If Forrest Gump said that life is like a box of chocolates, then David Wygant can say that life is like a museum.
Think about it: in a museum you have so many things to talk about. You have nothing but built-in openers: “how does that make you feel?” “What do you see when you look at that?” There is always an object that you can talk about in a museum.
I took a group of guys on a bootcamp recently into an art museum. Why? It wasn’t to look at the artwork. We were there to overcome the fear of approaching – and they all did.
And if you look at it like this, life is like a giant museum – there is ALWAYS something to talk about.
You’re in line for sandwiches: “oh my god, are the sandwiches good here?”
You’re at a clothing store, and you try on a pair of jeans: “hey, how do these look on me? Let me get your opinion.”
Life is like a giant museum. If you can look at life like a museum, you will see everything much differently. There is always something to look at and something to talk about.
Life is like a giant museum everywhere you go.
You can stop on the street in front of a building anywhere and say, “wow, this building is really cool. What do you think of it?” She might answer, “well, I happen to live here!” and then you can have a conversation about it.
When it comes down to it, it’s about having fun and looking at all of life like it’s a giant museum.
Today check out a live approach in Bed Bath And Beyond. What exactly is beyond?
lol, I’d say my life is more like a rock concert or rave…
I’ve never run into a single female at a museum. Please tell me what museum single females hangout in so that I can go there.
Darryl,
Are you kidding me? Museums are great to meet women. There are always a lot of women.
I don’t know what city you live in but in LA, museums usually have the Friday night parties once a month.
During the summer, the Getty does it on the 3rd Friday (might be Saturday) of every month when you’ll have a live band, drinks and everything. LOTS OF HOT WOMEN!
The museum of history near USC also does first fridays. It’s great fun!
I’m in Birmingham, AL
the city with 0 places to meet a good woman
I have relatives in Alabama and have not been there since a child. Here in Tennessee we have bars is what we call lower end of Broad here in Nashville. In Ashland City TN you will be lucky just to find a grocery store that sells alcohol. Places here can not sell alcohol anywhere near a church and that sucks. Ok what I like in a museum is the Antebelum I believe Darryl will know what I am talking about. I like Southern Belle dresses and things of the Civil War era. Then we have the exhibit of Andrew Jackson sometimes I will visit the museum but I am not a honky tonk person. The guys in the video some people need space to figure out if they can get closer so they wont be invading someone else’s territory.
I am what you call a hillbilly girl without the hillbilly ways. I was raised by parents that are from West bygone VA.
Tennessee
Been to LA it is a beautiful city but to drive there I am a smoker I better take 3 cartons of cigs just to calm my nerves. I was a passenger in my daughters car she lives in LA county people that drive there would make us in Nashville TN look like we are taking driving courses.
Take it from me I don’t like to drive in Nashville I had rather drive in Clarksville or Ashland City. So when my daughter and son in law comes to visit. I remind them not driving in California you are now in Tennessee no obscenities out the window.
Kheim
Have a riddle for you? When a guy says you are a nice woman? Does that mean he is saying we are lower status as a woman? Then what is the difference when a woman says it to a man that does not mean he is lower than a man. I say that because I am shy of actually coming out and saying you are handsome or good looking. Now what is the difference. Did you not know and I teach this to my daughters: A man will treat the way you present yourself to him. If you present yourself as a slut he will treat you that way. But when you present yourself to him as a lady he will treat you like a lady.
And I tell them to speak softly in a man’s ear and he will respect. But be boisterious and loud mouth he will not be with you long.
Kheim
If you happen to see this on the blog you can email me your answer. Feel free. So we can respect David’s blog.
i like the blog….
hey taras if life for you is a rave/concer, mine will be a surfing line up : )
whose blog is this? Sandra’s?
I have a question for you guys: How many of you were raised with sisters and have actually raised a daughter from infancy to adulthood? Did you know that when you raise one of us you can say actually you know about women or have been raised around a sister. For if you watch her she will let you in on how us women act. Sorry Kheim I am daddy’s little girl my story. You know when your daughter becomes of dating age that the she brings home will have to pass your daddy’s little girl test. Now how you would treat a woman how would you like it if the guy was dating your sister or daughter treated her the same way. See goes both ways. Life is a museum but have you really looked at the creation of Earth it has its beauty. Observing people are a way of life.
I meant to say the guys she brings home to meet you will have to pass your daddy’s little girl test.
And remember daddy has you figured out before you even come into the house.
Yes but did I hear David say that if you have a question just put in the blog hey buddy Dan The Original I still believe in Freedom Of Speech so don’t tell me I don’t have that right.
Btw…Forest Gump was a great movie.
Hi Sandra:)
The guys on the video did good. They are animated, engaging, laughing, definitely shows that they’re having fun.
Hi Yakub
What u know good? But I have not seen the movie about Forest Grump but I was told that is was a good movie.
They sure are but I don’t like to yell and if I want to talk to a guy and he is standing too far I will tell come over here for I don’t want everyone in the store or outside to hear me.
Also I don’t want someone to close to my face either. To some people that can be offending.
David – I think that the “Beyond” is what you showed in your video du jour…very slick.
Okay, David we have one museum and I’ve talked to everyone there….all three of them. Though its a pretty interesting place it’s not exactly a big hangout. I’ll stick with going on the Redwood Parks department hikes.
I think it is Sandra’s blog
Yeah, what is beyond? What up Sandra, I live in B.G. KY. Partied on lower end many times!
Ours here in Tennessee is mainly the malls like Rivergate Cool Springs Hickory Hollow and etc. in Nashville. But if you are a honky tonker the lower end of Broad to meet someone at a bar. Yes I live close to Music City USA.
Home of Country Music. I have seen some music stars up close but this was at Nashville International Airport. I have actually seen Ed Bruce the one who played the sheriff in Maverick. Randy Travis lives in Cheatham County TN. And I don’t live far from Don Williams. I have seen Mel Tillis and he lives in Cheatham County. Most of your country music stars live in Hendersonville TN.
Britta
U do uh neat isn’t it.
Sorry a little Southern humor did not hurt anyone.
Years ago we had Opryland an amusement park but Gaylord Entertainment did away with that. And made it into Opry Mills a shopping mall. You wont catch me there during Christmas Holiday you cant stir those people with a stick. Or Rivergate Mall.
Did you know they say Opryland Motel is haunted?
Here in Nashville we have some not so good spots our Red Light territories are Dickerson Road near Trinity Lane. That is where the bad boys and girls hangout. There was a truck stop there years ago. Mainly that is where the hookers hang out and some on Murfreesboro Road. They just cleaned up Nolensville Road in Nashville.
Sandra,
I do not believe that a man tells you you are a nice woman means you are lower status. I never believe in a power/status struggle between man and woman.
What I do believe is that depending on the context, it may indicate whether he thinks of you fondly or not.
Nice is very vague. Most of the time, when someone likes you, they use a more specific adjective.
And thank you for your compliment.
On a different note, people always treat you the way you teach them to so you gave your daughters a great lesson.
Kheim
In my biblical studies of years ago. When Adam and Eve committed the sin in the Garden of Eden. The enmity was suppose to be between woman and satan. For woman would bear mankind with the help of the man. The enmity is not suppose to be between man and woman. This was a symbolic symbol of the Virgin Mary giving birth to our Lord Jesus.
Kheim send me your email address. I don’t necessarily do this but email me at angelmouse@bellsouth.net
You and I will go through a counseling session there.
not on the blog be expecting to hear from you. But I have an appointment 2pm cst. Let us respect David and do it through email.
Sandra
Joey
Nuttin much just a little Southern Humor. I mainly party at home here in the South.
>>>>>>>>This was a symbolic symbol of the Virgin Mary giving birth to our Lord Jesus.
A virgin giving birth…I wonder why that never made sense to me:-)
Sandra, nothing personal, but on a different blog some time ago you started mentioning about Jesus and your savior, etc. NOTHING makes me run faster from a woman with such strong Christian beliefs.
Amen:-)
Dan the Original
About 18 years ago I gave my life to Lord Jesus to be servant. I would not shove that up his ass even for you. God bless you and I will pray for you. Don’t knock my freedom of religion that is my right.
to be his servant and that is how I live my life today. I was raised to respect others beliefs and you should respect mine.
Dan The Original
I have something else to add. I was told by another individual you are one of those I don’t care gets resistance or not. It would be like me getting to know your friends not interested.
I don’t think I’ve ever talked religion on a date before…not sure about a blog.
>>>>>>>>>>>About 18 years ago I gave my life to Lord Jesus to be servant.
I just can not be a servant, not my personality:-) But playing the role of a master and a “willing” servant can be lots of fun sometimes;-)
>>>>>>>>>>>God bless you and I will pray for you.
Thank you for praying for me, it will help me sleep better tonight:-)
>>>>>>>>>>>Don’t knock my freedom of religion that is my right.
So is it your right to post here non stop too? You posted 3 times at 7.36,7.37,7.41 shortly after my post!…you likely have more than half of the posts in each blog ever since you showed up here….your posts don’t make much sense anyway most of the time but sometimes they have an interesting perspective and I enjoy reading them
You were the first one to post the Jesus is my savior crap not any of us!…do you see any of us talking religion here? Or are you here to save us from hell or what? Please post that stuff on christianmatch.com or something like that so you can find a match and you can both go do hail marys together and serve Jesus!
It could be an interesting blog for David to do on the subject “Is there any hope religious freaks can give their life and experience full pleasure with a member of the opposite sex if they have already given their life to Jesus and swear by the Bible…etc” Catch my drift? I will say it again:
Nothing makes me run faster away from a lady who reveals to me she is a hardcore christian!
Sorry for hijacking the blog….I just wished Sandra would post less, I am having a very hard time keeping up with all the comments lately:-)
Sorry for wasting your time…I wish there was a way in this blog comments stuff we can take it privately to spare the rest of the audience our shouting…But I must admit I always have a good time teasing the religious fundamentalists:-)
Truly respectfully
Come on Dan, tell us how ya really feel!
Sorry, but I just had to say it….
DAN— I love you
When Dan can prove to me he has a license to practice relationship counseling then I may listen to him.
Thank you Dan… someone had to say it. Sandra, you are using this blog as if it were e-mail or instant messaging. If you notice, no one else is blogging every thought that passes though their head. Don’t be offended, perhaps this is just not the right place for your many, many opinions on life. You appear to need everyone to respect all your rights, etc. That isn’t an excuse for all your excessive blog entries. Please realize none of us here are an authority, not even yourself, and try to relate to David’s blog with more appropriate comments. Not everything written here needs an editorial. We are all just sharing a experience, supporting each other, learning from David’s experiences, etc. Let’s just all try to be positive and enjoy the blog. That would include not monopolizing blog space. Try to take this constructively. Have a great day, and no need to pray for me. I’m all good there.
Also Sandra, just a little stats to back up things; out of 50 posts at this point, you have blogged 31 of them, that’s 62%. Less is more. Thank you in advance for understanding.
I thought this is a blog where everyone post their thoughts freely not a getto area
Seesh were an adults here so show some respect or dont read others blogging.
and dont make bad remarks about them
plus i am from California, and we do have lots of areas where single women roam in los angeles and plus I am a Jewish person and no offence but i dont like anti-semetic.
one more thing, thank you for the tip and keep up with the work Mr. Wygant.
Happy Hanukkah
I’m not deliberately being ignorant here, but I missed the anti-Semitism.
I think Sandra is posing as LadyKat.
Wow.
Britta are you saying im Sandra?
Britta
Are you saying that Lady Kat is me? Maybe it is your conscious bothering you. Hey I plan on blogging here til the sun comes up tomorrow morning. For I am off tomorrow.
Deb
On the stats of email blogs that I recieved in my email I bet I see about 30 of them when I come home from work or doing errands for my parent I see Sandra you have 15 to 20 emails in your box and they happen to be bloggers of all of you who is keeping count here.