I’m hanging out with Will (who many of you will recognize from the videos in my Become A Master Communicator product) and he asked me a question which brought me back to some awful nights in my past.
He said, “I was hanging out with Khiem and his girlfriend, and there was this girl we ran into who was one of those loud girls. Everything she said was just over-the-top — amplified and loud. How do I deal with that? I mean, she was pretty. I thought she was hot, but how do I relate to her?”
Here was my answer: You don’t.
It’s so funny. As a man, we are so visual. We get so caught up with “the hot girl” that we tend to really never think about what it would like to hang out with her.
Can you imagine having a woman like the one Will met over for Thanksgiving dinner? She gets asked what she’d like on her plate, and she screams “drumstick!!” at the top of her lungs.
This person does not match who you are. This is not your personality style at all. This is not a person with whom you would get along.
So forget the fact that your penis is attracted to her, because that’s really all that is happening. Your eyes are attracted to her. Your penis felt some movement because it was attracted to her. That is all there is to it though.
It’s called penile attraction. Thank God it’s not fatal, because if it was a fatal attraction then other things would happen.
It is just penile attraction. That is all it is, so walk away from it.
You don’t vibe with her. You don’t relate to her. You two have totally different personalities. So walk away.