Comments on: Lose Your Expectations http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-29068 Marina Sat, 27 Jun 2009 00:12:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-29068 Justine That is true but I can tell you when i comes to physical looks both from women and men there is a difference, how you are treated regardless of how much you are in the moment. I have tried both been a hot pieces of ass and not not so much. The difference it astounding, not to discourage anyone, but thats what I have seen. The only result I have seen as being on the other end of pretty scale..it that the people who treat you with respect are the ones that are real. In some ways it has been a blessing not get all the quick instant gratification from people you automatically got when you were prettier, and truly get much more in tune with the true nature of others. Don't get me wrong I am very comfortable in my own skin and have always been, at any point in my life...well a couple of detours sneaked in. As for expectations, generally I never had any as I never do anything expecting anything in return. I enjoy what I get from people in whatever form it is. This is really only possible unless you have a love and respect for yourself and understand you own happiness got nothing to do with what other do or don't do to you. You are content and happy with yourself and what comes along is just an added bonus. Justine

That is true but I can tell you when i comes to physical looks both from women and men there is a difference, how you are treated regardless of how much you are in the moment. I have tried both been a hot pieces of ass and not not so much. The difference it astounding, not to discourage anyone, but thats what I have seen. The only result I have seen as being on the other end of pretty scale..it that the people who treat you with respect are the ones that are real. In some ways it has been a blessing not get all the quick instant gratification from people you automatically got when you were prettier, and truly get much more in tune with the true nature of others.

Don’t get me wrong I am very comfortable in my own skin and have always been, at any point in my life…well a couple of detours sneaked in.

As for expectations, generally I never had any as I never do anything expecting anything in return. I enjoy what I get from people in whatever form it is. This is really only possible unless you have a love and respect for yourself and understand you own happiness got nothing to do with what other do or don’t do to you. You are content and happy with yourself and what comes along is just an added bonus.

]]> By: Justine http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-29032 Justine Fri, 26 Jun 2009 00:57:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-29032 This blog totally rings home for me. Pressure to do and be a certain way is unattractive and sets up unrealistic expectations. I think just being who you are in the fullest way every day in every way is the best approach in all aspects of life - in career, personal and spiritual. It took me a long time to realize that just being who I am is beautiful. When I try too hard, it is not natural and flowing. When I am what I am at that moment, then wonderful amazing things happen! This is so important for woman especially to realize this. Be present! This blog totally rings home for me. Pressure to do and be a certain way is unattractive and sets up unrealistic expectations. I think just being who you are in the fullest way every day in every way is the best approach in all aspects of life – in career, personal and spiritual. It took me a long time to realize that just being who I am is beautiful. When I try too hard, it is not natural and flowing. When I am what I am at that moment, then wonderful amazing things happen! This is so important for woman especially to realize this. Be present!

]]> By: Todd http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-29002 Todd Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:08:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-29002 Two words "Unconditional love". That is what this is all about. If you lose your expectations, especially when in a great relationship. you are more likely to keep it that way! Two words “Unconditional love”. That is what this is all about. If you lose your expectations, especially when in a great relationship. you are more likely to keep it that way!

]]> By: george http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28989 george Wed, 24 Jun 2009 14:57:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28989 Wow this is so weird, I just got done with the Eckhart Tolle book, "The Power of Now", which talks about being totally conscious in the present. Then I read this blog post. Spooky. Wow this is so weird, I just got done with the Eckhart Tolle book, “The Power of Now”, which talks about being totally conscious in the present. Then I read this blog post. Spooky.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28988 Sandra Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:07:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28988 I have a question and I know this is not blog related: Has anyone ever thought of this: If you can go back into the past and know what you do today what would you change? Or would you just leave it alone? I have a question and I know this is not blog related:

Has anyone ever thought of this: If you can go back into the past and know what you do today what would you change? Or would you just leave it alone?

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28987 Sandra Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:04:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28987 There are times in life that we expect things to happen and they don't seem to turn out the way we want it too. That is what I call daydreaming hoping it will come to reality. There are people who walk around with their heads stuck in the ground and are scared to face reality. Reality is what is going on now don't worry about what is back there (past) or what may take place in the future live for today. Deal with those things as they come about and treasure the moments that you were able to spend with these people for life is short and we can not turn back time. There are times in life that we expect things to happen and they don’t seem to turn out the way we want it too. That is what I call daydreaming hoping it will come to reality. There are people who walk around with their heads stuck in the ground and are scared to face reality. Reality is what is going on now don’t worry about what is back there (past) or what may take place in the future live for today. Deal with those things as they come about and treasure the moments that you were able to spend with these people for life is short and we can not turn back time.

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28979 Coach Kimberly Wed, 24 Jun 2009 06:22:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28979 Hey John--thanks for your honesty and question. A lot of people share your feelings in a big gathering like a party. Instead of being jealous of the guys having all of the fun...you be the one having it. It's like David said, try to forget about the monkey chatter in the head and live in the moment. What do you notice is happening around you? Who is in the room? What are people doing? Once you observe what is happening in the room...join it. Think of a kid playing in a playground. They don't think for a second when they want to join someone on the monkey bars...they just do it because it looks fun. That is the spirit to carry with you in social settings. Become playful and you will attract positive energy to you...! Hey John–thanks for your honesty and question. A lot of people share your feelings in a big gathering like a party. Instead of being jealous of the guys having all of the fun…you be the one having it. It’s like David said, try to forget about the monkey chatter in the head and live in the moment. What do you notice is happening around you? Who is in the room? What are people doing? Once you observe what is happening in the room…join it. Think of a kid playing in a playground. They don’t think for a second when they want to join someone on the monkey bars…they just do it because it looks fun. That is the spirit to carry with you in social settings. Become playful and you will attract positive energy to you…!

]]> By: The Waveman http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28978 The Waveman Wed, 24 Jun 2009 05:45:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28978 The best times in my life: parties, people that I've met, sexual encounters with women have come out of nowhere and when my expectations are down. It is so hard because I often daydream about my life and how I ideally want things to play out for me. When I do this I build so much into it that at the end it does not work that way for me. The most exciting moments in my life have been when I just went with the flow. The best times in my life: parties, people that I’ve met, sexual encounters with women have come out of nowhere and when my expectations are down. It is so hard because I often daydream about my life and how I ideally want things to play out for me. When I do this I build so much into it that at the end it does not work that way for me. The most exciting moments in my life have been when I just went with the flow.

]]> By: Fernando http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28976 Fernando Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:41:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28976 Amazing blog again, David!! Also, your last blogs "Whom do you blame," and "The answer lies within" were just a big aha-moment with me. I find it weird that whenever I find myself slipping and getting in my head, you put out a blog out that slaps me back into reality. Coincidence or something else :) I can testify too that when I go out anywhere without any expectations of what things should be like, things ALWAYS go much better for me than when I go out expecting to do certain things, or certain events to happen. I've found that wishful thinking gets me nowhere and being present usually does. Weird. Haha :D Thanks David! Yakub, wattup yo!!? Amazing blog again, David!!

Also, your last blogs “Whom do you blame,” and “The answer lies within” were just a big aha-moment with me. I find it weird that whenever I find myself slipping and getting in my head, you put out a blog out that slaps me back into reality. Coincidence or something else :)

I can testify too that when I go out anywhere without any expectations of what things should be like, things ALWAYS go much better for me than when I go out expecting to do certain things, or certain events to happen. I’ve found that wishful thinking gets me nowhere and being present usually does. Weird. Haha :D

Thanks David! Yakub, wattup yo!!?

]]> By: jimmi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/lose-your-expectations/1755/#comment-28973 jimmi Tue, 23 Jun 2009 23:10:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1755#comment-28973 howe- relax with the comments for god sake LOL howe- relax with the comments for god sake LOL

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