What is this man doing wrong.

He is what people call an ageist.

If an amazing woman who was 50 presented to him he would look at her and pass.

I have lived in LA and NYC my whole life and this type of man is not looking for real love he is looking for trophy love.

Real love cannot be ordered like a pizza pie.

I have worked with a ton of these type of men and everytime they meet a woman that always want to know her age.
I have seen it so many times they are all excited about a woman and the second they find out how old the woman is they run if its not the super young age that they want

Also think for a second and really read what he wrote.

It is all very superficial.

What i teach is how to connect deep and real with people and this is why i spent my time talking about this subject,

This is not real this is all based on looks and fantasy,

People like him use c list as there only hope because in day to day life the fantasy women that they crave ignore them everyday,

hope this clears it up

That’s not all that unusual since a lot of people contradict themselves including myself, although I have always made an effort not to since noticing the tendency in others and how much it irritated me. It can also muddle whatever useful larger message someone may have to communicate.

You’re recent blog on people thinking that something is too good to be true, compared to this blog about the Craig’s list love seeker is a case in point .

I realise that there are likely better ways to acheive his objective (even a subscription to “Dream marriage.com might stand a better chance of success), but the poor schmuck is doing the only thing he can think of to get the kind of life and woman he desires.

I don’t know that you’re being consistent with a lot of your other more positive material about pursuing the lind of life one desires, if you disparage the guy for taking the only course of action he can think of.

Of course the odds of him forming a successful long term relationship with a woman who is so much younger are not great; but is that any reason to not try? Moreover, can it be said with absolute certainty that such a relationship won’t work?

I don’t know if it’s helpful for you to deliver very inspirational messages about trying to obtain what you want out of life and living fully, blocking out monkey chatter and concerns about what others think on the one hand, and then deriding someone when they attempt to do that brcause it doesn’t fit with what “you” believe is acceptable or probable.

I suppose you could point out to us what you think such a person is doing wrong to acheive his objectives and why you believe that those objectives are unlikely: but you contradict and undermine a lot of what you have to say if you ridicule a person’s desires and disparage whatever attempts that person makes to achieve those desires. Desires which could merely be a longing for beauty and companionship in what may otherwise be a bleak and lonely existence.

Just a thought.

And I was once cool and now i say something that you twist around and I am no longer cool in your book?

A 60 year old man does not belong with a 22 year old woman….no maybe for a night but cmon long term its got almost zero shot at working.,

Did i say 15 years was too young?

Never said that those were your words not mine.

My example above was 60 and 22.

So you decided to twist my words and throw this back at me.

As for the so called business i missed from posting this cmon now……5000 dollars of business missed because you emailed people telling them i was no longer cool.

Is this high school?

Are you really 60 because you are acting like a kid here.

Read the blog.

Dont twist my words and feel free to post a comment again.

Let me tell you, I have had plenty of 20 something women hit on me and I’m 62, they can’t believe my age, I have to pull out my I.D.. My last three gfs were 15 years yonger than me.

I was thinking about buying your product but you can just shove it.

Or maybe you will man up and retract any advice that helps older guys land younger women.

I doubt it.

P.S.: you won’t have the nerve to print this, but that’s OK, I took a screen cap and sent it to friends who I have formerly told you were cool. You just lost about $5,000 in business. Karma’s a bitch.

A relationship to me is one where there’s respect,trust and communication.ALL Three.If one is missing, other two would also fall apart.

This is not going to be a relationship, but a business contract kinda thing. Sure, they may work towards it, but that work will be huge, huge and very huge !
Relationships should be easy, not add more and more pain to life.Ofcourse every relationship will have down times, but this sorta thing will never go up.

Hence, I agree with Bob !