Has anyone ever told you you’re boring?

When you think about your life, would you say it was exciting and inspiring, or dull?

So many guys I speak to put me to sleep midway through conversation. They talk about themselves like they’re some kind of robot, spewing out a speech they’ve repeated dozens of times already during the day. How do you think women feel about men like that? Because let me tell you, these guys don’t have queues of women lining up to date them?

Women want to be inspired. Women want to be intrigued. And women want to know you offer some kind of variety to them. So how do you know if you’re boring and what can you do to change it?

In today’s podcast  I talk about this in great length and give you a couple of great exercises you can start doing today, to living up “your story.” But here’s what I want you to think about right now. When was the last time you went on vacation? When was the last time you went somewhere interesting? What new restaurants have you tried out in the last couple of months?  When did you last go the theatre or to watch a movie? What great books have you read in the last year that really touched and inspired you?

You see, you’re in complete control of the life you lead, and if you live a “boring” life, you have the power to change it. But it’s down to what you feed your brain and experiences. If you don’t go anywhere or do anything, you’re like a blank book with no words. I’m telling you, the key to becoming successful with women, and a great communicator in general, is being an interesting and inspiring guy.

This is a really powerful podcast so make sure you’re switched on and paying attention!