Love Letters
January 11, 2008 
102 Comments
Love Letters
By David Wygant
Happy Friday to all of you!!
First I want to thank everyone for an amazing week of blogging. All of your posts have been fantastic to read.
The battle we had over money and women the other day was a lot of fun, and there was a lot of truth told about some women and men in our culture. There are a ton of men and women who are attracted to relationships built on money and convenience.
To see this, you need look no further than certain postings on Craigs List. Take a look at it one day . . . you will see some amazing eye-opening posts.
Today I want to send a message to all of you who write me for advice. I enjoy reading all of your emails, but I want to encourage each of you who write me personally for free advice to start posting your questions on the blog!!
Your questions are fantastic. If you posted them on the blog, everyone would benefit not only from getting to read my answers, but also from the open discussions that would develop from them.
If you desire to be coached by me, then by all means email me right away and I will give you my undivided attention. Coaching and helping everyone is my passion.
To check out my coaching click here.
For those of you who do not have the financial means to work with me one-on-one through one of my many coaching programs, however, I encourage you to join our community and post those great questions on the blog so everyone can read them, read my advice and read the advice given by members of the community.
Now there are some people who feel the need, particularly after one of my Yahoo articles is posted, to send me emails venting their personal frustration and attacking me for my advice. To all of you who send these kind of emails, I’d like you to look in the mirror and answer one question: Are you really angry at me . . . or are you really frustrated with your own dating life?
Personal attacks on me have no effect on me at all. When I read some of these nasty emails, I actually feel sorry for the people who write them.
Anyone who gets angry about an article posted on Yahoo has some serious issues with themselves. I am not your enemy, and if you opened your eyes and were honest with yourself you would actually move forward in life and learn new things.
So today I will be posting some of the “love letters” I’ve received from these frustrated people. Let’s open our minds and help out these lost souls. Let’s help them realize that they need to look in the mirror and take full responsibility for their lives.
So check back all throughout the day as I will be putting up some interesting posts in the comments section.
As for the other big thing this weekend . . . Here are a few predictions from yours truly:
Patriots 38 Jaguars 17
C’mon . . .Two weeks for Brady and Belichick to prepare? The only playoff game they lost together was last year’s championship.
Colts 31 Chargers 17
Norv Turner . . . Need I say more?
Giants 27 Cowboys 23
Jessica Simpson has Tony Romo’s balls in her hands. Plus, who knows how Terrell Owens is going to hold up.
Packers 31 Seahawks 23
Seattle is not a very consistent team.
See, not only do I provide you dating advice you can take to the bank . . . but I also give you football picks you can take to your bookie! 
Todays video is for all the lost souls that instead of getting angry with me, they can learn the art of creating chemistry with women.
As promised.
This came in last night from a guy who decided to voice his love for me.
He also signed it with his name and number.
Did he expect me to call him:)
Can we help this man find some inner peace?
David, David
D
Maybe you should take him out shopping for some gay cowboy clothes…contribute to the “crisis in masculinity”
Zachary is on the rampage!!!
David:
Did you mean to reply to this?, because there was no message in response.
In any event, this was in response to the Yahoo! homepage article discussing how to start a conversation.
If you do bother to reply, try to intelligently address the points I make: 1) we don
J
I will save the gay cowboy clothes for you!!!
Ack! There is so much here that screams help.
Saw the Yahoo article when I signed out last night, and thought I’d take a look. It amazes me how comfortable people are at attacking one another from behind a monitor.
As for Zack here, I almost don’t know where to start. Just let me say that female single parents can raise boys who end up being just fine and perfectly masculine.
“What
I know he is not really dialed into what it takes to understand women.
And he threatens to lose Yahoo as a home page….like Yahoo cares.
To be honest…
I don’t know why he cares about the opinion of one person, in particular David. There is no point to his rampage.
I am confused by Zachary’s letter to you …
At first I thought he was talking about somebody else, because the way he describes what you teach sounds nothing like anything I’ve ever read that you’ve written . . .
The kind of man he claims you encourage men to be seems completely contradictory to the way you actually espouse that men should behave with women.
You tell men over and over again that to be attractive to women they must (1) be themselves & use their own personality; and (2) be CONFIDENT, powerful men. How exactly is that advice seeking to de-testicle-ize men??
Ok, I’m in one of those can’t keep my yap shut moods today…
Zack sounds just like every other whiney he-man woman hater.
I’m sorry Spanky, I gotta live my own life…
I’m sure all the folks at Yahoo are scrambling to get rid of all the advice and tawdry products.
He is really frustrated and it shows.
You are 100% correct.
I get a lot of these from men that are angry and instead of reaching out they get pissed even more about their lives.
Heres another one
You teach people the wrong things to say to a woman.
Every time I read your advise columns on Yahoo I want
to barf. When I think about some poor shlep in a
Starbucks trying to approach some girl he doesn’ t
know thus initiating the embarrassing /humiliating
following the stalking process. I don t know where you
learned all this bull, but I assume your just in it
for the dough-re-me.
This guy has the same issues.
I bet Zack and him never even tried to put my advice into action….they just live in fear and refuse to try anything that is out of their comfort zones.
Lauren
Thanks…you are right on in your comment.
Tell me what you think about men when they approach.
J
Do i sense some flirting going on here:)
D
Your not my type:)
And you are not mine either:)
Since when has talking about coffee while in line at the coffee shop constituted stalking?
Anyone who could say this has no damn clue what stalking is…
Thanks David
Well, I can only speak for myself . . . but I can say that I am absolutely most attracted to men who are confident and approach me as themselves (not with a pickup line or a routine).
I can’t tell you how many times I have wished that a cute guy standing near me in line at Starbucks would just say ANYTHING . . . As Bertie said, I would love for a man at a coffee house to talk to me about coffee!
Lauren
How do you take your coffee?
I am laughing my ass off right now! You are one of the few people in this industry who teach people to be natural and confident. What is wrong with this guy Zach and that other guy?!
I’m a 27 year-old sexy single woman living in LA, and everything you teach works on me. Zach, you described the exact type of man you are: you are weak, and probably the type of guy if the wrong number calls you you’d call it back to see if you missed a call.
Zach & the other unkown idiot -
I used to be narrow-minded just like you until I found the community. First I studied with Mystery, then David D., and now David W. I was just like you – pissed off and angry – until I realized it was me that was the problem.
Dude – You are going to write Yahoo and tell them that you are going to lose them as a homepage?! One of the biggest companies in the world is going to care if Zachary goes away? What the fuck? Look in the mirror! Take it from a formerly angry person like yourself, take a look at yourself. You’ll be a much happier person – I am!
As an African American living in the South, I’ve had every excuse to be angry. I grew up poor, black and in an area that swears by the confederate flag and to this day I still have white men glare at me in certain parts of my town.
I have every reason to be angry at the world, but I chose to accept and create my own fate. I’ve gone from growing up poor to living in the most expensive part of my town. I’ve fought long odds and worked really hard at creating a magnificent life for myself and my children.
David, I’ve been reading you for months. I have your Mastery Series program. Not only has it helped me be more successful with women, but also more successful in business.
We live in a free society. People can voice opinions. But this guy Zach really has some deep-rooted issues! Your sexual frustration Zach is worn on your sleeve. Try growing up poor and black in the 1950′s in the South and you’ll learn what real life hardships are about.
You can fix your attitude with women by embracing David’s messaging. That’s easy. You can’t change the way society looks at color and race. ‘
By the way, I agree with you David. Patriots will ROMP!
Thank you for asking J
See, that’s not asking for too much, is it?
(In case you ever see me at Starbucks, I’ll be the one ordering a triple venti nonfat, no foam, sugar free caramel latte
)
Bertie –
You are right …
Until I read the unknown author’s letter, I had NO idea that when I walked over to a guy at my gym and asked him if he was finished with the leg press machine that I had “initiated the stalking process” – Perhaps I should feel grateful that he didn’t call the police and have me arrested!
David, where do these people come from?
David: A Wagon? DUDE!
Universal Truth: You can’t love or hate something about someone else unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.
Example: People who are insincere, arrogant and condescending bug the crap out of me. Sure, that kind of behavior is annoying to almost everyone, but it REALLY bothers me. The reason it bothers me so much is because sometimes I act like that, and the only time I do so is when I feel inadequate. When I’m insecure and vulnerable, I sometimes cope by acting superior and trying to intimidate people intellectually.
Likewise, when we are overly critical, it reflects a lack of self-confidence.
When we act angry, it’s because we feel powerless, hurt and/or afraid.
David is 100% on-target when he says that these letters are from people who may benefit from understanding and compassion. Self-awareness takes strength and courage. It helps when we have supportive and encouraging people around us, like the positive spirit of the people who frequently post on this site.
Lauren
Fat free, sugar free, and three times the caffeine…now we are talking. That should keep you going all day.
You should spice it up…an extra hot, triple tall, nonfat, sugar free carmel macchiato.
J –
Thanks for the suggestion . . . I’m always looking for ways to spice things up
Does anyone else see the irony in Zack’s post?
He demands that David respond to his assertion that “we don
Well, Zachary needs a time out. He sounds to me as if he just might suffer from tongue lashing trauma.
I am sure you, David, are not the only one he trashes, or attempts to degrade in order to make himself feel like “a better man.” Something is leeching onto him from days gone by in my thoughts of how he lashes out like a pissed off venomous snake.
This man has serious issues with the way he fails to think before he speaks. I see someone who just might have taken one to many psychology courses, and needs a shrink now because of that.
Lauren;
The cute guys at Starbucks?? Sweety! Stop wishing and get out your “french roast” charm and talk to them…
I have someone who wrote a song for me called “Wishin” if fact I think I have it on myspace profile.
I found it very endearing, but at the same time funny…”wishin”
Now, maybe he is “wishin,” but I am more than a wisher. I can’t live on a wish..I have to make a dream come true!
If you see someone you are attracted to, talk to THEM. Plenty of props in Starbucks to choose from. Good luck…Go for it!!!
Wow, Zach Zach two Zachs in one…blog! LOL
I bet these guys couldn’t find their ass with both hands honestly.
I think I a person trashes another, chances are they are jealous, insecure and more than likely want more of the pizazz you have that they know is lacking in their lives.
Sad, sad, sad.
When will people realize this:
You are who you make yourself to be. If you are a positive person then chances are…more positive productive things are in your present as well as your future.
FORGET THE PAST! I hate hearing people say, “But you don’t know what happened to me on this date 5 years ago…or blah blah blah. AND???? You can’t blame your past for the here and now. That is a very lame crutch…and if your crutch is lame, you haven’t a leg to stand on…unless you are well endowed as a man..LOL and ladies well hmmm??
You have to let that past go and get a bit of tunnel vision as you move forward….slowly letting the periphral vision take course until you see all that is so wonderful around you as well as visions of the future possibilities to come.
C’mon leap ahead 5 years and a day and come into the presence of THIS moment in time because it is ready to be your past in a second. Don’t you want something positive to “dwell” upon if thats your bag? I have a little saying….”To dwell is hell!”
Dwell should have one L…because it is a dirty word that gives you a “Zachatude.”
Joan:
U have summarised everything i wanted to say.
Be4 i joined DW community, i thought i was quite knowledgeable about dating issues. The more i read his posts & other peoples reactions, the more i realised how little i understood the world of dating. But to my credit, i was at least intelligent enough to join the
I agree w/ J. I
Linda,
Yeah that’s hardly stalking. Long story short, during some ugly winter days just prior to a final agreement I was stalked. It was scary. It was not someone talking to me in public. To suggest that a guy saying hey what are you ordering is stalking behavior dismisses actual stalking as trivial stuff a person should be able to handle.
Hey David…
At least people named “Zack” are reading your articles, even if his rant makes him appear somewhat homo-phobic.
God Bless PR that works my brother!
Wow. Zackery is really bitter. I would tell him that it’s not 1954. I, personally, am not interested in his chauvinistic, misguided, and obviously ancient view on what women want.
Personally, I would love to meet someone you have coached, David. It’s refreshing to find a man who is truly interested in what makes women tick. I get really tired of being picked up on by men who either want me to take care of them like June Cleaver or who are more interested in telling me how much they make and what kind of car they drive.
I would also venture to guess that he is getting what he seeks – shallow women who have no mind of their own and don’t mind being treated like a possession and not a person.
Jay
Can not agree with you more!!
Any press is good press.
Shannon
There are all types out there in the world,
Bitter and angry and not ones that i tend to want to be around.
Lou
As always you speak from your heart and share your mind with all of us.
Thanks
To All
This guy emailed me again today our fiiend Zack and he demands that I answer him.
What is all that all about?
Very strange person indeed.
I actually think he called my office line as well.
Do i have a male version of the bunny boiler?
For those of you who do not recall that post.
http://blog.davidwygant.com/bunny-boiling/
Or this video on bunny boliers
He needs help…..
Zak, Zak you’re a hack! Clearly this guy 1) has no money & is bitter about. it He brought $ up several times not only regarding women & dating but pertaining to David making money off of guys. 2) Probably has Napoleon Complex. I just know he’s super short & probably works out a lot to compensate. He thinks that men just need to be manly & women will fall for them. He thinks by being “physically, sociallly & sexually fit” women will flock to him. Yes these are important traits but there is much more than that needed to keep attraction: manners, intelligence, conversation, character, humor, similar interests, etc. My guess is he’s on steroids & is having Roid Rage! Zak directs his anger at David because David helps men gain confidence, skills & the ability to approach, converse with, get to know & date women. Poor baby Zak doesn’t like this because clearly he must have a hard time meeting women. The truth is when David helps transform his clients, they dip into Zak’s dating pool. He was already having a hard enough time & really can’t handle anymore competition. Sorry Zak, but you need this attack! Zak, didn’t your mom teach you, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”???? I’m sure she’d be very proud of her son. Can’t we all just get along?
Officer Naughty
As always a sexy woman has seen it all.
You know that Zack has never met Mr Vroom Vroom.
And no woman has never named Mr Vroom Vroom after him.
Anger is ugly…….and moms are always right,
As for my Dad being proud of me. That never happened he passed a long time ago and even when he was around he was not around,
So i learned at an early age that having a father role model is important and you need to find it eleswhere.
But enough of Zak.
How naughty are you today today?
This is why Dallas will lose.
Its the Jessica Simpson Curse….she is fucking the game right out of Romo:)
rry Bradshaw is bemused by Tony Romo — especially how, when, where, and with whom Romo chooses to spend his free time.
Witten on The Herd
Pro Bowl tight end Jason Witten said Tony Romo didn’t think his trip to Mexico with Jessica Simpson would become such a big deal. Witten also said T.O. looks good for Sunday’s playoff game. Listen Insider
Its just one Theory
What about wagon? Even David understood, and only after a few days!! It was the wrong car, A wagon! Now David is trying to help others not make the same mistake. Go after what you really want, Thats what David is teaching! Maybe Zack is really Mystery, and has a crush on David and is Negging him trying to win his attention.
Just a thought!
Fun weekend of Football for sure…. I will take the points!
Jim
A conspriracy theory here….i like that.
Lay off the poor sports wagon….Sports
I need the Cowboys to win. I have a Vegas bet for them to win the Superbowl. Anything can happen.
What did you bet 10 dollars:)
You need a jacket maybe if you win you can buy one
Hey…it’s 9 to 1 odds. I make $800 if they win.
No point in buying a jacket if you have no where to wear it.
Pretty Naughty! Let’s play MadLibs! You insert either a noun, adjective, adverb, verb, etc. where it is indicated by ( ).
“Hope Floats”
Hope was feeling kind of (adjective) today. She was laying in her (noun) thinking about last night. Hope went out (verb-ing) with her (adjective), special friend (male proper noun). They had a lot of (noun) & stayed up late. He had his (noun) with her all night. She (adverb) (verb -ed) his (noun) just the way he liked it. In fact they had (noun) two times in a row. It was ridiculously (adjective)!!! Mr. Vroom (noise a sex toy makes) paid a (adjective) visit the 2nd time around. Hope’s (plural female body part) are still trembling & her (female body part) is still pulsating. She (adverb)wants his (adjective) (male body part) inside or against her NOW!
GO Chargers!!!! GO Giants!!! Seattle over Green Bay. Obviously the Jags have no chance.
Since my Detroit Lions aren’t in the mix (unbelievably!
), I have to tell you that I am hoping for the Packers and the Giants to both be winners . . . because, if I’m not mistaken, I believe that could mean a matchup between them at Lambeau … THAT would be an awesome game!!!
David:
I actually think that Tony will perfom better. Jessica is a blessing to his life. The One week Mexico get-away was a good thing for both of them. He is now fresher & more energized! He definately knows that the papers will blame Jessica Simpson in case he doesnt deliver. That extra pressure will act as a stimulant.
Hey Naughty! Chargers have always broken my heart! But go Chargers!
Hey David ! Nice Wagon!
Good evening everyone,
Nice to see the usual gang of suspects rounded up here this evening.
This particular blog was one I wanted to respond to because of a similar experience I had in terms of characteristics. When I was in high school, I was aloof, isolated and socially awkward. I felt a lot of jealousy and hatred for my peers, who seemed to have everything I wanted, and then some. My rage consumed me, and instead of being a nice person, I underwent a metamorphisis and became someone who lashed out at everyone. All this did was earn me a one way ticket to the prinicpal’s office on multiple occasions, and many afternoons enjoying the hospitality of my school. And my reputation was cemented as an antagonistic jackass.
In college, I had a social breakdown and felt like my universe was slowly dying, the colors removed one by one. Please apologize for the raw, emotional description I am giving, but so many of my afternoons ended with self-mutilation, and me staring at the deep gashes on my wrist. Finally, I hit rock bottom, and for three hours, I cried all my tears until I couldn’t go on. I was even amazed that I could hide this for so long. I finally came clean, and I entered into counseling which for ten years, has helped me get my life on track. I still face an uncertain future as we all do, but I know to take one day as it comes. Most of all, I am OK..and others are too.
Zachary’s comment/verbal attack really tells me that he is not in touch with reality. David is right when he says that personal attacks don’t bother him, but rather they cause him to feel bad for the person. Sadly, one of the things I have learned is that some people don’t want to be saved. Or they are happy living in denial, pretending everything is OK when it really is not.
Unfortunately, sometimes people have to hit skid row and rock bottom before they realize there is a problem. We’ve seen this with addicts: whether they are addicted to drugs and alcohol, they are consumed until something traumatic happens-loss of a loved one, a job, friends…and the enablers are content to let them spiral downward. They need to OWN IT. They need to admit there’s a problem and something is not working. And until they do, there isn’t anything that can be done about that. You can’t allow yourself to fall into the “It’s my family, I can’t turn my back on them” routine. Because if you do, you’ll be brought down along with everyone else.
It took me a very long time to learn that other people are OK and I am OK too. We see how the media operates, how they like to manipulate us. One of my friends had a great insight: “You’re born an original. Don’t die a copy!”
What Zachary has to do, and who knows if he will do it, is OWN HIMSELF. He has to OWN his faults and accept that. The only perfect people are dead people, because they have no problems. If anyone tells you that they have the perfect job/boyfriend/girlfriend, do not for one second believe it. If you do, then there’s some land in Bronx County I can sell you.
I am comfortable with who I am. I accept that I will never be Mr. GQ. I don’t care if a woman laughs because my jeans aren’t Lucky. (Is that even a brand of jeans for guys? Who knows). What do I own? Well, I OWN my stutter. For everything negative it has brought me, it’s brought me RESILIENCE. It’s brought me COMPASSION FOR OTHERS. I OWN that. I OWN my personality. I OWN my identity. I am an original. I am genuine, sincere, and dedicated. And to be chapter leader for the Long Island chapter of the National Stuttering Association, I OWN my ability to stand up and be counted, and say “I’ll be there” for any need.
LeBron posted a comment that we all have opinions. But with giving an opinion also comes the power to listen to others, even if we do not agree with what they are saying. Sad as this may be, there are many people who still subscribe to thinking that was and is painfully outdated. We have the power to not to listen to that. I mean, take my mom…god bless her and I love her, but she still insists a woman’s place is at home, while the man makes the bread. EXCUSE ME? This is the year 2008. There are many women executives, even career women who have single kids of their own. I suppose next thing she’ll tell me women can’t wear pantsuits. Although a woman in a pantsuit and heels is sexual dynamite indeed!
One of the articles I wrote is being published in the newsletter for the National Stuttering Association. It’s called “A is for Attitude,” and it talks about why attitude is everything in life. I don’t know what my future holds for me. But what I do know is I will face it positive and with a smile.
Thank you for listening, and I hope to read some comments about my posting. And by the way, GO JAGUARS!!!!
-SK.
Hi David, and good evening,
I sent you an email regarding a time for us to chat on the phone next week, since we were not able to get together this week. I suggested this coming Tuesday at 7 p.m. EST, 4 p.m. PST. I look forward to that idea you wanted to run by me, and other things you’d like to discuss.
Respectfully yours,
Steven Kaufman
Lou: I agree Tony will probably perform better after his time away with a beautiful woman to a beautiful place. Isn’t everyone happier when they go back to work after a nice get-away? He has to prove himself now more than ever in order to shut everyone up. Jessica probably has/had nothing to do with his performance on the field. We need to give him a little more credit than that. She had been to other games before the Cowboy’s loss to the Eagles; it just wasn’t publicized. I personally want the Giants to win so I hope he plays poorly but I don’t think it’s fair to blame Jess.
Jim: I know what you mean about the Chargers. I really HOPE they can pull it off. Let’s just HOPE that Eli is having a bad day. I’m off to SD to watch the game with all my girls. Have a great weekend!
David: I can think of a sport or two we could do in the wagon! HA!
Damm
Naughty you are really good at Mad Libs.
That was one of my favorite ways to pass the time away at camp…Mad LIbs.
Not that version but would enjoy playing with you again.
And of course we can bring the friend back in play…..its all about making the female tremble with joy.
By the way
My new sex audio products will be out in a week or 2 so everyone can make their babes tremble with pleasure.
Steven; Dont buy a wagon!
Hey Naughty! I’m not down on Wagons! They are for moms and hot mommies. But not David? WTF was he thinking? Go Chargers!
David: FYI It might take me a good month or two to work through it with you.
Jim
what do you drive?
i am now curious
David: wagon!
Jim
You are busting me and you drive a damm wagon:)
Steven K,
Your insight and strength of character are phenomenal. Thank you for sharing yourself.
XO ~ T
Great blog today, as always!
I don’t know who is dring what, but I am walking everywhere!
Zackie seems a little bitter. Maybe this explains why? http://tinyurl.com/32cakk
I use “My Yahoo” as a home page and the interesting thing is that it can be customized it to display the content that each individual prefers to see. If there are items I don’t like or if I get tired of a particular subject I navigate away (it is, after all, the WORLD WIDE WEB) or change the preferences. So, Zackie, yahoo may be your home page but you ARE allowed to go elsewhere on the web. Zackie, thanks for the heads up on you leaving Yahoo – I will bet the kids’ college funds on yahoo puts…..or maybe not.
Needless to say (but will anyway) I will continue to read David W.’s blog (try to follow said strategies) and will not be searching out Zackie’s “expert” advice.
This is the email i sent Zaky
Subject: Re: Why, in our society, is it all about adapting men to women?
You were posted today on my blog.
Thanks for inspiring me.
http://www.davidwygant.com
David and His Staff
This is what he sent me back this afternoon
You:
Great; I stand fully behind everything I
We try to help people……..Anyone who can send me an email but is afraid to be a part of an open forum is very close minded.
You know he is reading this right now…….
You learn the most in life from others. Everyday I learn something new and exciting!!
I don’t know David, perhaps one of the earlier posts was right … maybe all this unnecessary hostility from Zack IS a manifestation of his repressed sexual attraction to you …
Also, why is he so hell bent on having you answer him privately when he claims that you have nothing of value to offer him in terms of advice?!
… Of course, what do I know? I am, as Zack states, just one of your “biased adherents.”
I kinda nodded off with Zachary. He’s to angry to help at this point.
However, this gave me well pause…
“David and His Staff”
I’ll be back after I’ve washed my mind in some clorox…
David: No I dont drive a wagon! But I am bustin on you! You like it! Zack didn’t bust you on about your wagon purchase did he? Regardless, i’m sure you get more action than him, he’s jealous. Heck i’m jealous!
Uh, I’m probably gonna get a raft of shit from the community for “saying” this, but I’m going to anyway….
I don’t agree with email response David sent back to Zach. I’m sorry, it came off to me as “cool” and retalitory.
OK, I’m ducking and getting ready for the verbal darts bound to come my way!!!
Bria
Bria Dear
I happen to agree with you.
He should not have responded at all. It’s like putting lighter fluid on a fire.
J
Well, David was put into a precarious position. He was damned if he did and damned if he didn’t. That’s the way it is with people like Zach. But, if he was going to respond, I was hoping that he would express some of the compassion and understanding, that he conveyed to us here, in his response to Zach. Just because you can retaliate and the person may deserve it, doesn’t always mean you should. That’s just my philosophy.
Thanks for your support, J.
Bria
Bria
Zak who? Why are we wasting our breath on this guy? I’d rather do some heavy breathing on someone’s neck
So big-real-man-zack says talking to a woman at Starbucks is stalking, I wonder what he classifies emailing a complete stranger 4 or 5 times without response as? Umm hello pot, this is the kettle…
As for his ‘biased adherents’ comment; this is not a cult whereby we follow whatever our magnificent leader David Wygant commands us to do. From even the most casual of observations its pretty clear we are all free minded independent individuals here. I know I for one do not subscribe to a sheep mentality. The fact is Zack, that what David teaches strikes a chord amongst people of intelligence that want something more from life than the crap you obviously endure in your life. You seem a very disturbed individual, if David’s advice bothers you so much, then walk away from it! Don’t get frustrated because your target for the day couldn’t care less about your criticisms.
Bria Dear
Ye David probably could have handled it better, but just imagine how many of these jokers would be bothering him everyday. My guess is he just had enough of them, who wouldn’t. But it makes for an interesting blog no? makes you glad your not all that bad afterall
David
If ever there was a cry for help! for god sakes man send this guy some products stat!
Actually I liked the response from David to Zach. He could have played it safe, think “oh no, no way I could risk to lose a potential customer”… etc.
Instead David stood his ground about his beliefs.
BTW, when Dallas loses, and Tony dumps Jessica, I’ll give her some sexual healing… just because I’m nice and concerned about people!
Officer Naughty
Your all talk.
Good evening Theresa,
Thank you so much for your sweet comments. Believe me when I say that I don’t tell my life story to just anyone. I think for anyone who understands the challenges life presents us, the resilience it takes to thrive when society is telling you that you can’t, my story is for them.
You’re another reason that once again, Midwest girls rock.
-SK.
Hello Bria Dear and good evening to you,
Much embarrassed as I am to unfortunately guess the wrong state you were in (my fault lol), but it is so cool that you are now in the commonwealth of Pennsylvania. I know York very well, as my brother graduated college from there. It’s a suburb of Baltimore lol….if this place is still there, I want you to look up the Around the Clock Diner, if that’s the place I am thinking of. I seem to remember it was near a sign for I-83 toward Baltimore. I like going there to visit, and when I’m in town, I make sure my radio is set to Mix 106.5 all the time. I also had an experiene of getting kicked by a cow there, apparently cows do not like to be petted.
-SK.
Hello Lauren, and good evening to you,
Welcome to Wygant Nation…this is David’s world, and we’re just studying and living in it! And while sadly the Lions may not be in the playoffs, this means now the petitions to fire Matt Millen can start to be re-circulated. Thank God for Hockeytown!
-SK.
Hello David and good evening,
I officially created the unofficial slogan for this blog….”Welcome to Wygant Nation…this is David’s world, and we’re just studying and living in it.” Haha.
-SK.
Ah Steven … You must be new to the Lions’ neighborhood if you think that anything other than nuclear war could blow Millen out of town. While we Motor City residents almost believed that the playoffs were a possibility, let’s just say we are used to coping with football disappointment
But yes, yes, yes … Motown will forever be Hockeytown! Should you become inspired to start recirculating that “give Millen the boot” petition, you can count on me to be your first signer
J: Why don’t you ask David if I’m all talk!
I have a few thoughts to share here before i go to bed. I have to say having my new laptop in bed is quite relaxing…I love it!
Ok that wasn’t included in the thoughts I was referring to, but oh well
David;
I was just reading over these letters, then I went and read every single thing written that introduces you and how you came to do what it is you do.
I have to believe that people are shooting off at the mouth before ever investigating further in depth what and who you are, as well as your “methods” of teaching.
It is real, in the now, at this moment no scamming or bullshitting approach techniques taught, but more then that…what I feel anyway…Is that you help bring the person out of hiding.
In everybody there is a flirt; a genuine personality that is unique to them and them only.
This is where I see you coming in and gently pulling this out of a person with a stealthy helping of honesty where their weaknesses and strengths lye.
Hmmmmmmm…what a concept. Now I think it should be mandatory to read a piece of all I just read…then “Click here to read more,” taking one into the content of the Yahoo article.
Although that to me sounds like a good idea…people who are unhappy with their lives and situations, who are comfortable being the 24/7 grinch trying to rain on any parade they can find….well….they aren’t worth the worrying about until just like a drug addict or a sex addict an alcoholic??? Whatever the case..you have to recognize, admit and desire help for what you have just realized you are.
I wish the best for all who are negative in this life, because you need all the well wishes you can get…not that they will make a bit of difference in your lives until YOU desire to change for happiness sake.
Well, Kima Boardwalk “today!” I am excited….very fun place with lotsa stuff to do and plenty of people doing it
Sooooooooo…Good night
Sighhhhhhhhhhh I am ready for beddy;)
J
Ask me if she is all talk…..go ahead……I dare you to ask and you know me,….I will tell you what you want to know,
Ok,
I had to way-in here. Just a squirt to leave my mark.
I know less about football than women, but, this guy Zachary reminds of a rabid dog I had to shoot last year!
Steven K.
Great posting as usual moreso from a personal angle.
D
I wish you would tell me what you know more often:)
I won’t back down from your dare.
David: While you’re at it why don’t you tell him everything I know too!
What were you doing up at 4:30 am beside sending me voice memos & posting blogs?
Lou: When I’m around things usually stay up on their own!
I’m off to San Diego…GO CHARGERS!!!!
david, was this address to me: lol
“For those of you who do not have the financial means to work with me one-on-one through one of my many coaching programs, however, I encourage you to join our community and post those great questions on the blog so everyone can read them, read my advice and read the advice given by members of the community.”
i’m joking david. lol
anyways, sound like this zackery bloke, is quite bitter and alone, i used to be like him, wasting my energy and getting angry over thing, that i cant control or want to control.
The funny things is, thats he thinks you (david) is some kind of PUA, teach “just men” how to get laid… come on. what david teaches can be used for more then just dating, it’s good in every walk of your social life. What zackery here doesnt understand, it’s all david is teaching us here is how to be geniune and natural, and ourself…. whichs help in every walks of life, not just dating.
Joan:
” I have to believe that people are shooting off at the mouth before ever investigating further in depth what and who you are, as well as your
Officer Naughty
David never responded to my email inquiry, but instead decided to play on his blog.
It’s Official…you’re all talk.
J –
I’m liking you. You’re fun and quite the “character”. LOL.
Bria
…love letters, stalkers, starbuck’s, triple/whatever avanti’s….man is upset, but, he’ll be alright…….
J: we’ll call you tomorrow or tuesday night!
Wow. For not having a lot of time to ‘waste’ on this, Zackypoo sure spent a lot of time on it.
Steven K –
And I accidentally passed by your post responding to me. Otherwise, I would have done so long before now. LOL.
Yes, York College is still alive and well. That’s quite the party school, so I hear. LOL.
I have heard of Around the Clock Diner, but I’ve never been there. I haven’t been down to York in while. But, I’ll be due to head down there soon, so I’ll look for the sign for it. Small world that your brother went to that school. LOL.
That’s OK about not guessing my state correctly. No big deal. Pennsylvania is not the hippest state in the union, but it has its pluses. When I came back to PA from Los Angeles, I had just endured the friggin’ riots. Out there, the local evening news was frequently populated by car chases and some alleged gang member shootin’ up something. I came back to PA and the lead story on the local evening news was high school football. That’s just so “all-american, apple pie” and all cuteness, you know? Gotta love it.
Bria