Logical Thinkers
July 29, 2009 
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Are you a logical thinker?
Are you a man or a woman who thinks out the whole conversation before you approach someone of the opposite sex?
Are you someone who actually thinks about dates before you go on them? Do you think about what is going to happen or what exactly you need to do to make things happen the way you want?
Do you actually believe that there is a manual you can read that will show you step-by-step what to say every time you approach someone?
Today’s podcast is a special treat for all of you. It’s a recording of some live coaching Coach Khiem and I did with a few guys at last weekend’s Bootcamp. In the podcast, I will get into the stubborn heads of all of you logical thinkers, and I’ll show you exactly how to speak with emotions.
I also debunk the myth of “structured communication” systems which, for some reason, a ton of pickup companies actually try to get men to believe will work on women. All of you ladies know, however, that such systems are a load of . . . you know what.
To listen to the podcast, click here:
Also, if you want to learn more about how to cultivate better communication skills so you can successfully approach and attract the opposite sex, then be sure to check out my Men’s “20 Ways To Meet Hotter Women” and my Women’s “Art Of Attracting Men” programs.
wow man that was really helpful!!!!
step by step confuse the hell out of me, i rather like being in the moment and ceasing the moment when the right opportunity arises.
any system is a way to limit a person i think i really don’t believe in any systems since all your materials are simple and easy to implement!
I gotta agree with some of the guys here to many system step by step program fucks up the head too much:)
hey the podcast doesn’t work for me anyone have loadign issues………..
never mind it works now.
The whole “Step By Step” programs feels like a rehearesd scripted conversation, kinda reminds me of pick up artist…i remember when i first discovered the pick up artist and all their tactics, it seemd way too much for someone compile into one interaction with women
Saw this tonight on Yahoo,
It lists the 50 best cities in the US for singles,
http://www.forbes.com/2009/07/24/best-cities-singles-lifestyle-singles-online-dating_slide_41.html
“It lists the 50 best cities in the US for singles”
Of course, Cincinnati is ranked right near the BOTTOM of the list. This city ranked even far below DETROIT!!.
There really are NO singles here (besides me, really, I am the ONLY single person I know.). I swear if I EVER get out of debt I am gonna find a way to move as far from here as possible.
Oh, by the way, great podcast. I’m one of those logical thinkers. Don’t know how to fix it, but at least I know it’s a problem.
I’m guilty of this :\. I’m working on it though!
A lot of men are trained to be logical thinkers… especially to advance their careers.
But when it comes to interpersonal interactions, we just have to get back in touch with our creative side… and that involves getting back in touch with our emotions and feelings.
Going hiking, doing any creative activities like dancing, painting, drawing, yoga… etc should help
Hey David,
I really enjoy your podcasts when it’s just you talking. I don’t know who these guys are that are always in the background, but they really should keep quiet. They really don’t add anything to the discussion. The guy at the beginning that kept interrupting you only to repeat what you had already said was really annoying.
Good podcast though (when you were talking).
Marty
I just told a woman that she committed the fallacy of inductive reasoning and she straight left the table. Oh well.