would ask to go to the bathroom and then he would a few minutes later and we would meet on the stairs to kiss. I would ask him if he wanted French or regular! I wonder what ever happened to him. I still have the Smurfette necklace he gave me.
Ken says ” In my experience the women have been more interested in having my mouth elsewhere”….
Out of curiosity, have you tried going back from that elsewhere to kissing and kind of alternating the style like that?
And, quite honestly from my viewpoint, if that elsewhere is predominately ” treasure island” and not much else, then you are trying to communicate with some pretty selfish partners. Sorry ladies, if it sounds like you, own it or change it.
Ken;
First let me say hello to you. I haven’t been here but for this kiss post in ages. Anatomy and Physiology has my brain and time swamped, but it is pretty cool
Hey, I agree thems some selfish b’s who want your mouth elsewhere only. A great kiss isn’t hard…it might MAKE you hard..LOL ehemmmm I”M backkk
I think it is a matter of just loosening up. Soften the lips and they way you go about using them.
I know if a kiss is good to me….I feel a floating sensation. Everything seems light as a featherlight touch increasing intensity as passion builds.
Its a slow down and take the time to feel what the other set of lips is doing, then sync into that…unless she sucks then tell her, get to work! Haaaaaaa KIDDING! THEN well she is a bad kisser and that can be a downer…add bad breath? I say a nice bye bye is in order
I sound mean, but that is the crux of a kiss in my thoughts.
HOPE;
LOL Kindergarten? haaaaaaa well you gotta start somewhere. I think it is cute….and the smurfette necklace? I bet that B is worth some money..LOL KIDDING! That is a keepsake of your first kiss/boy
Sara;
Thank you is it not the truth? Mmmmmmmm people…the kiss….preface to passionate interludes. Hey that could be the title of the book I may never write…LOL 
Officer Hope, I love your story
Hm. No. ‘Officer’ just doesn’t sound quite right. Maybe Hope Naughty. That’s a lot of naughty in Dutch
You ARE naughty!
Joan; I think you felt that where am i in heaven feeling I see in womans eyes. Their eyes just glaze over and a lil smile comes out. Most amazing because it seems also to work in reverse and make me high looking at them.
Kissing… amazing. Ever have your mind wanting to say ten things at once and then you don’t know what to say?
It makes me smile to think about how kissing is one of the only few things in this whole area that really comes naturally to me. I’ve always been wondering how someone could not understand how to kiss. That is, at least since my first kiss – which by the way wasn’t much to write home about… as I was nervous as a you-know-what. I was trembling inside like 9 on the Rigter scale. But that’s another story. Before that I had no idea. I simply had no idea. After that, it was natural. Kissing is so intimate and bonding.
So people always say not to use your tongue in the first kiss. But it’s so cute… in my mild experience, during the first kiss, the girl would always start playing with her tongue if I wouldn’t. I think it depends on… everything! So if you’ve been having the hots for each other with 50 centimeters in between you for the last three days, hey ^^
A great friend of mine has this strange thing about him – he doesn’t like the French kiss. I’m suspecting his girlfriend of being a boring kisser. :p I mean come on, when things get hot, can you keep just lipping each other up? I play this game sometimes when I’m kissing someone. I’ll tell her to try with me to kiss for ten seconds with no tongue. You don’t really count and you just go for what seems like somewhat over ten seconds, and you enjoy it while you feel that hunger building in both of you. Then I just utter a hungry, I’ve-waited-for-hours-like “ten” and kiss her passionately, and she’ll CONSUME it. It’s HOT.
Another time, when you’re really playful, you go “let’s try ten seconds without lips”. And play on from there.
Christine,
I love what you say about kissing being communication. I agree. I call it ‘bringing your intention’. You are bringing your intention in the moment into that kiss, and giving it, sharing it, and bathing in it together. That makes each kiss so different. You could kiss really playfully and tease each other. You can kiss so adoringly and love each other. Or you can kiss in burning desire and passion and surrender to each other.
I need to cool down a little
So what’s with the French anyway? We just call it tongue kiss. It’s much sexier, what do you say?
Rock & Roll;
Yes…that is a good analogy to the way a very nice passionate kiss feels and where it takes one.
The eyes DO glaze over, become very hot and smoldering…sometimes very glassy and the body feels limp and just wants to be pulled closer and kissed more.
I am a die hard kisser, so exsqueeze me..lol
To me…kissing is right up there with the Big O…if done properly. It really should not take thought. Kissing passionately and doing it well is something that should just meld into place, until two become one.
Pete-
Your further elaboration on kissing as communication- hot, hot, soo hot. I’ll have some nice dreams tonight.
Joan- kissing right up there with the bit O. Hella yeah, but also where some partners end up screwed up in my eyes.
It’s like so many people, after that first time they fully consumate the act, just forget how fun, amazing and sexy it is to take the longer path to get to the end goal. I have been in a couple of situations where no matter how much chemistry there was, I was focusing on all of the fantastic diversions on the way to the end goal and the partner saw the end goal as the only prize to be had.
Needless to say, those names are not on my list to call to make a play date.
Joan;
It’s nice you’ve cum back. I hope you’re not suffering tooo much from an extended withdraw.
So your head is spinning from your anatomical explorations, wood you want it any other way? – I figured we’d hear from you when a topic arose to stimulate your interest.
Christine & Joan;
You understand, “you get what you settle for”; the funny thing is until the end of my marriage, I never felt like I had settled. When the swings weren’t available I’d enjoy playing on the slide and see-saw… In the marriage I figured she was young and we’d have a lifetime to explore… In relationships prior to that I was more than happy to explore anywhere; it was all new. While there was a lot less than I would have liked, I enjoyed the kissing and full body explorations;
it just turned them on too quickly 
and they were more results oriented. (Even when the mouth isn’t moving, to other locations, the hands are busy caressing… everywhere.)
(I keep my mouth clean and fresh; If that was a problem I know a couple of women wouldn’t have hesitated to say something. I’ve never been with someone with bad breath. I can’t imagine entering a relationship with a woman with bad breath.)
I’m a bit older now and more aware… The bar has been raised.
So now, with a college degree, I’m sitting in the front row in kindergarden. (I like what David teaches on mirroring their style; I’m looking forward to trying it…)
I have to agree with the wise person who recently said to me “You are in a good place right now in your personal development”
Now I just need to meet a woman who considers these explorations & play a critical part of the relationship, and is in no rush to move on to the next task.
That and I need to learn how to better bridge from the initial platonic conversations to something intimate & physical; so I’ll have the opportunities…
- Anyone here have some do’s and don’ts based on experience???
Ken E.
For some reason all this talk on kissing is making me think of dancing…
I’d love a partner who is more interested in gazing into each others eyes than looking around at everyone else…
The few times I’ve dance with someone like that were the only times I’ve felt I could dance.
(We were the dance.) When the person is looking around I have too left feet. 
Ken E.
Ken;
I sure hope you are asleep so you don’t rise to the occasion her to read…lol
From a womans do and don’t perspective
DO: Treat a woman with respect/communicate
DON’T: Talk cock…I am fully believeing the man who talks the cock…needs to A WALK!
DO: Tell a woman the truths of your feelings…good bad or indifferent in a tactful manner
DON”T: Be a coward with no balls and leave a woman hanging as to why the jerk syndrome has a hold on you
It is so very simple…well hell, maybe not. I know with ME…communication, honesty and not looking for the negative, but rather the positive in a person….it is that easy.
You can score so many pluses with a woman with honesty. ????what is so hard about people…men and women being honest?
Honestly….people piss me off who choose to be anything but honest, because just like everything else in this life is a personal choice…so is honesty and communication
In the famous words of Forest Gump…”and that’s all I got to say about that.”
Whoo!!! This is one heated blog. There are over 8 new comments since I last checked! Joan: You Go Girl!
Great responses and some great truth to lot’s of it!
Ken, King of Pun! haha you’re the bomb
You make such a great point about dancing. Looking around the room? That’s no fun huh. You’re just stepping together. When you have a connection, that’s when you can truly DANCE together. I love the eye contact while dancing. It’s hot.
I LOOOVE women who dare to look straight into my eyes. Recently there was this Italian woman… well that about says it all right :p
Joan,
I’m totally with you on the honesty thing. Sometimes, though, as you probably know, when a person’s open honesty disappears, it’s discomfort. When you get uncomfortable, honesty is hard. So it’s not disrespect. But absolutely it’s still own responsibility for everyone to work on that.
Then there’s dishonest people.
Then there’s Jack Sparrow. “Me? I’m dishonest, and a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest. Honestly!”
Christine,
Dream sweet
I’d like to raise a question to you all:
What if (s)he no longer takes the long path and skips the hot, delicious kissing that was going on before? What would you do?
I know what I would do but I wanna hear your minds. Do you run for the hills? Are you intent on reminding him or her of what kissing is like? Do you start playing ‘the seductive one’?
Pete;
Yes…I become a seductive beastress!
Sara;
Mhmmm you damn skippy
Pete,
In answer to your question; hoping things will change and it’ll return doesn’t work. I expect complaining would just make it worse. Since what to do is coming up as a question, that indicates there’s more to the relationship and it’s worth some effort to try and save it.
What would I do now. I’m not sure… Hopefully something productive…
Does it feel mutual or one sided? Are there extenuating circumstances?
One option: Nicely ask if the other person has noticed it too, and if they agree it would be desirable to get it back. – This may backfire, but that’d be an answer. (Some move on when something is broken, others fix.)
Option two: As you said; turn it up, take some responsibility.
Options One and Two are not mutually exclusive.
Ken E.
Joan,
Were you up early or late? (Remaining silent regarding my sleeping habits.)
I’m having difficulty understanding your “don’t”s. I’d like to believe that’s because they don’t apply and I can’t relate.
-Or you need to lay off the pain medication. 
If you mean literally using the word “cock”, I don’t.
What’s the “jerk syndrome”?
I believe your comments are about being a decent human being in general. What differentiates one of these desirable people on the friends track vs. one on the good friends +
track?
Part of my problem may be many times I don’t know which track I want to be on. (I want the +, but the rest is an important part.) Sometimes I think I should aim for the friends + track, and then back off if I find it’s not what I want. But that goes against my not committing to something until I’m sure… And I really don’t want to lead someone on… As I type this I’m thinking that I might be viewing the test drive as a sign of commitment… I do believe in honest communication, but it’s hard when I don’t have any idea what I want (to communicate)… I guess a maybe in yes/no/maybe, is a cautious yes. And it seems there’s no such thing as a cautious yes, it’s either yes or no. (talking about trajectory, not it it’ll be reached.)
I’m guessing that if a guy expresses that he’s not sure if he’s interested in a woman, she will decide ‘no’ because it’s not a ‘yes’…
I’ve rambled enough…
Ken E.
Ken;
Oh…I didn’t mean these as directed at you…i hope that is not how it came across. If it did, i sincerely apologize.
As for your sleep habits…I was playing with you. My life is about 98% play. I am only really serious when the time is apprpro. The remainder of the time…you can be sure I am having fun or making fun happen
By talking “cock” I meant the guys that talk about how much they have and how aroused you make them just in talking…then you meet and well….nuff said?
The jerk syndrome is a vast subject…kinda like the womans “bit%$: syndrome.
I was referring mostly to men you meet, you talk you may??? They talk to you a few times after and seem interested then POOF! Signs of weirdo show up. They crawl into some private hole and never talk to you…or anyone else.
What causes that shit? That is just a stumper to me. I think a shrink is in order!
No Ken….I think you are a very nice man….you know how to communicate…here anyways. You don’t seem to have the “jerk syndrome” so no worries…
You know, if you are not sure what it is you feel…let her know that too. That IS communicating. Some things in this life require a lot of thought before the YES or NO can be decided.
Using the analogy of the car again. I have NEVER gone to look at a car, test drove it and said yes. My answer was I need to think about it…..look at the pros and cons…yanno?
At 17…after a LONG NO…I said yes and regretted it for many years until just recently that I am freed from being a prisoner in my own home.
Sooooooo…if it is not a YES? Ok communicado If it is a NO? communication
HEY! It all boils down to honesty, communication and respect
I seem to have a one track mind when it comes to that, but I think that is what my granny referred to as Morals and values….ones character is built around beliefs…these are my beliefs I guess
Joan,
No need to apologize. I knew it wasn’t directed at me. I need more play in my life.
But that doesn’t stop me from trying to see how things might be applied to me. (I find it’s a good method of learning about the different parts of myself.)
I might not express them the same way, but I’m human and have the same thoughts as those “Jerks”. While I’ve never done the Jerk Syndrome Poof, I’d guess that they didn’t articulate the maybe. It sounds like you should be glad they disappeared. Though part of you is probably wondering what you did wrong… nothing; you’ve mastered getting rid of the jerks without thought or effort.
I’m not comfortable discussing some things on a public “forum”, but I’m going to push it a little here. I “met” a woman a week ago on a dating site. We’ve been talking since, and tonight we met for a walk. She’s a lovely woman. (On the outside and on the inside.) Hugs hello and goodbye, but no kisses yet. (Hey, I had to tie it back in with the blog topic.) Would I like to kiss and hold her? yes!. Getting there???
I think my problem is I think tooo far ahead. I’m not talking sex; relatively speaking that’s only a few steps beyond kissing, which is a few steps beyond walking together. I find my self wondering about looong term compatibility; that’s the not “yes” or “no”. Of course its way too soon to know. (Does a communication junkie like you discuss long term compatibility on the first meeting??? I’m guessing no; the other person will think you’re some type of nut.) I know I’ll get better with experience, but that just reminds me that experience is knowledge gained after you needed it…
Did you ever get the idea that I might over analyze a little too much?
Ken E.
P.S. Your comment on morals and values reminds me of an email that’s been gone around. The Obituary of Mr. Common Sense. (Too long to post here.)
Ken;
Haa yes I am very glad they disappeared. I haven’t time to waste on “strangos.”
Umm well, no. I really don’t wonder what i did wrong, I ask myself why do I give so much attention and affection just to be??? This is just really one guy that is in my thoughts. He really weirded on me, and I mean WEIRDED…is that a word? LOL It is now
lol NO would be the correct answer to that question. Long term compatibility on the first second or third go around…No I would say. That is just me though Ken. every one is different.
Thats good,” that experience is knowledge gained after you needed it…”
I would say laymens terms for that statement are, “You’ve got to live to learn.”
Hmmm interesting title, The Obituary of Mr. Common Sense. Did he have a spouse? LOL KIDDING
Joan,
I realized long ago, when you don’t set boundaries/restrictions on your thoughts, it’s best to use discretion when it comes to expressing them.
Here’s one paragraph from the email I received:
Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust; his wife, Discretion; along with his daughter and son, Responsibility and Reason. He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers; I Know My Rights, I Want It Now, Someone Else Is To Blame, and I’m A Victim.
“I ask myself why do I give so much attention and affection just to be???”
- Because that’s your nature.
Ken;
Yes, I am finding that to be true. I just have to wonder…does being a nice girl keep a man? I see women being such Bs to their men, and it makes me ill, but at the same time…they seem to get more TLC than I got in a lifetime!
Is it a bi%$# men want? I just think a loving person would be more desireable,,,which I am…and really don’t want to be a bit%$ but can practice and become one with provocation.
Thats excellent. Uh hugh…I love the step brother comment tagged on there. Thank you for sharing that .
Ken, you are always a pleasure to exchange conversation with. I enjoy it very much. Seeing as it is now…4 AM here, I recon I need to go to bed? lol
Good night..or morning as it were. sweet dreams to you.
I was working on some A&P homework and wanted to get the test done. I looked at the clock and said, “WTH…I must be nuts!” Lol
Ken;
My incredimail butler..lol just delivered that last mail when I was standing up to leave here.
Yes…it is my nature, and I would like to think that there is another like natured who would appreciate a non bit%^ to hang with… lol I don’t know I am giving this whole dating thing a rest for awhile. Maybe I just suck at it?
Shucks! I have the same problem, I am being my usual nice self and I do not even get half the care or respect I see the bitches get!
What the heck is up with that?
I decided to try being a bitch a few times though… I suppose it did not come too natural to me because it still didn’t work. I have been single for quite some time now. I needed a friggin’ break anyway!
Ha ha.
Sara;
Yea…I just couldn’t seem to spell the word BITCHES! LOL It is true…the crappier I see women treat men, they get treated like queens. I want to puke!
Being a bitch isn’t easy for me, but when provoked by childish, stupid or uncalled for behavior…I can be super bitch!
I guess I am a human with a big heart, but won’t allow it to be taken for granted.
Instead of anatomy and physiology, I need to be taking bitchology 101!
Joan and Sara-
Here is a different point of view regarding the couples where you see one treating the other like shit and the other partner reciprocating with TLC or care and respect as you have both put it.
What the hell is level of self-respect that person has? OMG!
I read a quote once that really made me think for a long time. I can’t remember the author and am only paraphrasing the portion that had a huge impact… with regard to people I have seen in some of the worst relationships …” finding someone to treat you just a little worse than you treat yourself”.
So, from my perspective, if I did treat them like a bitch and they respond by becoming a ” lap-dog”; it is now time to run far, far away!
Joan;
We know you’re nuts.
You’re talking with me. 
(It was 5am here.)
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Joan, Christine, Sara;
I’m reading David’s book. I’m on the online dating chapter. I read the ‘intro’ story earlier today. In my experience there’s a new ‘local’ prospect every couple of weeks in this area… I’d say I’m in the (very) early stage of developing/learning those sorting skills. Those skills will help sort the maybes…
I believe a lot of the ‘effective’, but undesirable, behavior you’re describing is an immature/twisted version of a healthy trait. arrogance-> self confidence; bossy -> knowing self & self respect/assertion; and so on… From my experience understanding myself and understanding others go hand in hand. (People talk of shadow elements; when a person has a strong reaction to another, it’s because they don’t want to acknowledge those aspects in themselves.)
I read somewhere that according to some study, structures mature in the brain of women after being with an alpha male, then they won’t settle for a beta any more. It seems like common sense dressed up for the media; once the healthy is understood/experienced the “pathological” is no longer acceptable.
I don’t know to what extent its on my part vs. how the universe works… but I find that as I truly learn/understand/embody there is a filter mechanism; the old issues aren’t relevant and don’t come up. (Wish I knew more ways to speed up the process.) Reading a persons online add is a great way to learn the issues they are currently working one. (Hint look for what they are complaining about and don’t want.)
It might not be late right now, but I am; bye…
Ken E.
Ken;
Well, I like talking to you…so if that makes me crazy…it only confirms what I already knew! LOL KIDDING
Hey…the German Dr. has some great stuff on that site you left. I will be delving in further for sure!
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Ken;
Oh yea…man I like what I read so far. The good German Dr. has some great things there. I will be reading and listening further.
Hey I taught, ate slept breathed health and well being for 20+ years. I screwed up my back as well as other joints in my body because of pure obsessed insanity when I would teach, but I am back in the ring. Fibromayalgia sucks as well, but i just ordered the freaking awesome vitamins! They are liquid and if I can get the link I will leave it here.
My friends DR gave her the site for them and she turned me on to it….so share the wealth i always say.
If I am into health?
I have seen 2 of my friends lives transformed taking this “potion” of O mega 3’s, too much to begin to name. If anybody sees this, goes to the link and wants to order…do it right there. No I get no profit off it, but you get a $40 discount
Ken, if talking to you makes me crazy? Hey crazy can be very enjoyable
WTH? Ok well I thought I had lost this last post when I went to look for the Vite site
so I started over Sorry folks 
This is your brain on drugs (Dr prescribed Vicoden…K?”
“WTH? Ok well I thought I had lost this ”
Yup, you’ve lost it alright.
You either laugh in/at life; or you go crazy, and then you laugh…
I’ll choose to laugh.
If you can’t find an ailment/”cure” in that system, you can look into a spin-off: http://www.totalbiology.ca The trade off is sacraficing the scientific rigor and drawing on a large collection of “beliefs” that tend to work, with generally good success, within that framework.
Thank You: Christine, Joan, Ken, and David for posting this blog. I have gotten some great tips, advice, responses and perspectives.
I hope to look at the man w/bitch scenario with different perspective next time around.
Us nice people should just up it and stay our nice selves and then some, to start balancing this ratio out!!!
-Sara
I want to go back and comment on some things I said earlier. Partly because my thinking is never static, and partly because I don’t want to mislead…
When I just meet someone and ponder the future potential, it’s the romantic in me dreaming of the possibilities. It’s part of who I am and how I learn. It doesn’t mean that’s how I feel it is or believe it should be. – I do loose out on some fun because I’m selective when it comes to test driving…
With the woman I saw yesterday, I don’t know if it’ll work out; If it doesn’t, it would be nice if we could be friends… If not; I’ll meet someone else.
– That said, I’d love to experience her kisses. 
There was a bunch more I wanted to say, but now I don’t remember. That’s a good sign; I’m moving on from the “maybe” problem.
What will I come to next? I’m looking forward to finding out.
-Actually I worked out a couple more things as I typed this, but I’m choosing not to include them.
Ken;
LOL You are so real and funny. Those are great qualities to posess
Isn’t the romantic a pain in the butt to shove aside sometimes? It can really cloud reality…which is sucky, but oh well. Like you said, there is ALWAYS someone else to meet.
I have been taking my little Shih Tzu for walks here at the condo, and i think EVERYBODY owns a dog…(I wish whoever isn’t cleaning their doggys doo doo would clean the shit…literally!) ha ha There is no excuse….we have fire hydrants with “poo poo bags” i will call them. SOOOOOO whats the problem? I guess they see it as good fertilizer? LOL
Anyway, now that he has little boots made for small puppies (he is white…one walk messes the grooming efforts) we go out and DAVID?
DAVID? lol DAVID…
You are so right about the dog being a great way to meet people. This little cutie of a pup is like a people magnet. I have met more guys and girls and kids and other dogs because of his cute wobble butt
WTH point was I making? Ohhhhhhhhh my head and school are not a good combo!
Hey…lets play a game..LOL I would love to see if anyone can answer this question…because I’ll be dog gonned! I cannot get the wording. 1 1/2 hours? I am moving on!
Here ya go…someone wanna take a crack at this stumper? PLEASE
“Then please describe in directional terms the relationship between the right kneecap and the left shoulder.”
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Sara,
A healthy niceness is contagious.
In one form or another we get the feedback we need. The communication from that feedback starts subtle and nuanced. If we don’t listen, it gets louder and more to the point; until it can’t be ignored.
First your body might feel tired, then sore, then if you keep going it might really start hurting; eventually it will get to the point were you can’t go on. The trick is becoming attuned to the early conversation, before the “yelling” starts.
We’re attracted to our partners because we see aspects of our selves we’re not yet in touch with. And they can have an annoying habit of letting us know what we need to hear. Is it that we don’t know how to listen and appreciate, or they haven’t matured to the point of being able to express it in a healthy manner? Maybe, while we’re matched, both.
Whatever the process everyone is maturing. I think at one time the only accepted “solution” was to live with it; now society is trying to figure it out…
Ken E.
As usual all assertions are based on a current thought and are subject to change with the emergence of a new thought.
Ken;
“A healthy niceness is contagious.” Yes it is. I learned that as “kill them with kindness.” If you are nice to someone, 9 times out of 10 they will reciprocate.
I am noticing where I live now, when I go say to the store, the cashiers are very cold shoulder. I watch how the customers in front of me never speak and are a bunch of rich snoots for the most part. The area is new and reaks with money…and snobbery.
SO FAR, I have been able to get great conversation out of EVERONE I have met but one. They are so used to quiet snobby nosses in the air they have permanent attitudes. It is sad:( SOOOOOOO I have a mission. I am going to eventually know every single clerk in every store and they will know me as the friendly one. Money ain’t crap…although it is nice to have
As for the little snoot, I wrote a letter to her boss at the spa here…very professionally laid out…true and honest…she is now unemployed..BOO HOO!
Biznatch…better smile and talk friendly to me and DEFINITELY do not keep your nose in a book when you should be answering my friends questions. OR well, I will make sure or try my darndest to HAVE YO ASS REMOVED! LOL She was customer service for Gods sake.
Ok
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Ken, may I be so bold as to ask how old you are…truthfully
I read your posts and their is a young, but very mature man I read. Just curious, and by no means feel obligated to answer that if you are not comfy.
“As usual all assertions are based on a current thought and are subject to change with the emergence of a new thought.” LOVE IT!!
Until studies are o more…this is my living motto if I may steal it? LOL
“Then please describe in directional terms the relationship between the right kneecap and the left shoulder.”
Cum on, get your mind back in the gutter.
It depends on the position you’re in. ;P
If you want to be boring maybe up, to the left, and back slightly.
Or, the direction the upper body (shoulders) is facing, is the direction the legs (and knee) will take the body, (including the shoulder.)
I have no idea; are they exposed?
Wood they enjoy being touched? 
Let me get my hands on them and caress them both to heaven.
Oh wait, this is a kissing blog, I can’t use my hands. If we’re giving directions, how many routes can I take when kissing from one to the other? I need a volunteer to help me find out.
Ken;
Thank you for being there for me..lol
There are many routes;
If you want to kiss the lips…stay superior, proximal
Then in kissing the ventral, keep to the anterior region of the trunk.
You can kiss the person in the supine position from the superior to the inferior, then roll her into posterior position, proceeding to kiss the entire dorsal portion of her body.
LOLL
Ken;
I hope this helps you as much as you have enlightened me to the answer to my stumper.
“I think I will move on to flirting on a train”..lol
Joan;
If I say something worth repeating, feel free!
38; Like a find cheese, I get better with age, but without the aroma.
That’s great that you’re getting to know everyone. I’m making an effort to say something, and I am getting better.
My problem is, I have trouble recognizing people until I really get to know them. If someone asks; “do you remember ___”, or “You’ve met __ didn’t you” I never remember. Sometimes I’ll know someone in one context/setting, then if I run into them somewhere else I won’t recognize them. Many times I’ll visually confuse two people until I see them together.
Once a previous memory is triggered, I’m fine… It’ll all come back to me. (assuming the encounter was memorable.) David gets around this in others with his use of creative nicknames; but I need to recognize them before I can think about remembering the name. (Ugh, I’ve always hated learning names and dates.)
I don’t go to stores often, and I believe I’m usually helped by different people. but this is a problem for me beyond stores …
Do you know if any past blogs, or anything, speaks to this?
Ken;
Don’t feel alone in that “(Ugh, I’ve always hated learning names and dates.)”
Not always a good idea, but I know how it feels.
And the not knowing someone? Through the years of teaching in the gym, I met 100s and 100s of people. I can honestly say, a face…I never forget, unless it has been surgically altered…LOL
BUT put the name to the face..? I just try to steer clear of calling people by name..
I remember 3 years in a row winning an adult division of singing contest. The write up in the paper every year, my name was wrong…..not even close. Good thing people knew me by my calves, boobs, and hair…LOL
I am known as Linda around these parts now???????????? I don’t get it , but to hell with it…You can call me Linda
Ken E said; “As usual all assertions are based on a current thought and are subject to change with the emergence of a new thought”.
An evolutionary state of existence and emergance- what a beautiful place to be in! I have never found that to lessen the pain of learning, but I have always found it to be the place where I do my best and most change-oriented growth. That place where I acknowledge and mutate the really ugly stuff about me into a more positive representation.
As backward as that may sound to some, it really is one of the sweet and blissful places in life. Let me say I do not love, nor seek out pain, but if it is dealt to me, I would rather learn from it and flip the situation toward the other side.
Sara- Don’t change who you are, unless you change it for you. Sometimes it just absolutely sucks being nice, honest and genuine. I look at so many ass-holes getting ahead or getting noticed. And it makes me feel, at times, that it is so much harder to get what/where I want. But, at the same time, I know that I cannot live with my self if I take easy and selfish path in life.
I wonder how many nicer people there are in the world, who over time, just feel beat down enough to start to be afraid to show that side of themselves openly. So I stay true to myself and the kind of person I would prefer to be remembered as when my time here comes to an end.
Hey thanks Ken, for your reply!
Luckily I’m not in that situation and I haven’t encountered a woman who would get like that. I’ve only had it happen when a girl lost interest completely. But hey, that’s a whole different beast altogether
Joan! I dunno what TLC is but I can’t imagine anyone getting more of it than you!
No, seriously, what’s with this new trend of all you interesting women envying bitches?
Either they are with low self-esteem men… or they are doing something ELSE that is very sexy and they are with low self-esteem men
Well there’s not much more I could say, as I hear you’ve all found your path with this. So instead let me share a little from my side of this.
There’s this girl I know who I found VERY attractive. Maybe that blinds one, or maybe it takes time to get to know someone. I think both. She is not a kind-hearted, caring person. Let’s say she could be defined as ‘bitch’, as she sometimes uses people or behaves like a spoiled child to get her way. Hm, yes. Writing things out and reading them really sets your mind straight. That IS worthless behavior.
So what was it about her? She’s very wild and lively. Totally unafraid to act crazy and do what she wants. She is fiery and blazing and that turns me on.
So she’s a bitch and she’s not the brightest (no, not the silicons for breasts&brains doll type), but she always has a lover – her instinct is all-out.
Why? I suppose the fact that she doesn’t THINK or CARE makes her uninhibited.
But don’t you want to care AND be uninhibited? I absolutely do! And I believe in it. And that is also the kind of person I want to be with, as well as what I want to bring out in the person I am with. In fact, as I’m writing this, I realize that’s actually the number one thing I am here to do. And that helps to feel just who is right for you.
And what about the trap of the seductive bitch/asshole, like I fell into? I think we all know what to do eventually, as you make yourself feel super in life, and as you pay attention, and as you only go for someone who is hot AND caring. You learn
Pete;
TLC is supposed to be “TENDER LOVING CARE.”
In my world, and YES I get PLENTY of TLC…………………………
TLC is “TOTAL LACK of COMMUNICATION” :p
Wtf. I did it again
Rant rant rant…
I bet that’s going to come out of my page-check
i wanna have your babies…
How do you come up with so much material to blog with?…