Comments on: Love Me or Hate Me http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: antivenom http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-26777 antivenom Sun, 26 Apr 2009 19:41:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-26777 They say nice guys finish last. I never have to sweat that! In fact, lately I've been thinking that I should change who I am. I've been told I'm weird, different, fun, crazy, irritating, funny, ridiculous, stupid, brilliant, an orphan, jerk, naive, offensive, goofy, playful, affectionate, abrasive, the list goes on...... There are almost always two types of responses to someones retorts, if I even bother to respond at all. If it's positive, I always say, "Why yes I am and it's awesome of you to notice", and if it's negative I say - "You'll get used to it." Both are very honest statements. Women love it and hate it at the same time. If a woman gets out of control of her emotions I remind her that one person should not have so much power of her emotions. She'll either try to kill you or chill out. Women either love me or they hate me almost immediately. That's just the way I roll. I'm like this because I abhor that dead feeling I get when no one connects with me. They say nice guys finish last. I never have to sweat that! In fact, lately I’ve been thinking that I should change who I am. I’ve been told I’m weird, different, fun, crazy, irritating, funny, ridiculous, stupid, brilliant, an orphan, jerk, naive, offensive, goofy, playful, affectionate, abrasive, the list goes on…… There are almost always two types of responses to someones retorts, if I even bother to respond at all. If it’s positive, I always say, “Why yes I am and it’s awesome of you to notice”, and if it’s negative I say – “You’ll get used to it.” Both are very honest statements. Women love it and hate it at the same time. If a woman gets out of control of her emotions I remind her that one person should not have so much power of her emotions. She’ll either try to kill you or chill out. Women either love me or they hate me almost immediately. That’s just the way I roll. I’m like this because I abhor that dead feeling I get when no one connects with me.

]]> By: vern siang http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-20006 vern siang Thu, 27 Nov 2008 03:36:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-20006 Loves these blogs :) Loves these blogs :)

]]> By: xena http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-20003 xena Thu, 27 Nov 2008 01:43:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-20003 As a woman, I do appreciate when a man evokes an emotion but do hate it when they can't go the rest of the way. I knew a man once who did all the right things, almost text book and really held my interest for months. But then, I learned he was not available to me emotionally. It was disappointing to say the least, heart-breaking to say the worst. Whatever you do, do it with sincerity and it will matter. Do it as manipulation and I really feel it will blow up in your face. This goes both ways...with men and women. As a woman, I do appreciate when a man evokes an emotion but do hate it when they can’t go the rest of the way. I knew a man once who did all the right things, almost text book and really held my interest for months. But then, I learned he was not available to me emotionally. It was disappointing to say the least, heart-breaking to say the worst. Whatever you do, do it with sincerity and it will matter. Do it as manipulation and I really feel it will blow up in your face. This goes both ways…with men and women.

]]> By: Fran http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19958 Fran Mon, 24 Nov 2008 22:54:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19958 David I have only just discovered you from the Rory Raye Toxic Men CDs I live in Melbourne Australia and Just wanted to say you make me laugh in a good way, you are like a breath of fresh air - because your not afraid of saying what you think, Howard stern also pushed passed his fears to expose himself... to the world for better or worse, there is great freedom in not caring what others think about you... David I have only just discovered you from the Rory Raye Toxic Men CDs I live in Melbourne Australia and Just wanted to say you make me laugh in a good way, you are like a breath of fresh air – because your not afraid of saying what you think, Howard stern also pushed passed his fears to expose himself… to the world for better or worse, there is great freedom in not caring what others think about you…

]]> By: Jessica http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19955 Jessica Mon, 24 Nov 2008 19:51:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19955 It takes so much energy from me to 'wake people up from their daily life", then later I ask myself, "Is it worse it?" I always wonder, is it me, or other people feel the same way? It takes so much energy from me to ‘wake people up from their daily life”, then later I ask myself, “Is it worse it?” I always wonder, is it me, or other people feel the same way?

]]> By: Susan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19953 Susan Mon, 24 Nov 2008 19:26:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19953 This blog goes hand in hand with the "waking people up" from their everyday lives...you have to wake them up to you by stirring some emotion in them. I do this all the time in the elevator and after I initiate a conversation, I actually see people (both men and women--because as my good friend DW says-talk to everyone) "wake up". It might be the widening of their eyes, or a spontaneous smile or a shrug of their shoulders, but prior to me speaking they were slumped over, leaned against the wall and staring at the numbers light up! This blog goes hand in hand with the “waking people up” from their everyday lives…you have to wake them up to you by stirring some emotion in them. I do this all the time in the elevator and after I initiate a conversation, I actually see people (both men and women–because as my good friend DW says-talk to everyone) “wake up”. It might be the widening of their eyes, or a spontaneous smile or a shrug of their shoulders, but prior to me speaking they were slumped over, leaned against the wall and staring at the numbers light up!

]]> By: dreamboy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19936 dreamboy Sun, 23 Nov 2008 17:23:37 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19936 Dealing with a lady co worker of different culture is also a challenging situation. Sometimes our job become so boring and you need to do something that will prevent you from falling asleep during work hours. I found from this newly hired employee that sometimes she, herself is so bored of what we are doing in our work. She's cute but looks like a little bit edgy at first impression. I knew she's married but it still a great challenge for me to approach her. It takes sometime before we really feel comfortable talking to each other. One funny idea which I think we become good acquaintace to each other was when I asked her to play the Letters of the Alphabet as our time killing during work hours. Our first game was to give Name of Fruits that will start from Letter A-Z. Threre were times that I made her laugh when I used the letter "C" for all the canned fruits I knew and so on and so forth. The next time we felt bored about our work she will asked me to play the same game I made which I think made our days cool and funny. Dealing with a lady co worker of different culture is also a challenging situation. Sometimes our job become so boring and you need to do something that will prevent you from falling asleep during work hours.

I found from this newly hired employee that sometimes she, herself is so bored of what we are doing in our work. She’s cute but looks like a little bit edgy at first impression. I knew she’s married but it still a great challenge for me to approach her. It takes sometime before we really feel comfortable talking to each other.

One funny idea which I think we become good acquaintace to each other was when I asked her to play the Letters of the Alphabet as our time killing during work hours. Our first game was to give Name of Fruits that will start from Letter A-Z. Threre were times that I made her laugh when I used the letter “C” for all the canned fruits I knew and so on and so forth.

The next time we felt bored about our work she will asked me to play the same game I made which I think made our days cool and funny.

]]> By: Jessica http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19932 Jessica Sun, 23 Nov 2008 14:38:12 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19932 Great blog today! I always thought it has to be ONLY positive emotions... I guess I was wrong... Great blog today! I always thought it has to be ONLY positive emotions… I guess I was wrong…

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19929 K Sun, 23 Nov 2008 09:45:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19929 My favorite question at a vending machines when the person in front of me has not yet made their choice is to ask "Sugar or salt?" It works like a champ - even in airports and other very public places full of strangers. If I'm the one at the machine first, I may ask the person behind me and they nearly always reply. If you're not outgoing, it's one of the easiest things to do to warm up for a round of this game. A lot of women won't initiate but we usually respond - FYI. My favorite question at a vending machines when the person in front of me has not yet made their choice is to ask “Sugar or salt?” It works like a champ – even in airports and other very public places full of strangers. If I’m the one at the machine first, I may ask the person behind me and they nearly always reply. If you’re not outgoing, it’s one of the easiest things to do to warm up for a round of this game. A lot of women won’t initiate but we usually respond – FYI.

]]> By: Jordan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/love-me-or-hate-me/1101/#comment-19926 Jordan Sun, 23 Nov 2008 07:17:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1101#comment-19926 Hey I like this, yes I am being hated more than loved though. I work from home and have become a bit unsocial, so sometimes people bother me. If a guy asked me "What do you like, and what don’t you like, Ms. Indecisive?" I would be like WTF? well, if I was attracted to the person asking me that question maybe not!! ultimately it all comes down to the basics :) Hey I like this, yes I am being hated more than loved though. I work from home and have become a bit unsocial, so sometimes people bother me. If a guy asked me “What do you like, and what don’t you like, Ms. Indecisive?” I would be like WTF? well, if I was attracted to the person asking me that question maybe not!! ultimately it all comes down to the basics :)

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